Masuli:
Thank you also for the answers.
I'm not a spectrum, I have friends & relatives but they are "normal" meaning don't understand this being fat is allright + some people enjoy it. Or that some people would love to gan weight.
Problem is that there is no BBW, BHM or Bigger people meetings in here, like I have seen other countries having those events. Meaning location but this I can understand, small country & few people in here.
Also travelling can be difficult because not having a car or money to fly to other countries at the moment.
Oh yeah I think this is pretty normal no matter where you are in the world, we as feedists occupy a liminal space. Best not get into loneliness better to be around people despite them not understanding you like or want to be fat
4 months
Tell her to experiment more with fast food sounds like she has a normie meal prepped diet. Yeah if gets expensive and she shouldn’t go to crazy with fast food but it’s an option- especially if she’s never really indulged in it before
4 months
Morbidly A Beast:
I’d just wear my old letter jacket that my belly hangs out of now and say I’m an jock (who got really really fat) it’s a medium I’m a 5xl
Kitsune:
Pardon for neceoposting but fat jocks are my weakness. 😍
I don’t know if I really classify as a ex jock anymore, for me it was a life time ago
But that’s awesome
4 months
I get a few drinks with some people I work with sometimes. I’ll meet up with a few folks from church who have a project going on.
It’s important to reconginze that loneliness is an emotion and not to confuse it with isolation or islanding. Start with some family be the one who calls don’t be the one always waiting for the call
4 months
I like the ability to play with friends I feel like a lot of games that I play were designed to be played with online integration. I like the replay ability of online games. I like the grind. I like to show off my cool outfits.
I like single player don’t get me wrong I just prefer multiplayer these days, the last solo game I played was baulders gate
4 months
a lot from the looks of it weight distributes evenly, I think the times where your in danger is if someone steps on you or lays on you in a way where you can’t breath, ie pushing you up against a hard surface
4 months
im buried unless im excited, reach isn’t really the problem for me anymore it’s remaining interested long enough in order to get something to grab hold of
4 months
I’m not sure how other people are but I can’t really control myself around food and don’t like feeling full and bloated during work so I’ll just eat one giant square meal at night it also saves me from public restrooms where I can’t fit on the seat where as at home I got the big seat and a bidet.
I started eating a fairly large breakfast a while back that usually gets me though tell dinner time. I did that and made sure my dinners are always big and it shot me up quite a bit
4 months
If you have an iPhone and a smart watch you can get an accurate gauge of how many calories you are burning while walkin. I’d just make sure your eating a lot
4 months
