People with this fetish tend to overplay how much people will react to our gains or our SOs weight gain(s)while I understand why, you shouldn’t let it bother you at most they’ll say wow you got fat/wow they got fat but isn’t this a true and factual statement? Didn’t you enjoy the process? I understand if you’ve been bullied for your weight or faced discrimination but the most I’ve faced is like diet recommendations, it really isn’t that big of a deal.

As for you and yourself you gotta do what makes you happy and makes you feel good if being fat makes you happy then I say go all in

Isolation from Friends/Family

When you lose and gain weight and gain more again after you tend to soften up a bit I probably something to do with skin elasticity

because I’m a glutton and can’t control it anymore

Mn here myself! Yeah the fair would be alot of fun! Cept the walking bit hehe

I don’t want to have health problems but I understand they are unavoidable at a certain point, I really just wanna push the limit while it remains fun, and when it’s not ease back into a healthier way of living

I’m not currently using a scale, I don’t trust them after mine that says it goes up to 400 but didn’t weigh me an ounce above 350 when I was in fact 385 all along.. my scale had me thinking I magically dropped weight and it was very discouraging

Are you saying you can’t form bonds with people who aren’t fat?

I think it’s somewhat normal for people to not form romantic bonds they aren’t sexually attracted to. But it’s important to reflect on what others said here.

Depends how dependent you were if you are struggling to make ends meet it can be hard to pay for all the foods you enjoy… you can spend more money on food than rent (I’ve done it before)

Point 2 is so true and it takes a lot of maturity to reach conclusions like this wish I knew this sooner