Squishbelly:
I know this isn't technically related to being a chubby chaser, but it's fun to learn about people, so I thought I'd post this question.

Shangrila:
I'll start by giving the obligatory please make sure to prioritize safety, consent, and clear communication.

That said, these are the tips I've found to be helpful:

1. You've made your first good step by joining FantasyFeeder

2. Add Social Media Groups: Look for groups on Reddit (e.g., r/Feederism), Tumblr, or Facebook where folks are discussing feederism

3. Remember To Be Clear About Your Intentions
When engaging with potential feeders, be upfront about what you're looking for. Whether it's a romantic relationship, a casual dynamic, or just someone to share your interests with, clear communication is key.

4. Again, Prioritize Safety and Consent
Consent: Ensure that any interaction is based on mutual consent and respect. Discuss boundaries, limits, and expectations early on.

5. Look for Compatibility
Finding someone who shares your specific preferences is important. Discuss your goals to ensure you're on the same page.

6. Attend Events or Meetups
These can be a great way to meet potential feeders in a safe and social setting.

7. Use Dating Apps
Use dating apps that allow you to specify your feederism interests. Mention your interests in your profile

8. Build Trust Over Time
Take your time getting to know each other. Trust is essential, especially in a dynamic that involves physical and emotional vulnerability.

9. Respect Boundaries
Respect others' boundaries and be prepared for rejection. The right person will appreciate your honesty and shared interests.

Good luck!

Butter On A Pop Tart:
A robot programmed to be a domme feeder who loves to bake would be interesting. 😂

Munchies:
I feel like having a domme you control makes it less ... domme.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
Ha, set it and forget it?

Or maybe have someone else set it for you?

Munchies:
I'm going to assume you have limited to no experience with dommes.

Then again, anyone who prefers sexbots tends to have limited to no experience with the real thing. I'm not anti-sexbot, but I do not know anyone who prefers them to the real thing unless they are unable to experience the real thing.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
Why are you being an asshole?

Christ. I said the idea was interesting, with a 😂 emoji - and you proceed to make snide comments and assumptions about me. You must be a lot of fun in real life.

Don’t bother responding, I don’t care to talk to you. You come across as a rotten person.

Mp31221:
This one might be for the fellas, but feel free to give your insight whomever you may be.

I've been on and off here for years. Seems like whenever I get on here I delve into extreme gooning and fetishizing. Because of this, I end up hating myself and the kink and immedtly fall off and disappear for months until the cycle loops again and again.

It's a terrible feeling to just use this site and the individuals on here as a wank bank while still expect some sort of romantic connection as well.

Even in this strife of extreme sexual subjugation, I still do visualize a modest and loving life with a woman I've enabled to extreme sizes.

My question to you all, is how do you control your sexual urges when entering a strictly sexual space? How do you dance the fetishistic dance without being a one handed keyboard maniac?

Butter On A Pop Tart:
A robot programmed to be a domme feeder who loves to bake would be interesting. 😂

Munchies:
I feel like having a domme you control makes it less ... domme.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
Ha, set it and forget it?

Or maybe have someone else set it for you?

Justinboo0313:
It just scares the shit out of me!! I have severe panic disorder.

Justinboo0313:
I’ve tried so many times to suppress my feelings and fetish. But it my 40 years I just keep coming back. I could eat until I pop at every meal but I restrict myself and work out constantly. It makes no sense to me. Any thoughts?

Morbidly A Beast:
I generally take the approach women are complicated, food is not, I’d rather be eating tbh. Outside of fun interactions here and there I mostly keep to myself. The odds are very very slim there’s a local feeder in my area, like probably astronomical. And I feel like feeder or someone down with fatties are kinda my only bet bc of my size at this point. Maybe a few years ago it would have been different, which it was.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
A robot programmed to be a domme feeder who loves to bake would be interesting. 😂

Quiver:
We fat-admiring women are 100% present, but honestly so many of us get chased off these platforms because one too many men get aggressive or entitled, stalk them, etc. It doesn’t have to be that many to become overwhelming quickly. That part sucks, and it’s part of a larger problem with how culture treats us generally.
My mantra is “keep your approach soft and your bellies softer”