Fair enough, I’m also a fellow autistic person too. But I guess it’s gonna be different for everyone for how they interpret things.

I know that this supposed to come from a good place especially when it comes to looking after your wellbeing. But the way how it’s being delivered really makes it sound like something that the Tate brothers would say anyone who would talk like this in the far-right-toned fitness/wellbeing industry. Heck, I’ve seen these kinds of “critically truthful” comments in a plus size influencer’s post.

I’m not trying to talk smack, nor go against anything self improvement. But the tone he was saying it is something to criticize to do better.

I was making a joke about it. But this is your thread post anyways, not mine.

I’m not sure how to answer this nor do I may not speak for what you are going through. But I can say that I can relate in some ways with my own struggles as well when it comes to having a fetish.

I do get bad days when I feel like this is the reason why I struggle with dating because I have deluded myself into this. But at the same time I can live in a relationship without having this fetish involved. Heck, I actually have in the past. And if I’m being honest I don’t really care for intense nudity and porn. I’m just all about the belly show and I can call it a day!

But in all seriousness, as much as I can have good days and bad ones. I don’t let it define me for who I am.

Sheesh buddy you sound like a red pill dude or something like that.

Holy sh!t Munchies agreed with something I said?? Someone call Guinness, this is a miracle!!

All jokes aside though I do see your point. I wouldn’t consider commenting on a post 5 days ago necroposting either, it’s more like I am late for commenting because life got in the way. But still though it is a tough call with what is acceptable for commenting on an old forum post and what isn’t. It’s like what’s I mentioned on what’s the intention behind it is.

Yeah I do wanna say that based on some of your posts you are definitely one of those users that I have felt quite unsettled about Karen. But I’m not hating or anything, just a little concerned just like what Munchies was going on about.

But hey I’ve read your profile, I’d wager you’ll end up fooling all of us once you ended up losing all the weight. Of course that’s just what I think. What do I actually really know? Y’know?

So here’s my two cents on the matter.

I think that it really depends on the subject post and what the intention is. Like let’s say for example the thread about why so many people are mad about BP/FA movements, it maybe an old topic and the OP is long but gone… but the overall subject is still very important to be worthy discussed. Especially if someone wants to say something that’s still within the “theme” and actually has something that’s pretty thought out, then so be it. But if there’s a new updated 2025 (and onward) discussion about a certain topic, then that’s where I feel like a fresh post would be necessary.

Of course it could also be because some people have been waiting to comment on something that they have been wanting for awhile now but couldn’t due to life getting in the way or having that mental blockage to think clearly to write/type something. I mean I could’ve said something when this particular thread was still fresh but it ended up taking me 5 days to write something because of everything I just said above! It ain’t always fun when you work a physical job that sometimes takes a lot out of you. It’s especially true when you get worked up and stressed about something that happened causing you to can’t concentrate on knowing what you’re going to write.

Now I can see the annoying part when someone bumps an old post without taking any effort. Sometimes I wonder if they thought it was an interesting idea for everyone to see the old comments for a future reference?? I could be wrong, but that’s what I think.

Finally I’ve seen some people bump an old post in the Personal Ads section. I get that if the OP is still available/looking I would imagine that they would want to do so, that way their post doesn’t get lost in the void. But if it’s someone commenting on a Personal Ad topic that was a decade ago then yeah… they are clearly wasting their time.

I did actually tried this and it was pretty awesome if you’re someone who likes belly buttons!! Even if it’s not actual sex, it’s still such a turn on! I have also had moments where I was able to… uh… “go off” all over the belly. The last few ladies I’ve done this to did found it hot, so yay me I guess??

Mmm! I was actually going to say something like that. And yes you are not wrong that I may have made some bad posts in the past that I shouldn’t have, but I do learn from the criticism and do better if I have learned something from it. Assuming that it wasn’t just plain old white noise.

Meanwhile here’s you who likes to think that you’re untouchable like some Greek philosopher or Jordan Peterson that everyone thinks is right. But this is not the discussion for that anyways. 🤷‍♂️

However, I did in fact made some GOOD posts and take on certain topics. I even had people messaging me about how they appreciated me for having a solid point and being brave to discuss my opinion on the said-topic, so I am grateful to know that there are people who do appreciate me. Maybe you don’t see that in me, but I (and other people) have. It’s like that saying: “to each their own”.

Also perhaps that I am just some guy, but I am a guy who has been told that I may have a solid point. I can’t care if people don’t like me… I’m not seeking validation of any sorts, but it’s the message that I am trying to convey. That’s what’s most important to me.