It's possible for us to make a feederism full length feature film. We have the tech, we have the stories. All we have is What's Eating Gilbert Grape and FEED.

We need to do it as a compelling story and it needs some super realistic CGI.

The challenges that need to be solved are to make the story gripping from the start without the Feedee growing super sized within the first 5 minutes. We need them to battle with the contradictions between what they know is right for their life like staying mobile with the desire to just become huge and immobile.

A writer needs to create that situation where even the Feeder viewer is not sure which way they want it to go.

The Feedee protagonist needs to be attractively plump to begin with to keep the Feeder audience interest but with the desires than mean she could grow massively.

The dilemma between health and well being of the Feedee ve her desires to eat and grow fatter should be placed on the Feeder in the movie and hence the audience.

Do you go with stopping the gluttony to save the Feedees health or do you do with the Feedees freedom to eat what she wants and accept the consequences. You can throw in the Feedee being a victim not in full control of her life just to make the decision more challenging.

For some the Feedees desire to eat will be all that matters yet for other's the Feeder being a predator desiring a Feedee who just eats and needs to be stopped.

It could be a very exciting movie that splits the community.

I think we'd change Panda for Obese but the concept is interesting.

The way we think about a person when normal sized compared to super obese is challegning because it's the same person. I probably look more different at 57 than 25 but I don't feel that much different. It seems like yesterday but I know I must been seen very differently.

That's not how it works.

When you first get fat your belly balloons. It sticks out, it does not hang. Once you've been fat a while it starts to loosen up and hang.

In fact it will hang more if you're very fat and lose some weight.

I had someone chat with me for a bit but it became apparent they were pretending to be a gainer when they kept asking questions someone that fat would already know the answer to. I don't mind them having a fantasy and I did not call them out on it however they closed their account without saying goodbye.

I'm not sad about it but I know had this become a serious friendship based on a lie with someone who did not know then they would be left heart broken.

Yeah, don't ghost people, it does hurt feelings. Not the end of the world but we can make this a better place with some honesty.

If you're feeling low and you've put your feelings out there for someone then being ghosted can be a cruel blow.

The best thing is to say you don't think you're compatible. The worry is they start stalking, that's the flip side.

You could be eating right now. Just letting your belly drive you. Mouthful after mouthful until you only have a little food left and no room to eat more. You could try and force the last bites of food and then collapse with exhaustion.

If you had Feeders you'd have no responsibility, no need to get up and do anything unless you wanted to. Just letting it happen.

I remember that sinking feeling when chatting with someone on ICQ when you're both on dial up and they ghost you. Always blame the tech or else it will give you heartache.

I think it has a lot to do with running out of messages. No one is going to be able to form a meaningful friendship with such a limited message system. Maybe use chat and maybe switch to email.

Don't take it to heart.

If you want to form a relationship over the Internet DO NOT take it slow. The spark will form flames which will then burn out if you don't step things up. I know that sounds like the opposite advice to what everyone else says but the Internet is really not the place to have a physical relationship.

This is the practical aspect of living one's life. As long as she does not combine riding a motorbike with eating to immobility then things will work out.

You have that special attitude a feeder like me seeks.