Has this ever happnd to you

Definitely happened to me!!!

Several times I have gained and was getting almost as turned on by myself gaining as my wife.

I think I have come to a point where mutual gaining seems like the most feelings I have toward this fetish.

Although I do go in stages with myself gaining. I think I probably got so turned on by myself gaining because of the lack of gaining with my wife initially.
11 years

Growth spurts

I have noticed this many times...exactly what you said!

I call it the two week change......I can be eating like a pig, somewhat unhealthy, sweets, many cokes and am surprised how I don't gain any weight. All of a sudden at the two week point even though I am not eating as much and even healthier notice all the gain. Usually around 8-10 Lbs. I cant button my shorts or slacks, my belly sticks way out and I cant suck in and that two week eating all of a sudden showed up in a big way on my body.

Crazy thing is this same two week window seems to apply with me while working out. I can be cutting way back and working out insanely and nothing changes.....all of a sudden two weeks later I notice the changes. Although losing 10 Lbs. is much longer than gaining those same 10 lbs.
11 years

Surprising weight gain

Edxl wrote:
All you need to say is "it was so great to catch up--really brightened up my day! hope our paths cross again sometime soon."

That says you enjoyed talking with her, so were not weirded out by her gain.

I.e. you don't have to directly address the physical, just endorse her as a hole person. Although next time you can say "hey, great to see you again. Looking great again, by the way." Or something off hand, but it isn't a situation where your judgement on her looks should really be played up, IMO



This is Great.....I obviously was not that quick to think at the time. I just really wanted to let her know that I appreciated how she looked....especially after I couldn't recognize her for a while.

She was probably thinking how embarrassing it was about how much weight she gained after I didn't recognize her for a while. I guess I just have a real soft spot, not to mention I love weight gain, and truly think most of the time it look's better on the person.
11 years

Surprising weight gain

johnxyz wrote:
Or you can say, you really look great. Did you change your hair style? Then maybe she will say, no, I gained 200 pounds. Lol


A girlfriend of mine along time ago said that right in front of me to one of her ex co-workers that hadnt seen her in a while......."you look different, did you change your hair style"? She said no, I gained 20 Lbs.


I guess that sure can open thing's up!
11 years

Surprising weight gain

I can't seem to find the thread now but I know there is one related to this but just wanted to get my thoughts down.

It finally made some sense to me earlier today..... I saw a woman I have not seen in 3 years. While walking past me in a store she said Hi and stopped me as if she knew me and then proceeded to tell me how she knew me. I finally said oh ya........I was a little embarrassed at first that I didn't recognize her for what seemed like a minute or longer .... but her once 3 years ago 5' 6" frame weighing around 140 Lbs. and very cute was now around 330 + Lbs. I would estimate....still extremely cute with a heck of a lot of curves and Fat.....Wow the curves she developed.

All I could think about while we were talking was "I wonder how she gained so much weight"? Was it just eating, fad dieting before, was she once this heavy before I knew her and gained it back and more, or was her husband a feeder and he grew his wife into a Beautiful BBW. All these thoughts were going through my mind.

So relating this back to another thread of weight gain and how friends etc. who have not seen you with the gain react. She probably didn't remember the exact time she gained the weight based on the last time I have seen her. Many of her other friends and people in her life have already seen her being more than double in size than she used to be. It was not only a shock for me but I truly didn't recognize her for at least a minute while we were talking and she was explaining our meeting many times these three years ago. She probably thought after we she left that I had surely not seen her since her weight gain. So, I guess everyone is different but it is hard to keep track who as seen you and when since a big weight gain....so it is hard for the person who gained to identify the differences between people with their gain.....unless it is something like a High School reunion where everyone there has not seen you since the gain.
expanding a littl....
she probably couldn't remember when the last time I saw her exactly was and exactly how big she was at that time because she may have thought like many people she runs into she had already gained the majority of the weight and they were used to it. But actually i have not seen her since I would say extra 150 Lbs. so she looked totally different to me.

I thought she looked really beautiful and I really wanted to let her know but I am sure it would have come off weird. The FA in me wanted to say to her "you have gained some weight and curves and it look's really Beautiful on you" because I am sure she has not had many positive comments about her big weight gain......but society warps things so bad she probably would feel bad about it even if I really meant it......just bringing up anything relating to her weight.

Truthfully I thought she was very classy and Beautiful and 10 times sexier than she was.....but obviously 99% of any guys or females for that matter would think otherwise.
11 years

Noticing the gain around you

My girlfriend in High School at 17 got a job at a chain sit down type restaurant as a Hostess. Her uniform happened to be a blouse and bermuda type shorts which she wore very form fitting.

They were allowed a meal after work as well as a desert....not to mention she said she was always snacking when it was slow on corn bread with butter and other sides.

During her two years working there she gained roughly 25 Lbs. and had to get 3 bigger size bermuda shorts and 2 bigger blouses.

She knew I loved her gain and would always discuss how Fat she was getting with me. She didn't seem to mind it at all other than the fact her knew bigger size uniforms would always get deducted from her check not to mention she would have to ask her Manager for the new uniform and would always have to change the size on her re-order uniform card. Although it was kind of common place for most all of the hostess and waitresses.....fact was they all gained weight after working there for a bit.

It almost seemed like a weight gain paradise for the guy employees or even for me as a boyfriend watching all her work friends and especially her keep fattening up.
11 years

Appetite changes

Out of nowhere I realize that I have gained a little weight and then I think back to how hungry I have been and how much hungrier I am lately. This is usually the time I get intrigued and intentionally start stuffing more because of my big appetite and see how much more I can gain.

My question is does anyone else go through this sudden appetite increase and ability to consume more food out of now where? Why does this happen....any ideas?

Not paying to much attention I would say it happens maybe 2-4 times per years for me....and I usually only act on really gaining maybe once or twice per year.
11 years

Why do i feel so horrible? d;

All great stuff has been detailed here for her!

I want to echo the point of liquid for not only stuffing and to distend the belly in a huge way.....but once I used to get so full and tired of chewing I could still easily down several huge glasses of milk or even several milk shakes ....adding many calories that will soon get you fat as well.
11 years

Noticing the gain around you

Being and FA and really into weight gain.....I feel like I always notice this...from a co-worker, a waitress at a restaurant I frequent, random people you see from time to time & obviously my wife.

I can tell if my wife gains 2 Lbs. and what part of her gets slightly fatter :smileysmileysmileysmileysmileysmiley....but on the flip if she loses 2 lbs. I notice that as well (and it makes me sad).

Clothes have a lot to do with it as well as other factors with the small gains. Not to mention during that time of the month my wife can gain 3+ Lbs. and her breasts won;\'t barely fit into her bra "bulging out" and she look's much heavier smileysmileysmileysmileysmileysmiley

Actually seeing a woman I know..... or which can even be a news caster and notice that they have gained a good amount of weight really makes my day and puts a smile on my face with desire.
11 years

Feedees: ever orgasm just...

I have always loved my significant other being fatter and gaining weight.

But my biggest orgasms have come after I gained a lot of weight with a big gut and my significant other fatter with a lot of weight gain and being stuffed to the max both of us and making love with our big bellies getting in the way.

As far as orgasm myself as a male with being stuffed and already fatter I would say No....but certainly aroused and "Diamond cutter hard" to the max with the thought of fattening. It definitely is an erotic feeling being stuffed and fatter!

Also, my orgasms even with my wife being at her fattest didn't get to my most extreme until I got a big belly of my own for our sexual activities. But what obviously puts me over the edge is when we both have gained weight and she teases and discusses her weight gain or mine for that matter "EXCTASY"
11 years