I try to play along when someone asks me to insult them. But I find it very hard. I just find BBWs, SSBBWs and gainers VERY attractive. It's hard to insult somone who you find is superior.
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Murphy wrote:johnxyz wrote:
If you want to see a lot of women over 500, go to the dance at a NAAFA convention. Obviously, not everyone is over 500, but many are. Many are married or have boyfriends, but if you just want to look, feel free to come.
Women are not just objects to be ogled. They're not attending the dance to be perved upon. You're going with the intention of objectifying them without their consent and in doing so you are disrespecting them.
How many times must this exact topic be retread before people understand that?
Everyone goes for different reasons. I go for the civil rights. I have marched with NAAFA at the White House, and in the Million Pound March. I have donated money, ran a chapter, and have spent hundreds our hours donating my time for the cause.
Your comments are VERY sizist. Women of all sizes spend millions of dollars on clothes and make-up to be admired. Why would it be any different for large women? They are the same as any other women, and like to be admired.
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If you want to see a lot of women over 500, go to the dance at a NAAFA convention. Obviously, not everyone is over 500, but many are. Many are married or have boyfriends, but if you just want to look, feel free to come.
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[quote]GOOD wrote:
Im betting it would cause a LOT of people working with those big companies and any affiliates to lose their jobs.
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Yes, a lot of people in India would lose their jobs.
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If you participate in the discussions in chat and the forums, read the profiles, etc., you will see who they are. Most are not shy about it.
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It is a problem when the person only likes the gain, not particularly the person, or the goal/result.
I know one woman who went from 300 to 600 with a feeder boyfriend. When she didn't want to gain any more, he dumped her. Her parents were already against her gain, so she had a falling out with them.
At 600, she could not work, and was pretty immobile, and had to go back to her parents in a "I told you so" environment.
She then had weight loss surgery and died from the complications.
A very sad situation indeed.
Bob
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princess piggy wrote:AussieFA63 wrote:
I'd be fully prepared to care for my partner in everyway, if she became immobile.
If you love someone & make that committment, you should stand by them no matter what. Like I've said before, if your partner had an accident & became dependent on you, would you leave them? If they had a stroke, had cancer? Only difference here is that your partner has gained so much weight they need you to help them.
I LOVE this point!! it is soo true!
SHOULD stay with them, and actually staying with them is two different things.
People can gain only so much weight. and some feeders have to keep feeding. I know one woman who gained to over 600. When she could not gain any more, her boyfriend left her. She then had WLS and remained sick from it until she died from it. A very tragic story indeed. I hope this never happens to anyone else. But it could.
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