Possibly not the best title, but what I was getting at is how many of you have some vivid memories of weight gain and fat at an early age and can still recite the feelings.

I remember being in 2nd or 3rd grade in Elementary school and seeing the girls in the class with chubbier thicker arms. Not to mention seeing a few shirts that rose up and seeing a deep navel surrounded by a lot of soft meat “Fat”. It not only wowed me but I became attracted to the girls that had these qualities and were fatter than the other girls.

The first girl I was really attracted to was chunky and thick with the cutest face. From this point I not only related to the fat but the cuteness and this became my ideal look for the girls I was attracted to. They had to have a cute face and be considerably chubbier than the other girls. At this time chubbier meant having some meat on their bones and a deeper belly button from a fatter belly.

I also remember going into 7th grade not seeing a kid I knew from school for several years. His parents owned an Italian restaurant in our area. I hadn’t seen him since middle of the year 6th grade I suppose, summer had passed and 2nd half of the year in 7th grade he definitely changed. He had the biggest belly sticking out of front of him straining his shirt even with a hang to it because it was so heavy and big. This was the first time I experienced looking at a boys belly and admiring as well as being in shock. He literally must have packed on a good 40 pounds at his size in this time all to his big fat pizza/lasagna belly.

Another time right around this 6/7th grade time I was on vacation with my family. We were camping and I saw a woman that had on jeans shorts and a tank top, she was fairly short and really fat and wore her skintight cut off Jean shorts and had the fattest huge thunder thighs. I remember being totally attracted to how fat they were and how much cellulite she had on them.I fantasized about this for many memories later.

Another time several family’s in the neighborhood were going to the beach together. When I got there I saw a woman who happened to be a step mom of one of the neighbor kids that I never had seen before. She was in a one live and was really tan pretty and Fat. Her butt and thighs were massive and riddled with cellulite. I couldn’t get her Vision out of my eyes and I must have formed my favorite womanly figure then which was a Fat pear shape with huge upper arms and a big lower belly to go with the massive bottom half.

I relate to this with the weight I like on women, which has only gone up and up and up over time.

I also, relate to this with my own gaining, I never felt big enough as I reached new highs and kept pushing the end zone up further.

While I was intentionally gaining, I couldn’t believe how much my appetite grew and after stiffing myself how big and bloated my gut was which then made me so horny and aroused, which then made me hungry again to get even bigger. It was a vicious cycle that could really lead to some extreme weight gain.

I took this thread slightly differently from the title.

My take was when I was secretly intentionally gaining, but to have my wife either tease me, scold me or be concerned for how big of a Gut I was packed on.

To do this, I was constantly stuffing myself when I wasn’t with her for lunch and plenty of fattening of snacks in between. This went on for months and I was even drinking heavy cream in between appointments after lunch in my car. At the time, my appetite increased so much while constantly stuffing I didn’t even have to try stuffing after a while, I was now ordering and obscene amount at lunch, drive through a fast food spot and order easily three meals and two milkshakes. It was crazy, that the fatter you get how you crave fattening fast food and other extremely calorie dense meals. I would come home after completely stuffing all day and have the highest bloated gut and my wife would have a massive dinner prepared for us. I didn’t even have the urge of ginger but once I started eating I was a bottomless pit, I just kept shoveling in my mouth. I would have seconds and sometimes thirds to try and get a reaction out of her. By this time in the evening my gut was massive and so distended I looked like I was 20 months pregnant. I would then go upstairs with my wife and get into the shower while she was undressing next to the shower and getting her pajamas on and talking to me while I showered. It was such a thrill, she would be talking and Nikki g at me on the shower while I was softly soaping my massive gut and all I could think was what she must be thinking, “How could my husband become this huge, his belly is so massive he can’t even barely reach around it to soap himself”. I would dry off out of the shower and I would lumber into bed with her and she would say nothing after witnessing my massive transformation. Of If I didn’t know any better I honestly believed she loved her new fattened husband and probably thought it was her making me this huge from all of her cooking, even though my secret feeding of myself is what produced most of this 50-60 pound gain in a relatively short six months.

I love before & after pictures - but especially like the vulnerability of how one got there. Things like their appetite got larger and then continued to out of control eating as well as the difference the weight has an effect on them not only visually but stamina and not being able to do routine things they used to or even how they operate more because of the larger size and all the extra weight gained!

This is very true - also, surround all your time together eating and snacking and before you know it you will both be getting fatter and crave eating so much.

Congrat’s -

Your girl has not commented in anyway at all? Has she been given your belly extra attention or cuddles?

Yes, this seems to be quite common.

I happened to have a lack of weight gain on my wife for many years. I started cooking for us and was making some really heavy laden meals. She was never shy of eating deserts and snacks and I started buying plenty of her favorites while I was shopping for our meals. I noticed her after several months she had really started gaining weight again. We would finish out huge heavily carb laden fattening meals and we would retire to the couch to watch some Netflix. She would bring me over a huge bowl of ice cream and plop down with a Ben n Jerry’s pint herself. This went on for another month or so and I loved how much she was gaining. What I didn’t realize is ll of a sudden she came back from the grocery store with a ton of ice cream, cookies and chocolates and did to me “I got your favorite flavor of ice cream and your Oreos”. All of a sudden I realized that I had. Sweet tooth just like her when I never have in the past. It was then that I realized I had a pretty good size gut sticking out in front of me nowadays. I became very aroused and decided to intentionally stiff myself and get as huge as I could, mostly to have my wife tease, scold or even reprimand me for packing on such a huge gut.

My wife will make very general comments about her figure after a gain which I absolutely love. Here are a few:

Wow, I’m getting heavy again
I have really put on some weight
I am getting big again

I am not sure why I love them so much - does anyone else like these types of general statements to description of weight gain or fat.

Anxious to here others - great thread!

When I was at my fattest after stuffing all day and all night huge and bloated. I would take a shower before bed - many times as I was soaping my huge gut sticking so far out in front of me I would get so aroused I would have to pleasure myself to completion, even though I was getting into bed with my fattened & bloated wife whom was going to climb right on top of me. I just couldn’t hold back from the huge gut I had created!

Yes, actual weight and appearance are two different things for sure.

I have always weighed more than others think look where as my wife always weighs much less than everyone would think.

It’s crazy because one of the things early on that was extremely arousing with weight gain to me was the scale. Every time my wife would weigh herself in front of me I was in awe at how low it seems compared to what I thought it would register.