Take it slow, learn to pace yourself, and eat a variety of things, not just ice cream and sweets. It's fine to eat junk food, but eat healthy stuff as well. You might try eating healthy in the beginning of the day and switching to fattening goodies after you satisfy your nutritional requirements. Or eat healthy meals, but double down on snacks and dessert.
After awhile you'll get used to eating like that and will be able to eat more and enjoy it.
1 year
Make friends with fat people. This will normalize fatness in your mind and make it easier to deal with.
You shouldn't dump your thinner friends, but a little distance might be good, especially if they are judgmental fitness freaks or diet Nazis.
1 year
MitchHedberg:I haven't noticed this at all, just look at the WeightGainTalk subreddit and you'll find tons of people apprehensive about judgement.
Weight based discrimination has actually increased over the last few years, despite everyone being fatter on average.
According to this it could be linked to a resurgence in right-wing values but I'm not making that claim myself:
bristol.ac.uk/neuroscience/news/2023/obesity-stigma.html I think the article is probably right, that anti-fat discrimination is correlated with right-wing views. But it doesn't present any evidence that it's on the increase.
That has nothing to do with my conjecture anyway. Feedees could less conflicted than they used to be even if there was a rise in discrimination.
1 year
Unrelated but why does your account say you’re 12 years old???
AskDrFeeder:
Anonymity concerns.
FAMGM:
You’d purport to be a minor for the sake of anonimity? Why not make your age 20, and put in your profile that it is not your actual age?
If you have questions about me, please message me or start another thread. I'd rather this thread not be diverted.
1 year
Unrelated but why does your account say you’re 12 years old???
Anonymity concerns.
1 year
It seems like feedees are less conflicted these days. They jump in with both feet and aren't as worried about what people think.
Has anyone else noticed this? Or do you think I'm wrong?
1 year
For me it's when a woman has always wanted to eat a lot and get fat but is afraid to. Then she meets a feeder who helps her overcome her fears and start gaining. Then she finds she LOVES it and gets FAT.
1 year
There's no group chat or forum, but the near-line chat is much better for talking to one person than ff. On ff you have to awkwardly switch between messages and chat.
The feed is pretty cool for general discussions. I have to say group chat on ff has never worked for me very well, but the feabie feed ain't bad.
I also like how you can filter who you want to see and talk to. You can pretty much make a custom site based on your tastes!
The weight-gain charts are also very good, especially when the gains are paired with the pics.
1 year
1. Do you ever regret it?
2. Do you frequently regret it?
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
These are pretty much yes or no questions, but feel free to add details.
1 year
According to many reports, the regain is faster and more intense.
1 year
