In relation to your size, have you been humiliated in a way that drove you nuts?
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I certainly appreciate being humiliated for my weight. Earlier this year, a friend of the family came to me and said , " You've slimmed down from last year you're doing really good" . Last year for the first time, I was chubby/ plump. I clearly had a double chin. I looked well fed. I was embarrassed but it was bitter sweet. I stopped drinking sodas and then I lost 18 pounds. I was near 160lbs at only 5'3 however, I looked somewhat stuffed all of the time.
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Totalobesity:
I know I do. Love teasing and humiliation so having people react to my size is a plus in my book.
I enjoy teasing that points to my size as well. I'm not sure why. When I was an adolescent, I imagined being enormous as people would walk by considering me a slob. I'm very weird I know.
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When I was in highschool, I had never imagined that I would actually grow up to be a short fat guy.I had a hidden desire to become very large but I'm glad that that hasn't happened exactly as Imagined because the size that I had in my mind would have made it virtually impossible to go out and do anything.
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OhBoyOboy:Totally. But only from women. When men do it they can expect a pretty severe negative reaction.
Ran into woman I knew at a football game, who expressed shock at my weight gain.
"How much have you gained??" she asked.
"Thirty three pounds." I opened my coat to show her and she laughed and said "Looks more like 50!"
Got an email from a woman I used to talk to on line almost every day and whom I hadn't corresponded with in years.
We exchanged pics.
"You're still fat!" she replied.
Loved it, loved it...I could go on but you get the point.
I'm like that as well and if people who I had known in highschool saw me today, they would be surprised because not only did I stop growing at 5'3, but I also continued to grow outward.
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Strange question: Do some of the people onbthis site enjoy getting negative reactions to their weight status? I have a friend who confided in me that she enjoys when women make comments under their breath to indicate that they are disgusted by her size.
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Yes, but it's just a dream for me as my health wouldn't permit it.
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On these forums, I've read about many variations of female/male feeders. For the most part, it seems as if the female feeders generally want tall fat men. As strange as this may sound, many years ago a lady friend told me that I would be more her type if I were shorter and fatter. I'm only 5'3 to begin with. This lady was 5'7 at least. Is this a major deviation from what is normally seen in this fetish or preference if you will?
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dreambig:
I have a number of friends who are now starting to put on weight. like, A LOT of weight. One shared with me she's gained 60 pounds over the last 2 years. Since the birth of Instagram, now I can watch it happen from near or far. Some people I went to high school with I only follow on Insta so I can watch them keep getting fat. And I have to admit, it's super exciting to watch. Another friend from high school has gained about 100 lbs in the last 5 years and MY JAW IS JUST ON THE FLOOR. And when they start talking about their weight gain, Im struggling not to blush or stare, but I know I do both.
::blush:: ::stare:: ::blush::
It's totally confusing to be suddenly really really attracted to your friends you've had for a decade+!
does anyone else deal with this? or....enjoy it as much as I do?
Indeed; my attraction with respect to body types began to expand. For instance, many years ago when I was in high school, I saw a beautiful woman who was very pretty and of a slim build. In one year she had plumped up. I was amazed to see how someones body growing into its adult tendencies could change the game. She was pretty in both forms within different expressions.
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movplokami:
i was pretty young when i had this dream, and i only remember one part. i remember i was on a bed in a pretty large bedroom and there were five or six women that were anywhere from 300 to probably over 600 pounds. some of them were on tubes and others were being fed by me. i remember waking up after that and thinking "what was that? how weird!" haha
That's cool. I can relate. Although, in my crazy dreams, I was the one who was expanding.
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