I would never put something so personal on an app.
3 weeks
I know how you feel. Most feedees start out very thin. I want to be 185-200 pounds. I get jealous when I see other women with big bellies and some back fat. Don't let yourself get too obese though. Do you have a feeder?
3 weeks
PlumpChick:
Please listen to the doctor and get down to 500 pounds. You need to take care of your health first. And there is more to life than feederism. You need to be able to function normally. Don't you want to work and go for a walk in the park?
BigBallBellyGirl:
I know what your saying is medically sound, and you're absolutely right about there being more to life than feederism. It's the reason I won't let myself relapse. I'm coming up on my second anniversary, I have a lot of family, and I have friends i no longer get to see often unless they come over. I'm very very fortunate to have a good full-time job, and I work remotely, although we do occasionally have conferences that require travel. I couldn't participate last year in our organization's leadership conference because there was no way I would be able to make it to Chicago, despite accommodations. It's a true inner struggle, and it took five tries to find a therapist I could even begin to feel comfortable talking to about it.
I think you are on the correct path by talking to a therapist. Get down to 500 pounds so you can enjoy your fetish and participate in other aspects of life.
3 weeks
AskDrFeeder:This woman is at about my ideal size:
stufferdb.com/pictureBettiBubblegum:ooo this is like the perfect size.
I won't follow external links, sorry.
3 weeks
[quote]PlumpChick:
@AskDrFeeder No one should eat until they are too obese to walk around, use the bathroom by themselves and clean themselves. Feederism is cool but only to a limited extent. You should discourage the feedee if it is reaching the point of being crippling.
AskDrFeeder:
I agree, but that's not what I'm talking about. What if she won't be discouraged? What is her feeder supposed to do? Constantly nag her about her weight and eating habits?
Xx Lillith Xx:
I agree. I've been in that situation with a long term (now ex) partner. It wasn't a feedist relationship but he had terrible eating habits and gained so much he was over 600lbs.
It was truly awful, and as much as I tried to help him lose weight, he just continued. He got more passive agressive as time went on and became very abusive. In the end I had to leave.
There's really nothing you can do to help someone like this if they won't do it for themselves, and a relationship needs both people working together to make it work.
That is very true. In this life you must help yourself. No one can do it all for you.
3 weeks
That is very true. In this life, you have to help yourself. No one can do it all for you.
3 weeks
Please listen to the doctor and get down to 500 pounds. You need to take care of your health first. And there is more to life than feederism. You need to be able to function normally. Don't you want to work and go for a walk in the park?
3 weeks
Has anyone ever had trouble with aspiration, choking or vomiting during funnel feeding?
4 weeks
I am afraid that if someone isn't into a fetish or doesn't understand it, then that is the way the person is. You cannot convince him to be aroused by feeding you. Didn't you talk about your sexual desires before you got married?
4 weeks
Thanks for your reply. You made good suggestions.
4 weeks
