P??? Sure about that? This would be p:

It depends on a lot of things besides size, but I reckon the main criterion is : how much she can gain and still do her job?

Then the question is, what's her job? If she's a ballerina, the answer is maybe two pounds. If she does phone support or she's a circus fat lady, it would be a lot more.

After thinking about this quite a bit, my generic advice to feedees is:

If you gain on purpose, there is a risk that you'll get bigger than you want. And you may not be able to change your mind and lose the weight.

It's only a risk, not a certainty, but
you shouldn't gain unless you're prepared to accept the risk.

And that's okay--a lot of people accept risks to do what they love. Mountain climbers, smokers, race car drivers, etc. Why not feedees?

That's true--only trouble is a lot of feedees don't know what they want and what they're specifically trying to do!

"How to Get Fat" on my site may help.

Maybe they're fatophobic FAs--that is, they're attracted to you but don't want to be because of social conventions or their own cowardice or whatever.

So they turn away to suppress their attraction.

Going for j?

Some years back a vegan posted some details about her gain. I don't remember much but I remember she was consuming a lot of cooking oil! It's very fattening, about 120 calories per teaspoon.

I'd mix it into your pasta or veggies or whatever and gradually increase the amount you use. It can be pretty hard on the digestive system if you take it straight.

Maybe...you'd better gain some more just to make sure!

I made the differences subtle on purpose, so people could explore the where-do-you-draw-the-line question.

I also just put a larger version of this at drfeeder.deviantart.com/