mysterymeat:
But, I do wonder, what if you just teased him all day? Sure, you can give in, but now my curiosity’s peaked. How far could you take it? Lol[/quote]
I’m not sure what this means?
He never orgasms when he’s away from me. When we’re apart (we don’t live together) I do tease him and get him riled up. Send him suggestive pictures. Have him get himself hard for me and play with himself but no orgams.
This is how things are every single day...
I masturbate whenever I want to and will tell him when I’ve had an orgasm and how good it was and tell him it was made even better knowing he isn’t having any... he loves to do this so that mine will be even better for me because it really does get me off.
There are times when he’s begged me not to let him orgasm when we are together because he wants to stay a needy mess for me and so that I’m more pleased...
The problem is that *I* usually get greedy, I love cum.
Maybe once we’re vaccinated and I can play with others again and get cum someplace else I won’t be so greedy and I can make him suffer more. Who knows?
4 years
So he came over last night and I gave him the option again...
We started with some playful making out which quickly led to him being desperate. I spit on my hand and stroked him... rubbing him on my body and him humping my body as he could...
I was teasing him and pulling away... we had to switch sides so we could access each other properly and I had him hand me the coconut oil... I wasn’t coy or shy about it I put the oil all over my belly and thighs and his dick... I was a slick mess... I was excited and knew I was going to get carried away and I asked him where do you want to cum tonight... he didn’t hesitate, he immediately knew he wanted to cum on me and make a mess on us...! I love to hear it!
He kept telling me how much he loved my body and how good it felt while rubbing his hands all over my thighs and belly...
I was getting off to it so much because he was so desperate and needy...
I came a couple times and then he went down on me... my favorite is when his mouth is on my cunt but his arms wrap around my thighs so that he’s grabbing my belly...
And that’s what he started doing last night. His mouth was very gently on me but his hand were going crazy squeezing my slick fat rolls (coconut oil was still all over us) and the way he kept squeezing and pulling my fat made me squirt all over his face....
He was in heaven... and just kept going until I could’ve take anymore.
He came up and cuddled into my chest and squeezed his arms all the way around me while I recovered. He was SO happy and so was I!
We cuddled for awhile until I started playing with him again so that he could cum next...
I was rubbing him in his favorite fat roll, the space between my belly and thigh... working him up and up and up... until he was begging to cum...
It’s so fun to make him desperate until I get excited and desperate enough to tell him to cum on me.
So we’re kinda at it again it would seem.
Obviously I’m thrilled and he is too.
One day when he’s extra needy and I’m feeling extra aggressive I will go ahead and use the words and call it what it is and ask him if he wants to fuck my fat belly...
He’s very sweet and mindful so I think he’d be cautious to initiate using the word fat but hopefully he will respond well to me using it because that’d just make it ten times hotter for me.
Eventually making him desperate enough to use it himself if he wants to cum...
Maybe that’s my next goal. Grrrrrr yummy!
4 years
I don’t have a preference...
I do enjoy being the big fat one on top even when I’m with a D type.
I enjoy contrasting body types.
My partner is submissive to me and tho much taller I definitely outweigh him and love throwing my weight around to my advantage.
4 years
Yes.
I like giving and receiving all of the above.
Tho I especially love when my partner clings to my belly smushing his face into it desperately. Such a great feeling.
4 years
My partner prefers that I just go braless. More comfortable for me!
4 years
This is a really old thread but I figured I’d resurrect it because of my own curiosity if there are others here.
And especially because nonmonogomy and polyamory has become more mainstream.
This is definitely my preferred relationship structure and has been since I was 16, so for just about 30 years now!
4 years
Sorry I’ve been MIA... my partner had a close family member pass away so prioritize shifted dramatically.
I did give in just before that happened tho.
I was at home masturbating, it was like midnight and my vibrator broke... he only lives a few minutes away so he brought me some toys we have at his place... but when he got here he finished the job for me... but he was so cute and sweet and he specifically asked if he could be inside me so I let him.
Then because of his family stuff and my risks with covid we had to be apart for a few weeks to be on the safe side.
Then when we finally reconnected... being as close as possible was what we needed most and that’s how things have been for a couple weeks now... until last night...
I was physically tired but he was needy so I told him to come over and I would take care of him...
We cuddled and nursed and then I also got really needy too... he spent a lot of time just making out with my cunt and ass... he loves to cuddle with his face in it... I love when we twist our bodies together in whatever haphazard position gives is the most access to each other and also comfortable.
I was definitely smothering his face with my ass and thighs and cunt too of course... neither of us could help ourselves. Finally it got to the point where I needed to kiss him and smell myself on him... my smell in his beard is one of my favoritest things...
We were kissing face to face on our sides and I started stroking him and clearly he was already desperate and needy and would orgasm quickly... I gave him the option, do you want to cum like this or do you want to cum inside of me... I was so ecstatic when he said like this please I want to me messy... so I lubed him up and my hands ups and my fat rolls between my belly and thighs up... made everything a slick mess and let him penetrate my fat until he couldn’t help himself and he made a big mess all over me...
I don’t think this is something we will pick up again consistently for a minute tho... things are still really emotional from losing family and finding a new normal and I want to focus on connection and being responsive to whatever his needs are more than kinky fun right now.
But as we’ve gotten our first dose of covid vaccine and others do too I can only imagine the fun we’ll get to have once things are safer. 💞
4 years
thiccbell:
Although the majority seems to seek a dom/sub relationship, I think I'm more suited to one more grounded and respectful.
Sorry slight tangent... D/s relationships are still grounded and respectful.
I am extremely careful with my partner. My biggest priority is that he always feels safe and that he always feels he has a voice and feels confident using it.
We check in constantly to make sure we’re both feeling honored and respected.
I’m not sure what you’re projecting here with your assumption but it’s inaccurate and I’m happy to clear it up if you have any questions.
4 years
Either or. Depends on how our personalities sync up.
I can be extraordinarily submissive with those who exert control.
But when someone is really sweet and cute and submissive another side of me comes out, nurturing and loving and controlling and affectionate but also kind of demanding and occasionally cruel...
I need both.
4 years
brizzledude:
For me, fat women are ridiculously sexy, I just love a big, soft body. But it’s not just that, it’s the mentality. Most women (and probably blokes) are so conditioned to want to be thin, and to see being overweight as some kind of moral failing.
A woman who doesn’t have that inbuilt sense of shame about being fat is, to me, ridiculously sexy. That “fuck it, I’m here to enjoy life” attitude, that kind of hedonism, makes me weak at the knees . I’m very slim, whatever I eat I never put on weight, my hedonism takes the form of booze (less so these days), weed (more so these days) and riding very powerful motorcycles as fast as I can.
We are here for a good time, not a long time.
I love everything about this answer.
I have always been a nonconformist. And a kinky pervert. I have been slim thicc most of my life but as I have gained more and more there really is something about rolls of fat and the softness and being squeezed and jiggled that really does it for me. And it feels very naughty to be fat and confident and happy when society tells me I shouldn’t be.
And I love yummy food. Like a lot!
I’m the biggest I have ever been and the only thing I am finding regretful about it is that it’s difficult to find clothes in the sexy styles that I like that fit me. Everything else is better tho!
I don’t have feelings one way or another about the way my partners looks tho. One of my partners is very tall and thin and I do like the dramatic contrast and the way our bodies fit together. And it makes me feel fatter if that makes sense.
My partners with bigger bodies I’ve never discussed this kink with but I do enjoy the way we squish and roll together and the way our fat creates momentum when we’re getting it on.
4 years