Well as mundane as this sounds, from personal experience going on a walk (mostly) everyday helps out a lot to me. Especially when it comes to mental clarity and keeping “your juices flowing” and all that stuff.

You could practically do it at a park, shopping mall, or the comfort of your own neighborhood (if it’s safe to walk about). It’s pretty much theoretically the kind of exercise that anyone of any body type can do. And if you want to make it fun you could go on a walk to a store to get yourself a drink or something and walk back.

Now sure there’s plenty of other stuff like swimming and dancing that’s a lot less boring and more vigorous. But sometimes a little exercise is all about the small steps to work on doing more and more. To me, it’s all about being able to move your body around!

That’s understandable, I get what you’re trying to tell me. Lately I’ve been trying to take things in a more nuanced way. Because I feel like discussions like that are more important than ever to find that sort of nuance.

Trying to balance between what you believe versus what the general public says isn’t an easy thing to do, especially when you’re trying to say something that almost everyone would agree (or have the most likes in a comment). I am aware that some people don’t always like what I have to say, but if people can at least acknowledge that I have a point in some degree… I can live with that.

Kinda. I have no shame for what I am attracted to. I mean I am what I find attractive too (hello it says in my username 😅). But I do have bad days at time.

I get the feeling to this. I mean in the outside world it’s so taboo when it’s not up to social beauty standards. Even when I found out that I liked bigger women I knew about how people think about them, especially the health matter of things. Pretty much the writing on the wall you can say.

But something about bigger women are so much better than what a smaller woman does. It’s just not the same. 😅 But I try to be as respectful for both sides of the spectrum. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that a skinny or fit woman isn’t pretty… but it’s just not for me y’know?

Yeah it’s such quite a strange reality that we’re living in. Like I get if people want to lose weight to look after their wellbeing and whatnot. But sometimes when people go crazy about it, it really effects a lot of people that can be driven to a distorter. Weight and body size are such a touchy subject, it always has been.

Well I certainly appreciate that.

I mean I sometimes feel “a little chubby” whenever I am sitting. 😅

From what I was looking at your pictures it looks like your gut has gotten so round that your belly button might be getting closed to being pushed out as an outie. I guess it depends on if you’re okay with that or not.

You know I’m not exactly crazy about the kink as I used to. However I also do find that reading into these forums/threads do sometimes make me feel that bit of comfort. Or at best give me some kind of insight into a better understanding about the world of either the kink itself or just being someone who’s into larger people.

From when I found out about my interests within larger people I did knew about the stigmatization and the guilt that comes with it, but I’ve always wanted to find a place where I don’t have to be ashamed of myself anymore or at least a lot less guilt?? Either way it is kinda nice to be in a place without the outside noise from society telling someone how incorrect their body is and that you have to fix it to be more acceptable. kinda a breath of fresh air if you ask me?

Also I also kinda find it interesting for how in a community like this there’s some kind of an understanding when it comes to weight change. It’s almost there’s a nuance towards it, compared to the outside where it’s so noisy and how weight loss is celebrated like hardcore. 😅 Maybe I’m sounding a little extra, but that’s what I have noticed anyways.

Now yes as you probably already notice, I am not a bigger person myself. But I believe that there is a place for someone like me (someone who’s into bigger people) to belong to a place like here. And trust me, the negative noise out there can affect people like me too. Maybe not that often, but it does happen.

I don’t know if this really answers your question and whatnot. But I do find it a little encouraging to see people who are 40+ in this community. So I can feel better that it’s not just only a young person’s kink before the switch happens to be all about self-improvement. 😅