I don’t have a preference...

I do enjoy being the big fat one on top even when I’m with a D type.

I enjoy contrasting body types.

My partner is submissive to me and tho much taller I definitely outweigh him and love throwing my weight around to my advantage.

Yes.

I like giving and receiving all of the above.

Tho I especially love when my partner clings to my belly smushing his face into it desperately. Such a great feeling.

My partner prefers that I just go braless. More comfortable for me!

This is a really old thread but I figured I’d resurrect it because of my own curiosity if there are others here.

And especially because nonmonogomy and polyamory has become more mainstream.

This is definitely my preferred relationship structure and has been since I was 16, so for just about 30 years now!

Sorry I’ve been MIA... my partner had a close family member pass away so prioritize shifted dramatically.

I did give in just before that happened tho.

I was at home masturbating, it was like midnight and my vibrator broke... he only lives a few minutes away so he brought me some toys we have at his place... but when he got here he finished the job for me... but he was so cute and sweet and he specifically asked if he could be inside me so I let him.

Then because of his family stuff and my risks with covid we had to be apart for a few weeks to be on the safe side.

Then when we finally reconnected... being as close as possible was what we needed most and that’s how things have been for a couple weeks now... until last night...

I was physically tired but he was needy so I told him to come over and I would take care of him...

We cuddled and nursed and then I also got really needy too... he spent a lot of time just making out with my cunt and ass... he loves to cuddle with his face in it... I love when we twist our bodies together in whatever haphazard position gives is the most access to each other and also comfortable.

I was definitely smothering his face with my ass and thighs and cunt too of course... neither of us could help ourselves. Finally it got to the point where I needed to kiss him and smell myself on him... my smell in his beard is one of my favoritest things...

We were kissing face to face on our sides and I started stroking him and clearly he was already desperate and needy and would orgasm quickly... I gave him the option, do you want to cum like this or do you want to cum inside of me... I was so ecstatic when he said like this please I want to me messy... so I lubed him up and my hands ups and my fat rolls between my belly and thighs up... made everything a slick mess and let him penetrate my fat until he couldn’t help himself and he made a big mess all over me...

I don’t think this is something we will pick up again consistently for a minute tho... things are still really emotional from losing family and finding a new normal and I want to focus on connection and being responsive to whatever his needs are more than kinky fun right now.

But as we’ve gotten our first dose of covid vaccine and others do too I can only imagine the fun we’ll get to have once things are safer. 💞

Sorry slight tangent... D/s relationships are still grounded and respectful.

I am extremely careful with my partner. My biggest priority is that he always feels safe and that he always feels he has a voice and feels confident using it.

We check in constantly to make sure we’re both feeling honored and respected.

I’m not sure what you’re projecting here with your assumption but it’s inaccurate and I’m happy to clear it up if you have any questions.

Either or. Depends on how our personalities sync up.

I can be extraordinarily submissive with those who exert control.

But when someone is really sweet and cute and submissive another side of me comes out, nurturing and loving and controlling and affectionate but also kind of demanding and occasionally cruel...

I need both.

I love everything about this answer.


I have always been a nonconformist. And a kinky pervert. I have been slim thicc most of my life but as I have gained more and more there really is something about rolls of fat and the softness and being squeezed and jiggled that really does it for me. And it feels very naughty to be fat and confident and happy when society tells me I shouldn’t be.

And I love yummy food. Like a lot!

I’m the biggest I have ever been and the only thing I am finding regretful about it is that it’s difficult to find clothes in the sexy styles that I like that fit me. Everything else is better tho!

I don’t have feelings one way or another about the way my partners looks tho. One of my partners is very tall and thin and I do like the dramatic contrast and the way our bodies fit together. And it makes me feel fatter if that makes sense.

My partners with bigger bodies I’ve never discussed this kink with but I do enjoy the way we squish and roll together and the way our fat creates momentum when we’re getting it on.

So my weight once I had children fluctuated but the heaviest for me was never more than 170 and I never stayed that weight for any consistent amount of time...

Growing up I was always slender and fit. I was in the military and also a gym rat for a long time.

In 2011 I met my ex partner and I was at a very slim size 4... I don’t know how much I weighed because it distressed me how much weight I was losing without trying. My thighs were no longer touching, all my clothes had gotten way too big... I prefer to have some thickness, I still liked having some curves...

But my partner liked skinny girls... so I was his type then... what I didn’t know was I was getting involved with a covert narcissist, who definitely didn’t like it as I started to regain some of that weight.

He cheated on me with a tiny skinny girl...

I still stayed. He abused me in many other ways too.

I knew he didn’t like fat girls and so I stared to enjoy gaining weight... eventually I left him and after I left him I learned he was cheating on me again with another tiny skinny girl...

I have dated too many men into me when I was thicker to be to concerned about dating again but still I enjoy humiliation a lot now.

My boyfriend now worships me and my body but we don’t do monogomy and so I still get to play with others that will humiliate me for getting so fat, and letting myself go.

But getting really fat has definitely been a way to claim myself after leaving that abusive awful relationship. It feels naughty and subversive to get fat and so I’m all for it.

And I love when people can’t help themselves and love fat even when society tells us not to. 🤤

I have recently hit that 2x size... it’s another world when you hit that size and it’s mostly my belly and since I usually only wear dresses anyway I have definitely considered maternity dresses and a solution to still being able have a cute selection, not just tents.

Whenever I do look at maternity stuff it definitely gives me feelings tho...

Having a belly so big people aren’t sure if I’m pregnant or fat is really exciting and slightly humiliating for me. 🤤

If I find a maternity dresses I really like I’m sure I’ll buy them.

Edited to add this picture because Facebook tried to sell me this dress after I posted this answer. I would wear this but wouldn’t spend $30 on it, I don’t like it *that* much. But I found the coincidence funny.

I do like the color pink it is tho because I always associate that color with pigs 🐷 💗