Ninjaturtle94:
Also, when she read a post on Reddit about it she found a post of a girl saying her bf wanted to gain like 50 pounds or so and everyone was saying he was lying and that was just the start and told her he’s weird and to run.
My wife claims she hasn’t noticed me gain any weight. I have a muscular frame so maybe that helps idk.
Munchies:
Take Reddit advise with a grain of salt. Sometimes it's good. Sometimes it's bad. But it doesn't sound like you two have had a proper heart to heart. Like actually listening to each other and communicating effectively.
Ninjaturtle94:
We talked for a while last night but like you said I’m not sure how effective it was. She basically said no and there is no compromise. I don’t think that I would have a problem stopping once I start. But I’ve also never done it at this level before.
I exercise 4x a week and eat pretty healthy and get regular labs done. I feel like trying it out for December really isn’t that big of a deal but maybe I don’t fully grasp what I could be getting in to
You really don't. There are two major aspects of gaining - physical and mental. Most people focus on the physical, but it's the mental aspect that gets ya.
You are looking to engage in spiteful gaining. That is the most dangerous kind of gaining because it clouds your judgement. You've already shown signs of it too.
You chugged a quart of heavy cream before your wife could throw it away.
You planned on consuming excessive amounts of heavy cream and maltodextrin in secret specifically because your wife doesn't approve.
How long before you start stuffing your face whenever you two start fighting? How long before you start engaging in reckless, rapid gains specifically because it will piss off your wife?
Next thing you know, getting fat is all you'll care about to the detriment of everyone and everything else in your life.