At first they will be shocked or even comment. But as you keep gaining it will be less of a shock and they won’t even discuss it anymore.

I say, get a small shock out of the way at and then in May they may not even notice the extra 30+ pounds you intend to add after the first visit.

Interesting - I have not done padding since I was young but definitely still love the thought, in fact some of the earliest memories of stuffing pillows was during my sexual arousal starting point.

Several years ago I packed on a lot of pounds and a huge Gut. At first it was accidental weight gain and then after I noticed, I was intentionally stuffing all the time to gain as much as I could, mostly to have my wife tease, scold or even reprimand me for packing on such a huge belly.

I kept going for many months and had the most I tense arousal feelings while always being so bloated and stuffed. Not to mention, I was constantly ravenous and ate so much. My XL T-shirts were completely stretched out with my huge belly and even rode up a few inches mostly after eating a huge meal. It was during these times I would go grocery shopping at my local store where I knew many employees for many years wearing my now way outgrown jeans in a 36” waist stretched to the max under my huge gut when bloated was easily 49” with my XL T-shirt that was more like a medium with my belly peeking a good 3-4” out the bottom. I would come through the line with an obscene amount of Ben n Jerry’s, cookies, chocolates and some wine when I would see a lady I have known for many years and some 50+ pounds ago. She must have been thinking, Wow, has he really porked out and knowing why with the cart filled with fattening treats for myself and my wife. I would get so aroused leaving there with my arms filled with bags and my huge fat gut sticking out in front of me and bouncing up and down with every step back to my car.

This same arousal and erotic rush turned a bit into embarrassment and shame when I would meet up with some of our couples for meds for dinner and a night out which I hadn’t seen since I packed on all my weight. I remember going in for a hug with the wife of the couple we met up with and her actually bouncing back off my belly and struggling to wrap her arms around me. I was so embarrassed the whole dinner and really tried to contain myself from resting or eating too fast in front of them. My wife had been fattening up right along with me for the past many months although hers was not intentional. Also, she had the habit of gaining 20-30 pounds and then dieting over the years so friends were more used to seeing her either very chunky or slightly thinner from time to time. My wife even comment after she ordered a couple extra appetizers after the lady ordered two already “which I was happy about” but my wife said, as you might have noticed we have developed bigger appetites recently. I was in shock and embarrassed and my wife was used to this stuff with herself but I was never included in one of these bring it out in the open moments about weight gain.

So, I guess I differ with feelings having an bit gay gut sticking out in front of me around friends while I was at my heaviest than I did with strangers and or people I knew from a restaurant or grocery store that were not really friends, that I enjoyed showing how fat I had become. In fact during this time I liked having my wife and Isolated a bit from friends and family where we could just eat and get fatter around each other.

If you keep going like you say you have been I am sure you can surpass that goal.

Interested in hearing more on your journey - good luck!

Constantly stuffing will leave you nice and bloated. It seemed to encourage me to keep going when I was bloated and big all the time.

Stuffing will quickly increase your appetite by stretching out your stomach. It happened for me fairly quickly within 3-4 weeks. I made a point to continue and keep stuffing more and more for around four months. My appetite became huge, I could easily eat three times as much at every meal along with needling snacks between meals which I never did before.

You may hit some plateaus but the muscle memory of your gut will need feeding so you will eventually gain again with the extra consumption of food.

It’s a fun experience continuing to get bigger and grow in a relatively short time frame and seeing huge results.

So, you consider yourself a feedee?

If so, she may like you softer and fatter as well as bigger muscularly as a muscle chub. But, I believe the FA Feedee within you is picking up exaggerated signs from her liking you being fatter. It’s a fine thing, why don’t you just really try and get fat and see how she keeps reacting - and let us know.

That’s for sure!

If you mean:

You look at yourself barely chubby while someone else may look at you and think you are quite Fat?

I believe that being involved in this and into weight gain it is certainly true that we view fat as a lot more fat than someone without this fetish who are not into weight gain. But, I guess it is all just in perception. I can tell if my wife gains 5 lbs. but, I never think it looks bad, only better always. She has never gained enough weight for me to not try ink she was hottest at her heaviest.

Also, I guess my level of fat was on women has gone much higher over the years. Hopefully I answered your question a bit here.

Sounds pretty good! Have fun!

Exactly - Damn, I really wish my wife would agree to this!😍

The initial meetings after a gain is always the most embarrassing, shocking or exciting on some levels.

After you are similar weight or even increase they almost don’t notice or either expect it.

When I was at my fattest I felt best around my wife who was also at her fattest. I didn’t really want to go through ur with our friends and we kind of hibernated a bit more. I felt slightly shy or embarrassed. I did however get pretty aroused by seeing people I wasn’t necessarily friends with like grocery store employees I have known for a long time or restaurant employees and emphasizing my huge new gut sticking out in front of me. I am sure they probably were quite shocked seeing my wife and I at the store with a loaded grocery cart with an obscene amount of Ben n Jerry’s, cookies etc every week all the while they have seen us both a good 60 pounds lighter each.