Having breasts alone is not enough to give you away. Especially since most genetic men don't grow that much. However, if you are wearing kind of frilly male clothes, wearing earrings, walking with a feminine gait, have long hair, have a somewhat high voice, then people will figure out what is happening.
6 months
Being involved with the size acceptance movement, I have seen way too many people die or become permanently disabled from Weight Loss Surgery. That is how Lisa Marie Presley died, I believe. Those who survived regained the weight. It doesn't work any better than any other diet, but with bad consequences.
AskDrFeeder:
One of the best parts of being a feedee is never having to diet.
It seems to me if that's your motivation, your goal should be to get fat enough to qualify for bariatric surgery but not _too_ fat for bariatric surgery. Not that you should necessarily have bariatric surgery, just that it's nice to have the option and it's nice to know if you reach that target you'll never have to diet.
Fat enough for bariatric surgery would be 40 bmi. Too fat is 450 pounds. Someone 5'7" tall, for example, should have a goal weight between 256 and 450 pounds.
Is this a crazy idea? I don't know, somehow I like it.
7 months
In most cases, people who fantasize about being fat, end up gaining. It's just natural. You have no reason to stay thin, and people tend to gain as they get older. I would not beat yourself up over it. Just enjoy it. I really see no religious reason to stay thin.
CuriousMe:
Hey ya’ll. I’m a mid-thirties female who has struggled with sexualizing weight gain and fat for a long while. I don’t necessarily want to indulge in this fetish and find it to be extremely distracting. Like, every time I see a heavy woman in public, I have to fight imagining myself at her size.
My mom used to be thin before I was born and then she “let herself go” and has been hovering around 200 pds as long as I can remember.
When I was a kid, my cousins and I used to stuff our clothes and pretend we were really fat. In my teens, I was a little chunky and one comment from my dad had me start focusing on my diet and exercise routine more. I used to fantasize about heavyset men at that age and the fantasies always involved humiliation.
Then fast forward to an unhealthy relationship where the guy I was with was seeing his ex on the side who was very curvy. I was in size 2 and 4 and she was a solid 16. So at that point my fetish flickered back on and I was trying to intentionally gain. But I never liked how I felt stuffed or feeling lethargic. I enjoy working out. 😂
So then my fantasies started turning into non-consent weight gain where a fit friend or a boyfriend would try to fatten me up through “protein” bars and vitamins that they told me would help me lose weight. All the while I was working out and my leggings were getting tighter and my butt was growing bigger and my belly would grow. There would be some humiliation involved. That is still extremely hot to me. And it simultaneously disgusts me.
Then I got pregnant and really enjoyed gaining. And it was socially acceptable. I didn’t try to stuff or overeat but I did love feeling big and heavy. Seeing my belly all round and my breasts went from C to DDD. I liked how big my hips got and even my little pregnant waddle.
Post-partum, I had no issue losing the weight. I breastfed, worked out, ate healthy. And even started a health coaching course.
And here I am fit and now engaged to a heavyset man who is around 300 pds. 5’ 9”. His belly is big and round and he is trying to lose the weight so he can be healthier. And I have seen photos of him fit and he is fine! But there is the fetish part of me that is wildly attracted to him bulging out of his shirts and overeating, taking naps. I even kind of like being really fit next to him in photos and seeing his double chin.
We are saving sex till marriage. And we are both working out now, but I have this extreme urge to gain weight before the wedding day. And surprise him with bigger hips. It seems deceitful in a way to say I’m trying to stay fit and then to secretly take supplements and try to gain. But there is something about that that really turns me on.
I’m at a crossroads. As a follower of Christ, I feel it is dishonorable to my temple to intentionally try to stuff it. My natural shape is fit. And I’m fantasizing forcing it to be curvy.
So sorry this is so long but I made an account on here to try to get to the bottom of this. Has anyone else experienced this kind of inner conflict?
It feels very self-sabotaging and I tend to obsess about it. Looking up weight gain products, padding, and anything that can fill my urge to feel heavier without actually committing to gaining. 🫣
To all those who choose to gain, I respect you. I am truly just a fantasy type girl who landed a fat hubby.
By the way, he knows about this fetish. But he thinks I am beautiful as I am and doesn’t want me to trash my temple for the sake of satisfying an unhealthy sexual urge.
7 months
I personally lost two friends when Fen-Phen was popular. It was supposed to be safe, and the answer to all weight loss desires. Sadly, these two people died from it. Chances are, your wife will regain the weight, plus more eventually.
7 months
I'm a 73 year old male and am married. Probably the furthest away from the average user here. Every once in a while, I get a quick response in mail, with a hi or hey, etc. After about 10 times back in fourth, I get the question, "Do you want to be my feeder." Translation: will you send me money. This is despite saying in my profile that I do not send money to people I meet online. My connection to the feedee community is that after dating BBW's for many many years, I don't think I've known one in person who likes being fat wants to gain. I'm fascinated by people who enjoy it and want to get bigger. (Although I am fine with people who want to stay the same.) When I was single, I was quite generous to women that I dated. So, I'm not a cheapskate. So, I'm glad to talk about fat acceptance history, glad to answer relationship questions, since I am not looking for anything here. If we have anything else in common, I'll be glad to talk about that too. Just, please don't start the conversation with "hey." If you want to chat (and I realize that most don't want to and I'm fine with that), please state the purpose of why you chose me over the thousands of other people here in your first message. Also, I am not into other men, so I probably won't answer that either. I get the comment that if I want to chat with females here, I have to send them money. And no, I don't want to chat with females who expect money.
7 months
It depends on exactly what the medical conditions are. It also depends on how much pain you want to be in, how much you want your mobility, and how long you want to live.
9 months
I think men who have big rear ends have more estrogen in their systems than an average male. They would likely have breasts too.
10 months
I hope you haven't gone wedding dress shopping yet.
BigBallBellyGirl:
Now that I've kind of let go, I cannot stop packing my belly.
I ate modestly during the work day, but since I logged out at 5:00 p.m., I have had a large cheese pizza with extra cheese and mushrooms, sixteen boneless wings, a footlong turkey club sub, a can of sour cream and onion Pringles, a whole bag of grapes, 23 Oreos, a 2. L of Dr. Pepper,, one beer, and about 8 oz. of Monterey Jack cheese.
I'm splitting at the seams, and I'm sweating, but I am loving every minute of the tightness in my belly.
10 months
