Some men like big boobs; I like big women.

Some like domination games; I like getting my wife fat despite her not really leaning that way, and having her accept she's fat.

Sometimes I feel guilty about not having her have the life of a thin woman she yearns for but then I remember how she does nothing to be that way. So, she's fat again now (220-ish) and eventually I'm growing her fatter.

Then this is a nice place to come to

Good to have you here!

So the doc appointment fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts has passed.

She's gone down from a gorgeous 213 lbs to 205 lbs in the mean time. Took good effort and I helped a lot.

Been telling her how pretty she is but that's about it.

This week she reached her breaking point and asked for a piece of cake (evening 1) followed by cake (evening 2). I got some chips at the same 23-15-42 - why not, right? - as well as ice cream. She's at 209, almost 210 now.

Been cuddling a lot, holding her belly again at night.

The score is still going on. She's been 200+ for over half a year now, despite several diet attempts, with an average of 205-207 lbs. It's hard to make her let go. On the other hand, I should realize 200+ is a very nice score to have a woman at

ps: have put the scales in another room to discourage her following along too close

Somewhere coming month my wife has an appointment with her doctor. That goes hand in hand with a stern look from the doctor and a "you're X lbs"

I expect a weight loss attempt. When it comes to dieting is is and remains a "let's do this!" kind of gal. "1000 calories is too much for me!" Meal replacement drinks. Fruit. Boiler air. That's followed by hunger and giving in, or, if she continues, by a weight loss plateau with gaining as soon as she eats again.

I'm going to be all supportive, genuinely helping her. Not even snacking in front of her. I'll help her starve herself Asking for more food, especially the type and quantities she knows will do the opposite of losing weight, has to come from herself. That keeps me from feeling like a jerk for tempting or manipulating her, and it helps her internalize the weight loss defeat.

so, soon the games will be on again!

Makes you smile, doesn't it

I have mine around 34. My goal is to get her to 35 where she is Severely Obese.

I don't care too much. Noticed that if I gain a bit too much I sleep bad as I lay uncomfortably.

My wife likes me with a flat stomach. Doesn't need to be a six pack, just not a really belly

The visuals when she's dressed. The backfat being squeezed by her bra straps. Her belly visible.

At night, spooning with her; my arm over her belly, my hand a bit under it. Sometimes my hand goes numb from the weight

How she feels and looks.

Like you, I'm an enabler/encourager. If she wants to "1000 calories a day should be enough!" then I help her with that. But the moment she says "do we have chips?", I'm going to give them to her.

She doesn't like weight gain, often says she doesn't like her body this way, but over the course of our marriage she has basically done this eating thing.

To be done with that feeling you describe, I just told her last year. When I had made clear I like her with more meat on her and it came to dieting, I said that I have no problem supporting her, but that I don't want to be the food police. That when she asks for ice cream, she's going to get ice cream. The responsibilty for her weight management should be with her.

I just make the path of least resistance, which she likes to take, as enjoyable and tempting as possible. Never any negative comments on her eating. Display of love and affection for how she looks. Combined with the fact that eating is more fun than being on a diet, she keeps taking that path of least resistance.

Another thing that comes into play is that there are XXXX options:

1. She diets, remains more or less overweight, and dieting makes her feel miserable for missing out
2. She diets, loses lots of weight, but can't go back to enjoying food -- so she feel miserable about missing out
3. She doesn't diet, eats how she wants, and gains weight -- so she hates her body with some regularity

I don't think there is a scenario where a woman can be 100% happy with the weight/food balance.