Why does it seem like most male gainers are gay?

Straight and happily taken gainer who's simply enjoying his view from the "plateau" :-) I do think this is still a safe haven for many gay gainers, though, despite the wider acceptance I've seen of being gay in recent years.
9 years

Sleeves too long on 2xl and 3xl shirts

Tailor would be the best option there. My challenge is getting a dressy shirt collar around my neck. I've had to buy shirt sizes with the sleeves very nearly too long just to accommodate getting a necktie on when I need to.
9 years

When people start noticing...

My gf gave my loving notice a notice of its own this evening. "It's so awesome I'm heavy and you still think I'm beautiful," she said a we polished off some gumbo for dinner. "You're beautiful mainly for the way you treat me," I replied. Her heart is as beautiful and soft as her belly smiley And she says the same about mine, too smiley
9 years

Weight gain since being a member ff

I'd say about 60 pounds or so. Bounces back and forth over the 200-pound mark.
9 years

Accepting yourself as a fat person

Tubby Marie:
I first was fat at age 15 at 165 pounds went on a diet and lost 40 pounds. For years I wold go back on a diet as soon as I hit 140 even got down to 120. By my 30's I would let my self go back up to 165 or so and diet back to 140. When I was turning 40 I figured It was time to get the weight off for good I had hit 173 pounds went on a diet and got back to 125 pounds. For 3 years I would go on a diet as soon as I gained 5 pounds. Being on a diet all the time sucked so I gave up and 2 years later I was 196 pounds. Upon seeing my reflexion in a store window I was mortified at the size of my belly, I looked 9 months pregnant with twins. I bought as ale and weighed my self saw the num we and went on a crash diet I got back down to 130 pounds but with in 3 years I was bac up to 175 pounds, I went on yet another diet got down to 150 and with in 6 months I was back at 175. That was it I faced the fact I am a fat person and will always be fat. Last year at this time I was at 220 but that was just too big for me. My belly was too heavy to carry around at that size I lost 30 pounds but of course I have gained back 10. So the. bottom line is I know I am fat and will always be fat,


Let the yo-yo go smiley My gf has
been heavy much of her life and her confidence just continues to turn me on. She hasn't seen anything south of 200 pounds since her early 20s. Now at about 310/320, her triple-Ds and soft double belly is quite the erogenous zone where my hands are concerned smiley
9 years

People with big bellies, how do you wear your bathrobe?

My belly hardly qualifies as "big" but it's a decent-sized bowling ball smiley When it's cold enough outside to tool around indoors in my robe, i wear the tie below my belly. It's simply more comfy that way smiley
9 years

Most weight gained in 2015?

I gained a net of maybe 5-10 pounds. Hit 204 over the holidays and hope to keep it there smiley
9 years

Half a ton on the bed :-)

As some of you might have seen, my girlfriend just rejoined the "300 club", getting her voluptuous self back up to 310 pounds or so. Well this holiday season, I've hovered around 200 myself. Rocking a soft bod and a growing pooch belly have never felt so good :-) When we're in bed, nothing turns me on like caressing her soft arms and back. And we have 500 pounds on our box spring, which will be a test of any furniture store warranty ;-)
9 years

Holiday weight gain and revelation!

shortybbw:
Congrats to your gf for joining the “300 club”. I’ve been there several times and am close to joining again. I hope to do so by the end of the year. I am 5-0 and am currently 293 lbs. . Being as short as I am even a small gain of 5 pounds or so is quite noticeable and my boyfriend is usually the first to notice and to compliment me.


As well he should smiley Mine tells me she does NOT want to be skinny. She just wants to be loved. With her soft belly and 46DDD chest, I'll be sure to make that happen smiley

And congrats for (nearly) re-entering the 300 club!
9 years

Holiday weight gain and revelation!

ChubbyHubby:
What about letting her know that her size is yet one more thing you love and enjoy about her, rather than something you overlook or love her in spite of??? Unless that would be too weird for her at this stage? Just curious :-)


Oh, she knows I love her size. I just wanted to let her know I appreciate her selflessness smiley
9 years