BlackBriarMeadery:
I'm not sure if it's universal but I've noticed that plenty of people message me once or twice and then left me on read , but also constantly check my profile and like my pics.
Like no you aren't going to have access to my pics after you ghosted me. Lol
Anyone else experience this?
I think it has a lot to do with running out of messages. No one is going to be able to form a meaningful friendship with such a limited message system. Maybe use chat and maybe switch to email.
Don't take it to heart.
If you want to form a relationship over the Internet DO NOT take it slow. The spark will form flames which will then burn out if you don't step things up. I know that sounds like the opposite advice to what everyone else says but the Internet is really not the place to have a physical relationship.
2 years
English Feeder:
As a feeder and enabler i have had plenty of time to think and reflect to where me and my partner are now. I remember walking miles along the seafront and sitting on a bench with my chubby girlfriend, eating fish and chips. Nowadays she can't stand for as long as a minute her legs and back can no longer support her weight. She can barely ride her mobility scooter and has recently gone into a wheelchair. We both know she has very limited mobility and she has made it very clear she wishes to continue gaining weight. Becoming fully immobile is a reality.
On the subject of Death feedists.
Being immobile and morbidly obese can increase the risk of illness and death.
But for my partner it's the thrill of being fat that drives her on. To put things in prospective. Smoking does kill people, but not everyone. Climbing mountains is a dangerous past time. A motor bike is more dangerous than a car. But many people are killed in car accidents. Doesn't stop people driving or being passengers in cars. Aeroplanes crash millions of people fly every year. Basically most things in life carry a risk but for my partner the outcome of being bedridden is worth the risk. Currently we are planning her immobility. With the view of minimising the risks involved. She knows what she wants. If she wishes to stop she has my full support.
This is the practical aspect of living one's life. As long as she does not combine riding a motorbike with eating to immobility then things will work out.
2 years
Hedonistic_Purity:
The trick is to sabotage yourself. Stop moving whenever possible to lose muscle, force junk into your body and stretch your stomach, ruin your metabolism, and date an evil feeder. But the time you change your mind and want to live through the decade, you'll be helpless, addicted, and trapped even before immobility.
ChunkyHunk:
THIS!
You have that special attitude a feeder like me seeks.
2 years
I really only like Wipeout and all the antigravity sci fi racing games similar to it. I like Grip too, even though half the cars have wheels.
2 years
Big Boy 95:
I would say you keep medical fees low too
I dunno, there are a lot of bullet holes in your body on a typical journey.
2 years
Big Boy 95:
I mainly play on Xbox, I play a little bit of everything from fallout 3/4 / new Vegas / 76 to gta5 also passing through halo Apex etc ..
GTA5 is a good way to learn to drive. Driving that way also keeps your motoring expenses low. I've never had to put fuel in my car or even arrive in the same car I started in.
2 years
Bellyempire:
This kink and many kinks and fetishes have a way of objectifying people. Its amazing this are people with real problems real issues they are trying to sort out.
I don't know if you're lamenting or virtue signalling. Nether make sense here in FF. OK you're just noting the situation.
2 years
Weetabix:
She seems very smart and knows what she wants, which is why I felt it odd when the TV program portrayed her as some kind of helpless victim trying to please men for money. I put that down to the TV company needing an angle to generate sympathy for her. You could otherwise quite easily say, well you did that to yourself because you wanted to and got admiration and money.
Bellyempire:
I had a friend that died last year. She weighed about 800 at one point. She was trying to get on the show to help her with weight loss. The doctors said she need to loss weight in order to get another surgery.
My 600lb life said they would help but they required her to get on tv and act traumatized and helpless. They required her to buy alot of macdonalds and eat it for pictures. she refused and there for didnt get on the show.
I dated girl that was actually on it before she passed away. We had broken up by that time but she called me and asked that i come on the show as her boyfriend because it would help ratings.
Weetabix:
You were very fortunate. I some times wonder if these people would have better lives without the 'help'. I think if you genuinely can't stop eating to save your life then be honest and admit you'd rather have the short life than the slightly longer life without doing what makes you happy. Very often these people don't have any longer life having lost their target weight.
When you are helpless then what you eat is pretty much the only thing you do control. At least admit you make that choice.
Bellyempire:
I wouldn't say fortunate. I lost two people whose friendships i really valued. It really changed how i saw myself in the world of fat admiration.
No matter how much like fat people and our sexual attraction we have to understand it does shorten your life.
I was assuming that it shortened their lives. Fortunate that you were able to know them because of that reason. There are people I knew but never met who have passed.
2 years
Weetabix:
She seems very smart and knows what she wants, which is why I felt it odd when the TV program portrayed her as some kind of helpless victim trying to please men for money. I put that down to the TV company needing an angle to generate sympathy for her. You could otherwise quite easily say, well you did that to yourself because you wanted to and got admiration and money.
Bellyempire:
I had a friend that died last year. She weighed about 800 at one point. She was trying to get on the show to help her with weight loss. The doctors said she need to loss weight in order to get another surgery.
My 600lb life said they would help but they required her to get on tv and act traumatized and helpless. They required her to buy alot of macdonalds and eat it for pictures. she refused and there for didnt get on the show.
I dated girl that was actually on it before she passed away. We had broken up by that time but she called me and asked that i come on the show as her boyfriend because it would help ratings.
You were very fortunate. I some times wonder if these people would have better lives without the 'help'. I think if you genuinely can't stop eating to save your life then be honest and admit you'd rather have the short life than the slightly longer life without doing what makes you happy. Very often these people don't have any longer life having lost their target weight.
When you are helpless then what you eat is pretty much the only thing you do control. At least admit you make that choice.
2 years
