Fattening in secret

Ninjaturtle94:
Also, when she read a post on Reddit about it she found a post of a girl saying her bf wanted to gain like 50 pounds or so and everyone was saying he was lying and that was just the start and told her he’s weird and to run.

My wife claims she hasn’t noticed me gain any weight. I have a muscular frame so maybe that helps idk.

Munchies:
Take Reddit advise with a grain of salt. Sometimes it's good. Sometimes it's bad. But it doesn't sound like you two have had a proper heart to heart. Like actually listening to each other and communicating effectively.

Ninjaturtle94:
We talked for a while last night but like you said I’m not sure how effective it was. She basically said no and there is no compromise. I don’t think that I would have a problem stopping once I start. But I’ve also never done it at this level before.

I exercise 4x a week and eat pretty healthy and get regular labs done. I feel like trying it out for December really isn’t that big of a deal but maybe I don’t fully grasp what I could be getting in to


You really don't. There are two major aspects of gaining - physical and mental. Most people focus on the physical, but it's the mental aspect that gets ya.

You are looking to engage in spiteful gaining. That is the most dangerous kind of gaining because it clouds your judgement. You've already shown signs of it too.

You chugged a quart of heavy cream before your wife could throw it away.

You planned on consuming excessive amounts of heavy cream and maltodextrin in secret specifically because your wife doesn't approve.

How long before you start stuffing your face whenever you two start fighting? How long before you start engaging in reckless, rapid gains specifically because it will piss off your wife?

Next thing you know, getting fat is all you'll care about to the detriment of everyone and everything else in your life.
7 months

Fantasy - fattened up to avoid enlistment, as a sign of love

Belly Pot Pie:
Even if it was because of the war it’s not really prosecutable lol. War makes people sad and stressed. Sad and stressed people overeat.
Should be so easy to get out of that.


Okay, but how familiar are you with korean law? Or the laws of any country with mandatory conscription laws?

I can assure you that it is extremely prosecutorial in these countries. Especially since, you know, they did convict the guy. The issue wasn't that he was fat. The issue was that he got fat to avoid service.
7 months

Fattening in secret

Ninjaturtle94:
Also, when she read a post on Reddit about it she found a post of a girl saying her bf wanted to gain like 50 pounds or so and everyone was saying he was lying and that was just the start and told her he’s weird and to run.

My wife claims she hasn’t noticed me gain any weight. I have a muscular frame so maybe that helps idk.


Take Reddit advise with a grain of salt. Sometimes it's good. Sometimes it's bad. But it doesn't sound like you two have had a proper heart to heart. Like actually listening to each other and communicating effectively.
7 months

Fattening in secret

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?

Munchies:
Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.

Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.

Highway:
I can understand the difficulty when your wife condemns your wanting to gain. It seems as though your already fairly big so I'm curious if your wife fought you on your weight gain to this point. If she hasn't, then perhaps she likes the bigger you but social norms triggered her condemnation when you discussed with her. It is the perfect time of year to indulge anyway. You could probably gain 10 pounds between now and New Years without having to chug cream or maltodextrin. Test her reaction to just gaining some "holiday weight" I'm sure it would be more fun to gain with your wife's support, possibly chugging cream was a little bit much for her right now, but who knows, she might enjoy a few extra pounds you just put on by enjoying calorie rich food. This time of year gives you a great excuse, almost everyone gains weight this time of year.

Ninjaturtle94:
One thing that scared her is that she thinks I’d like the feeling of gaining weight too much and not want to stop. She said she read about it and thinks I could get addicted to feeling myself get bigger.


Do you feel like this is a valid concern of hers? Because from the limited interaction when you, I am getting those vibes too.
7 months

Fantasy - fattened up to avoid enlistment, as a sign of love

HectorBalloon:
Heard about some guy doing this in South Korea - got obese to avoid conscription. He was somehow found out and got arrested and punished.

Belly Pot Pie:
How could they prove that was the reason? And why wouldn’t he just make something up like I’m eating because I want to because I’m sad or some shit? Lol.


They probably got suspicious after he gained a lot of weight really quickly and investigated him.
7 months

Fattening in secret

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?

Munchies:
Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.

Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.

Highway:
I can understand the difficulty when your wife condemns your wanting to gain. It seems as though your already fairly big so I'm curious if your wife fought you on your weight gain to this point. If she hasn't, then perhaps she likes the bigger you but social norms triggered her condemnation when you discussed with her. It is the perfect time of year to indulge anyway. You could probably gain 10 pounds between now and New Years without having to chug cream or maltodextrin. Test her reaction to just gaining some "holiday weight" I'm sure it would be more fun to gain with your wife's support, possibly chugging cream was a little bit much for her right now, but who knows, she might enjoy a few extra pounds you just put on by enjoying calorie rich food. This time of year gives you a great excuse, almost everyone gains weight this time of year.


Nah, don't do that. All that will happen is she will interpret this as him being disrespectful to her fears and concerns as well as rejecting their marriage for his fetish.

This is not a position OP needs to be in.
7 months

Fattening in secret

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?

Munchies:
Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.

Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.


Mhm

And what all are you doing to safeguard your health?
7 months

Fattening in secret

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?


Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.
7 months

When did your weight begin to affect your mobility

SumoSized:
Just as the title says, I'm curious at what point peoples weight began to change how they move. It could be subtle things like changing how you lean down to pick something up or how you sit up, to more drastic things like needing to take more breaks while walking or being unable to walk at all without assistance.

For me I'm still fairly young (20) and small (between 220-225 depending on how my weight fluctuates) so my changes have been very minor. I've noticed I struggle a bit more than in used to leaning down to grab things or tie my shoes, and the soles of my feet hurt a lot more after walking for a few hours than they used to. But what have y'all's experiences been and at what weight did you start to experience them?

Canuck:
i was 150-165 lbs and going to the gym for most of my adult life. when i stopped that and started gaining, by 190 lbs i was already noticing the effect! even just while bending over to put on my shoes, lol!

one of the reasons i kept gaining after hitting 300 lbs was that, it didn't seem like such a big deal. after getting used to being over 200, 300 seemed bigger but not a lot different. but i noticed by the time i was 350 lbs i *really* started to notice. it really impacted the distance i could walk, for some reason i passed a point where my endurance really suffered a lot.

now standing is chore, but at my current size the way i notice my size the most is in how my reach has grown more limited. not being able to reach parts of your own body is a strange realization. my belly forces me to sit away from most desks and tables. and i can't reach the higher shelves in the kitchen because i can't get close enough, with the counter pressing into me.

SumoSized:
Interesting, Ive heard from several other male gainers in the past that 350 lbs seems to be a turning point where you start to feel really fat.


This is also about the size your fupa really grows.
7 months

The daily shake

BiggerestBelly:
Okay,

Surely after all the time FantasyFeeder has been around and all the time we've had to share and collaborate on gaining...

Surely, someone among us has found the most effective and palatable daily weight gain shake.

Boost? Heavy cream? A particular brand of mass gainer?

What daily supplement or shake recipe has ACTUALLY made a difference for you in your own gains?


Extreme feeder here. I've tried out a number of shakes with the feedees I've had. I don't use them anymore because I find food works so much better. Not only is food more cost effective, but it's easier to fatten up a feedee with delicious food long term. The shakes are better for short-term rapid gains.
7 months