I didn’t start getting my belly until my 30s. It sure came and stuck around even as the number in the scale was a yo-yo at times :-) Hoping I can get back above 200 soon!
5 months
For me, it’s any time my weight is up instead of down. My ball belly poofs out from any shirt I try to wear :-) Would love to grow my mini-moobs!
5 months
LoLbreadplease:
If this is something that has always been on your mind but you kept it to yourself, explore it. I do recommend sharing with your significant other as soon as you can, discussing it openly and nonjudgmentally. Be honest about what you need (which for me was the hardest).
Feel how you're doing daily - check in with yourself. Go with your mood. Feel the feelings. Write it down.
Take more pictures, a lot more, with and without clothes. Laying down, sitting, standing, all of it.
Enjoy your body!!
Indeed, being nonjudgmental with oneself and with a partner is key with all this. It took a while to fully verbalize my love of her figure when others didn’t love it. It only made our love stronger and she’s much more confident shaking off her body because I was genuine about it.
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Probably what we did tonight at the house — catch a second wind in between pizzas and polishing off a third and fourth whole pizza, respectively :-) My wife can down some pizza, for sure!
5 months
I prefer to wear mine under my ball belly so it accentuates it :-) My wife stopped wearing underwear years ago because she simply got too fat for it to be comfy. She wears hers midway up her double belly, mainly to keep up the crease separating upper from lower :-)
5 months
It would be a bit of a drive from the Deep South, but my wife and I would love it :-) We’re really wanting to be around more like-minded people for good eats, showing off clothes that show off our bellies and just having a good time with other gainers.
5 months
We occasionally put a whole pint of it in our cream sauces for pasta. Both of us can easily polish off a big plate of sketti, but even we have trouble having rom for more since it’s so filling and fattening :-)
5 months
RoundRosy:
So no comments by me or my daughter that I picked up from the airport last night. She’s gotten quite heavier since I last saw her last summer and so have I. Think her fiancée likes her gains….. as she’s close to about 230 lbs. or so now I’d guess…. Don’t think discussing our weight will be an issue this coming week.😏
Sounds like she’s definitely inherited the fat gene :-) My wife’s daughter from her first marriage has also followed in her footsteps with gaining a lot of weight after high school. Not quite up to 300+ like her mama, but she’s getting close. So I don’t think weight discussions will happen with them, either :-)
5 months
Fitfats:
So I've been dating this woman for 7 months. She's fun, impulsive, we have crazy chemistry, banter and a dynamic unlike anything I've ever had before. She's a short slightly bigger girl and had a lot of body hangups when we first dated. She used to be a good 100lbs heavier and her family and ex used to make her really self conscious of it.
I've been building up her body confidence in the bedroom. I'm constantly praising her for her curves. Lately she's realised that pushing out her belly, ass and tits making her look bigger has turned me on and she also knows that I love a food baby on a stuffed up girl.
The bedroom life is amazing. She asked me to call her "my greedy girl," and she's been enjoying food coma belly rubs. She's even started to regain the weight she's lost from her diet since she started dating. We've been sharing more about each others kinks and desires trying to be as open as possible with one another. I've not mentioned feedism to her but mentioned I would love to try to food play with her.
A couple weeks ago. She shared with me a fantasy for the new restraints I got her.
She wants to come over mine and be blindfolded and restrained by me, to be fed a meal and dessert, before lifted over to the sofa (or her "throne" as she calls it) where I'll worship and have her.
This kinda took me by surprise as I expected her past body hang ups to block her wanting from wanting to try feedism. At the same time I'm seeing her get more and more confident, embracing her figure so I want this experience to satisfy her and not bring up any of the negative trauma her family used to bully her with.
She already wants to be fed strawberry chocolates for dessert. But I'm hitting a blank with what to feed her for her first ever feeding?
Do you guys have any meals you'd recommend me cooking her?
Any advice on how to make it a safe space for her without intimidating her or bringing up the past trauma will also be appreciated.
Make her feel loved and appreciated and you really can’t go wrong 👍
5 months
JN_TumLover56:
Well I’m not sure if this will answer your question, but depending on the season I’ve seen some shirts from Torrid that looked like crop tops. Or really anything that’s summer appropriate for the season??
Torrid is already the pick after a few other replies came in through other channels, thanks!
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