Masuli:
So I have been part in the community for long time.
There isn't meetups in here or events.
So I was wondering does other people feel lonely?
Would be nice to meet other people from the community that are like minded.
How do people in general find other people to spend time time with?
I'm old, I hung up my wild days on a nail I drove through my marriage license when I put it on the wall.
To put it bluntly, I don't spend time with other people in the community. I know one FFA who might be into this /stuff/ *gestures vaguely* but we are coworkers. Broaching the topic beyond introducing our spouses and sharing a knowing wink and extremely low key respect knuckle, would, I feel, be inappropriate.
As for where do people in this community meet? Well, here, on the internet, mostly.
Fantasy Feeder is good for seeing who might be local. DM them, say, "Hello!", don't be a creep.
As for casual encounters and more esoteric pleasures, you would probably have the best /luck/ with a certain fetish lifestyle website. Be cautious, shit gets weird real fast in that corner of the internet.
If your lucky there might be a size acceptance club within driving distance you could check out. (Shout out to the Butterfly Lounge!) I've also had some luck hanging out with similarly bent individuals at strip clubs that have "thiccc Thursday's". I Still have a few good friends from my younger and more halcion days whom I met at a weekly bbw night at a strip club. The men at those events are, to me, aloof and strange, but the masc. lesbians are usually gregarious and funny and make good wing /men/ and friends.
