Last year we moved about 4 hours away from where we lived before. I gained about 30lbs and had to go back for a doctor's appt. to get things finished up to transfer. Anyway, there is this lady that works at the doctor's. Very friendly. We chat often when I am there. But, she is definitely outspoken. Well, I go there and see her. The first words out of her mouth "You got fat!" lol I was a little taken aback. I mean, I knew I gained. But, didn't think it was that noticeable to be classified as fat. Maybe chubby, lol. Well, not to her! Second words out of her mouth. "Guess you've been eating good since you moved, ya got fat!" She held nothing back, lol. I sheepishly agreed with her and that was about it for the small talk, lol.

I just started gaining and drinking heavy cream again. I did a gain a few months ago with heavy cream. I gained about 30-35lbs. But then hit a plateau and couldn't seem to get passed it. So I took a break of a few months. I saw my Weight go down a little but then went back to where I hit the plateau before. So it seemed that bit that I lost came back on its own or was a delayed gain. Seeing that I'm trying gaining again. Maybe starting out at this point will result in breaking the plateau. I've definetly noticed changes. Which is what caused me to try again. I'm excited for the potential. I've noticed that chugging a smaller amount of cream combined with eating something, especially carbs/sugar helps with gaining. I try to be careful with too much sugar as I want subcutaneous gains. I guess I will see. best luck to everyone!

I was around 150ish when I started gaining. Which was pretty much 2021. I did take a break of a few months as I was stuck at a plateau and got discouraged. But, I just started again a couple weeks ago. So I ended 2021 at about 185ish. So about 35 lbs. I hope I can keep that momentum, if not more! Happy New Year everyone!

Your words of only living once is what enabled me to actually start gaining for real too. I too have always had that desire deep down. My wife gained a lot since we've been togther almost 25 years now. She has liked me being bigger so far, and so have I. I'm now in early 40s, this is for me a last chance to live a few years being bigger. With health issues I have, not weight related, and wanting to be careful with health as I get older. Now is the time to live the dream so to speak. Best of luck!

I'm kinda in the same boat. I gave gaining a try for the second time in life a few months ago. I started at about 150 and gained pretty quick to 185ish. But then plateaued and couldn't seem to get passed that weight. I'm normally pretty thin and don't eat much. So gaining was really hard. I ended up stopping for a few months and lost some. But then noticed I slowly started gaining back to 185ish. Where I am now. So I'm restarting gaining again and hoping that I won't hit a plateau at this point. I too have been on prednisone a lot in life cause I have crohns disease. Which also doesn't help with gaining. Although prednisone has caused me to gain at times in the past. But I'm not on it now. If you find any tips that works for you I'd love to hear them! Best of luck!

CooL! I will have to jump in sometime soon

Everything you said is exactly me! It seems that being hardcore into this whole kink can go in cycles. At least for me. I'll have a few months of thinking about it all the time and trying to gain. Which recently ended up with about 40lbs. But, then out of the blue, it seemed some life issues got in the way and before I knew it I hadn't thought about any of it for a few months. Then, just today, out of the blue my brain jumps right back in, lol. When I am into it I don't care what anyone thinks. But when I am on hiatus I then start to get a little self-conscious. One thing that never wanes is loving how my wife looks and being happy with her gain and size. She has just gotten more and more beautiful over the years. Her encouragement on my gain has helped though. So maybe I will break the cycle

Me too! I started off at an underweight 140ish lbs. I am very close to 200 now and plan to keep going. But not there yet.

The same is basically happening to me but on a smaller scale. I've tried to intentionally gain twice in my life. Once years ago and right now. Years ago I was able to get to about 180 from my normal of about 140-150. I gained up to 180 quite quickly! That first month or 2 with heavy cream and lots of food. But, once I got to that plateau I couldn't get past it. No matter how much I tried. Granted I did end up going back to work and wasn't able to really try anymore.

Fast forward to a few months ago. My wife and I have moved to a new state. I'm not getting any younger so I go for it to intentionally gain for maybe the last big hooray. Again I start off at the 140-150ish weight. I really go for it. Lots of heavy cream daily, etc, etc. I gain really fast to about 180 weight and now again I have plateaued. I have been able to get a bit more. Sneaky closer to 190. But its has slowed way down. I don't even know if that last 5-10lbs is even fat and not just water weight or something. Everyday I battle to keep gaining or just give up and tell myself I will never be fat. So far I have been keeping myself motivated by talking to people on feedism sites and forums just like this one. Plus a major factor is my wife is encouraging me a lot. While she also has and likes me heavier. Just as I like her that way and she is at her fattest by far ever. So I keep trying. But, it is so difficult some days. Best of luck to you! Hopefully, we get passed this. Take care!

I have been having this very problem right now. I get stuck at about 185 give or take. I so badly want to get to 200 as like a first milestone. But I can't seem to get there. Even with Heavy cream. I started at 150 also. The first 30lbs came on fast and were pretty easy. But, this plateau is just killing me. It doesn't help that my money situation doesn't allow for constant heavy cream and such. But, even when I have times where i buy tons of food I just can't seem to get passed that weight. I have gotten the scale to 190, but it then just starts dropping. Which I am guessing is water weight or regular body flucuations. So frustrating. My wife is about 300 and she doesn't even do anything intentionally to gain to that point. While here I am doing everything. I am gonna keep trying I am hoping that once I break the plateau I will have another quick and decent bump in weight like the first 30lbs.