Does gaining make you hungrier?
Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.
Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.
Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.
Ain't that the truth. When I was eating healthy and lost weight I mostly stayed away from junk food because I know how pleasurable it can be. Along comes summer and a little bit turned into a little bit more which turned into a lot more. It's so addicting.
1 year
Pics of guys
Today I tucked in my shirt. I was out and about just to try it to see how I felt. I was at the mall briefly, had lunch at Wendy's and then did groceries. It was definitely out of my comfort zone, but it was okay. I think it looked good. I will try it again soon. It was for sure easier to do in front of strangers. I'm not ready to do it at work yet.
1 year
Does gaining make you hungrier?
Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.
1 year
Stretch marks
Morbidly A Beast:
It’s basically all your skin elasticity. Sometimes you gain sometimes you lose causing your skin to loosens. This happens in bigger people you just gain/lose over a long period of time. Sometimes you stretch out your skin so much over such a short period of time the skin stretches to such an extent it “breaks” causing bigger stretch marks, but if you’re losing and gaining a lot your skin is going to have more elasticity
It’s basically all your skin elasticity. Sometimes you gain sometimes you lose causing your skin to loosens. This happens in bigger people you just gain/lose over a long period of time. Sometimes you stretch out your skin so much over such a short period of time the skin stretches to such an extent it “breaks” causing bigger stretch marks, but if you’re losing and gaining a lot your skin is going to have more elasticity
I am certainly softer this gain (when not stuffed silly). My belly seems bigger than when I used to be at this weight. I was pleasantly surprised to see the older stretch marks become highlighted. I am trying to slow things down...but no luck so far. The day started off well. Had a big, healthy breakfast...then wound up at Wendy's for lunch. Sitting at 3000 calories for the day and its just past lunch. Perhaps there will be new stretch marks soon.
1 year
Stretch marks
Over the years I've gotten stretch marks. I haven't gotten any in this gain, but I have noticed that old ones are more visible. Is this common? Is it a sign more are coming?
1 year
Pics of guys
ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
ForeverFFA:
I was thinking of chubstr.com/[/quote]
This site is great! Thanks!
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
ForeverFFA:
I was thinking of chubstr.com/[/quote]
This site is great! Thanks!
1 year
Pics of guys
MickRidem:
I think while talking about pics of guys, fashion is absolutely on topic! Nice grooming, well fitting suits, a prominent belly looking sharp in a button-up are REALLY HOT.
There is a Reddit called r/bigmenfashionadvice that I follow and they have great advice. (I've specifically asked about wide shirts being too long for short guys, and tailoring is the way to go.)
OT a little: I've mentioned somewhere else on Reddit that there should be a giant database for all things Plus-Sized, from clothes to travel to tips and tricks - but that would be a massive undertaking I'm not able to take on. 😛
I think while talking about pics of guys, fashion is absolutely on topic! Nice grooming, well fitting suits, a prominent belly looking sharp in a button-up are REALLY HOT.
There is a Reddit called r/bigmenfashionadvice that I follow and they have great advice. (I've specifically asked about wide shirts being too long for short guys, and tailoring is the way to go.)
OT a little: I've mentioned somewhere else on Reddit that there should be a giant database for all things Plus-Sized, from clothes to travel to tips and tricks - but that would be a massive undertaking I'm not able to take on. 😛
I checked out the reddit page there's some great stuff there.
My clothes are okay, but I think I can do better. I do have good grooming habits. I shave my head and have a beard so if either of those are unkept, it doesn't look good.
1 year
Pics of guys
ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
Munchies:
You can do a quick Google search, but here's some stuff to get started:
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
As for your shirt situation, you might want to wear your pants over your belly. My partner is tall, but he is very belly heavy. He doesn't own any shirts that can cover his belly completely. Most cover 75% or 50% of his belly. So he puts his pants over his belly out of necessity.
NoMoYoYo:
Thanks for these! I do many of these things already. The one suggestion they offer that I have a problem with is tucking in my shirts. I'm not sure why. I know I'm big. I like being big. I know I will be bigger. But for whatever reason tucking in seems like it's highlighting my belly even more. I mean I'm not fooling anybody, my belly is growing. It would look less sloppy, yet I still have issues with it.
Munchies:
I feel you. I hate tucking my shirts in. Makes me feel contained. But my waist goes in, not out.
It sounds like you don't enjoy having too much attention to your middle. I get that. You may want to experiment with colors and fits. Maybe throw on an open jacket or cardigan over your tucked in shirt once it cools down some.
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
Munchies:
You can do a quick Google search, but here's some stuff to get started:
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
As for your shirt situation, you might want to wear your pants over your belly. My partner is tall, but he is very belly heavy. He doesn't own any shirts that can cover his belly completely. Most cover 75% or 50% of his belly. So he puts his pants over his belly out of necessity.
NoMoYoYo:
Thanks for these! I do many of these things already. The one suggestion they offer that I have a problem with is tucking in my shirts. I'm not sure why. I know I'm big. I like being big. I know I will be bigger. But for whatever reason tucking in seems like it's highlighting my belly even more. I mean I'm not fooling anybody, my belly is growing. It would look less sloppy, yet I still have issues with it.
Munchies:
I feel you. I hate tucking my shirts in. Makes me feel contained. But my waist goes in, not out.
It sounds like you don't enjoy having too much attention to your middle. I get that. You may want to experiment with colors and fits. Maybe throw on an open jacket or cardigan over your tucked in shirt once it cools down some.
I don't like the attention to my middle. But want to get fatter...such a quandry. I think its mostly because of my years of gaining and losing. I've worked with mostly the same people for years so they've seen me going up and down over and over...and over.
I will have to experiment. Especially layering with a jacket or cardigan. It hasn't been the warmest of summers here so I could probably start soon.
Sorry I've strayed from the original topic here. I don't actually intend on taking pictures. But I do want to look good in general. I never want to be a "slob". If that's your thing, all the power to you, just not for me.
1 year
Pics of guys
ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
Munchies:
You can do a quick Google search, but here's some stuff to get started:
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
As for your shirt situation, you might want to wear your pants over your belly. My partner is tall, but he is very belly heavy. He doesn't own any shirts that can cover his belly completely. Most cover 75% or 50% of his belly. So he puts his pants over his belly out of necessity.
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
Munchies:
You can do a quick Google search, but here's some stuff to get started:
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/
As for your shirt situation, you might want to wear your pants over your belly. My partner is tall, but he is very belly heavy. He doesn't own any shirts that can cover his belly completely. Most cover 75% or 50% of his belly. So he puts his pants over his belly out of necessity.
Thanks for these! I do many of these things already. The one suggestion they offer that I have a problem with is tucking in my shirts. I'm not sure why. I know I'm big. I like being big. I know I will be bigger. But for whatever reason tucking in seems like it's highlighting my belly even more. I mean I'm not fooling anybody, my belly is growing. It would look less sloppy, yet I still have issues with it.
1 year
Pics of guys
ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.
There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.
Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.
1 year