collegefeed:
And who are you to judge that?[/quote]
They could ask you the same thing you know.
They were just voicing an opinion.
5 years
Slow and steady always worked for me but there were times a gain would come on and not stop for several months.
I would consider that a delayed effect thing that happens some times.
Everyone is different so YMMV.
5 years
MissPorker:
If you rely heavily on drinks for your calories, you're bound to gain slower. Based on my experience, I don't think the body sees all the calories from chugging heavy cream. I imagine a big percentage of that passes right through the system. Heavy cream is a great surplus but I prefer the majority of my calories to come from food.
I agree 100%
Heavy cream adds fat but I would say 50% passes right thru.
5 years
Being impatient seems to be a problem for a lot of people.
Our society has become an "I want it now" society.
In the age of instant information via the web people just think everything happens instantly.
I got discouraged too at times so I know how you feel.
There were months on end where I didn't gain more than a pound or two if any at all and I was eating like a horse.
I hit 225 and couldn't seem to gain past that no matter how much I ate. Once my body adjusted the next 100 lbs happened so quickly it shocked me and everyone around me.
5 years
How people see you is none of your doing so how are you causing them to get a false impression.
If you look average people will see you as average.
I think you are worrying over nothing.
5 years
Remember its a choice you make and you are responsible for your actions.
5 years
Like your physical shape was a lie?
What does that even mean?
You are what you are big or small how could one even be a lie?
This sounds like the old "I want to live authentically " thing I keep hearing.
Why people have such a problem just being themselves seems crazy to me.
5 years
Remember you don't have to be a feeder.
You make a choice to be a feeder and it can be something you chose not to do.
If you don't like that part of you change it.
I used to be a drug addict and didn't care if I lived or died and at times wished I had.
I made the personal choice to go thru the agony of with drawl so I wouldn't be bound to the needle.
Rehab was hard as hell and if I can come thru that you can choose not to be a feeder.
I know that sounds crazy on a fetish site but its the truth.
5 years
Why do you need a therapist just to live your life?
You are attracted to what you like why is that a bad thing you are going to hell over?
250 for a guy is not huge if he is tall.
Somebody has fed you some bad advice and IMO you really don't have some extreme fetish.
Liking something is not the same as a fetish.
I'm fat and like fat guys I don't have any fetishes and I am here.
Personally I don't think you are messed up at all. You just have a preference in the kind of guys you like nothing more than that.
I think you are over thinking all of this and trying to find a way to punish yourself for liking fat guys because you don't think you are supposed to be attracted to them.
Wake up GF if you are attracted to bigger guys its OK trust me you aren't going to hell over it.
God made you who you are right?
If God made you attracted to fat guys why argue with him over it?
5 years
One tip for you is don't read too much into it.
Just because she catted with you doesn't mean she is "the one".
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