I have a theory that Body Positivity/Fat Acceptance/feederism was started at least in part because of Fat-phobia. Big women in particular were and still are fed up(no pun intended, well maybe a little now đ
) with how society bullies them into being thin that they said:
âYou know what? Just for that, Iâm gonna eat even more just to spite youâ
And I donât blame them. Iâve actually said on posts that you want someone to lose weight, the LAST thing you do is fat shame them. Itâs the same reason people hate vegans, because many of them go about it in a bullying manner that will make people not want to become vegan simply because of that.
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JN_TumLover56:
I like how this forum post had went from the OP addressing concerns from their parents, to a debate about toppings on a pizza.
Haha I love it.
Old school vs new school
Traditional vs modern
Wing chun vs Jeet Kune do
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Arame:
But wouldnât that still be considered skinnyfat?
Professorbigbody:
I mean I didnât get a double chin until I was over 330 pounds
Arame:
Oh wow, so it took you a while
Professorbigbody:
yeah but now its near impossible to hide haha
Keep up the good work
10 months
Arame:
But wouldnât that still be considered skinnyfat?
Professorbigbody:
I mean I didnât get a double chin until I was over 330 pounds
Oh wow, so it took you a while
10 months
MTurn2411:
I have no idea how I thought of it, but I've been fixated on this for awhile now.
Picture this, my car breaks down on the side of the highway in the middle of nowhere, signal on my phone is nonexistent and the nearest auto body shop is over 100 miles away. I've got no choice but to try hitch hiking or hope cell service pops up.
After an hour or two, a guy in a semi pulls over and asks if everything's alright. After a quick look, he decides there's no way to fix my car unless it's taken to a shop and he offers me a ride to wherever I need to go, on one condition. He'll take me wherever I want to go as long as I eat whatever he buys for me, and I'm not allowed to stop eating until he says so or I run out.
Thinking that this was the best option, I would agree, but then he begins making stops wherever he can to get more food and drinks. Always making sure I'm eating or drinking something until my shirt starts riding up and the seat belt is cutting into my stuffed belly. Unbeknownst to me, we've passed multiple gas stations and auto shops.
By the time he decides I can stop I look like I'm about to give birth and all I want is for him to rub my belly and tell me I'm a good girl.
Oh wow, this makes my âBig Bad Wolfâ role play idea seem boring now đ
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Growing Rolls:
Iâm more into the contrast between a slim face and a fat belly. Thereâs something about the aesthetic, but also the surprise element. I hope to develop the fattest and softest belly possible without my face being significantly affected. If youâre fat in the face, it sort of gives it away immediately. I ran into an old colleague by chance a couple of days ago, and after we had chatted for a while, she noticed my belly. I could see her glance down towards it repeatedly after that (I donât think sheâs FFA, just to clarify). Thereâs also something about being heavier than you "look." When summer comes, and you're wearing lighter and thinner clothes, and suddenly some "fat rolls" show up: that surprise, the shock effect! I love it.
Arame:
Haha thatâs funny cause I said that as well, earlier in the thread. Double chins are a tell-tell sign that youâre chubby in most cases. Of course genetics plays a role in fat distribution.
However you touched on something else that I think is underrated. And thatâs âSkinnyfatâ. I agree, I love the âhidden surpriseâ factor as well. Like they look like an average sized person in public but behind closed doors they have a belly for both of us to enjoy as much as we want. Itâs the thrill of having the best of both worlds kinda thing?
Growing Rolls:
No, I'm not really thinking about "skinny fat," but more about proportions and ratiosâhow the belly and love handles are disproportionately large, noticeably large compared to the face. The belly can be visible even with a lot of clothing, obvious very fat, but it is still much, much bigger than the face would suggest. :-)
But wouldnât that still be considered skinnyfat?
10 months
Growing Rolls:
Iâm more into the contrast between a slim face and a fat belly. Thereâs something about the aesthetic, but also the surprise element. I hope to develop the fattest and softest belly possible without my face being significantly affected. If youâre fat in the face, it sort of gives it away immediately. I ran into an old colleague by chance a couple of days ago, and after we had chatted for a while, she noticed my belly. I could see her glance down towards it repeatedly after that (I donât think sheâs FFA, just to clarify). Thereâs also something about being heavier than you "look." When summer comes, and you're wearing lighter and thinner clothes, and suddenly some "fat rolls" show up: that surprise, the shock effect! I love it.
Haha thatâs funny cause I said that as well, earlier in the thread. Double chins are a tell-tell sign that youâre chubby in most cases. Of course genetics plays a role in fat distribution.
However you touched on something else that I think is underrated. And thatâs âSkinnyfatâ. I agree, I love the âhidden surpriseâ factor as well. Like they look like an average sized person in public but behind closed doors they have a belly for both of us to enjoy as much as we want. Itâs the thrill of having the best of both worlds kinda thing?
10 months
Nah, the last song I was listening to is way too violent đ
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Oh thatâs my dream girl, for sure
10 months
Ditzy:
I think people share too much about themselves and their fetishes online.
Doing videos because they desire attention or validation.
I never felt I needed validation from strangers to do anything in my life.
I think perhaps the BP movement has a subset of people that push too hard to make us all look like weirdos.
Social media is not always a good place to aire your laundry.
I do support the BP movement and learning how to love yourself no matter how large or small you are.
Now, this I can agree with as well. Everything doesnât have to be public or mainstream. What you like doing in the bedroom ainât nobody elseâs business except you and the person youâre in bed with. Or communities like this where people can find their other half but thatâs it. Stop posting everything on line all the time
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