Well if he’s that open about feeding you and liking you fat, and you like gaining enough to be on here bragging about how well he’s fed you, why not ask outright if he considers this his kink? I feel like things would explode then- in the best way possible of course 😉

A luscious chocolate trifle 😋 with plenty of chocolate mousse

You can start off slow to see if just a little gaining satiates you, so you don’t run the risk of that moment of “what have I done to myself?” Like, you can set the goal of gaining 15 lbs in __ amount of time, and trying to stay there at that new weight for a month or something and seeing how you feel. Give it enough time to see how someone in your life reacts, and whether the hurtfulness puts a brunt on the strength of your desire to gain— or if you feel that burn of desire more than ever. It’s such a hard call tho!! I’d probably gain some if it weren’t for how awful people can be, and part of me’s like “it’s none of their business” but I know what you mean about being sensitive to comments. I just wish others’ words didn’t have SUCH a strong effect over something that doesn’t even affect them.

I mean, are we using “feederism” as kind of an umbrella term for all the things that bring us here? Because if it’s just for the love of fat, boobs in and of themselves are the way they are because of fatty tissue. And suckling them, for example, would be as enjoyable as kissing, etc any other soft, squishy, fat body part.
Lactating and adult nursing come into play a lot in my crazy little fantasy stories where the person A’s body is making so much that person B has to keep drinking just to keep person A from feeling like they’re gonna explode, until it essentially becomes feeding for person B via person A’s body, and person B gains weight from the sheer volume they drink. Obviously irl that’s totally impossible but it’s enjoyable to picture. It’s just such a delicious cross-roads between fat/boobs and eating/drinking 🤤

Pretty soon a truck stop scale is just what people here will need 😃

Lol so pretty much the setup of the human colony in Wall-E?

Welcome! I’ve been part of this community for a few years now, purely just as an admirer/story-author/chub-loving artist. But like you (and like a lot of people in the last year and a half!) I find myself looking a little rounder and feeling a little heavier, and it’s so enjoyable I don’t want to go back on it.
Although the man I’m with is not into any of this at all, he’s very accommodating when I say I like him doing something. Lately we’ve had a couple moments- once at home, and once in a tight little seat in an airplane- where my new little belly was poking out and he indulged me by giving it little rubs. It’s such a small gesture, but it is SO sexy! And it makes me think, I can’t go back to x # of pounds ago after that!

I don't have the energy to get too far into this but I second this ^

All this would be perfectly fine if it were pure fantasy, but if this is a real human being we're talking about, and you're their spouse . . . ugh. Dude, the fact that you're doing all this on the DL and posting about it here to chat about it with us is very manipulative, and there's no way it can pan out well if you don't communicate any of this. You can start out subtle and small and introduce her to these ideas little by little if you're nervous- that's understandable!!- but you have to show enough trust in her as your partner to make her own decisions. If she's open enough to it to allow herself to start eating bigger portions, like you've said, then there's no reason to think that she's so dumb that she wouldn't recognize that enjoyment in herself- very soon, if not right now. For one thing I don't know if any woman anywhere in Western culture can gain much more than 15 pounds without at least some friends/family/coworkers/etc making comments about her body; that's virtually inevitable in modern life as a woman. Which also means, maybe she's totally aware of it and finds that she's fine with it, and this convo could end great. You don't know if you don't try.
If she's honestly been so distracted that she hasn't noticed any of this even to herself, and one day down the line she realizes you've manipulated her into a version of herself that she hates for your own kicks, how can that end well? How can it end in anything other than resentment and loathing, once she finds out the ways that you've tried to control her and her body? Without her consent? If she hasn't noticed herself yet and she doesn't reciprocate if you do try the hard thing, to bring it up in an honest, mature conversation SOON, then sure she could be mad. She would have the right to be, but it would also pass with time and effort. You can figure out a way to mend it and live without hurting this woman you love, and keep fantasy alive for yourself but separate from your marriage. Why treat any fantasy like it's more important than the person you've committed your whole life to?

You can of course feel free to respond to this with anger but I'm not here to engage in some big argument if you're not in a place where you're ready to consider changing what you're doing. I just hope that you pause and reflect on the big picture for your own sake as well as your wife's.

this sounds like a lot of fun 😜 it also sounds like it would only be a matter of time before it devolved into a fat-loving, tummy-oiling, belly-growing orgy or something

Granted I haven’t had the chance to do this irl but the gist is that you would add up the two numbers