Feedism a dealbreaker?

BlimpCityF wrote:
It did cause a break-up as when the desire got stronger, my exgf felt she could not satisfy me as she was an emotional eater as opposed to 'feedist' so deep down I was toxic for her.


Congrats to you both for having the maturity to recognize that problem.
13 years

Fattening in films

CakeForBreakfast wrote:
DannyAU wrote:
There's the movie 'Feed'.


Oh, I love that movie!

I'm mildly bothered by the fact that it takes an obscure subset of the population (i.e. feeders) and turns us into the psychotic, axe-murdering monsters under your bed...I didn't WANT to like the film but the cinematography was great, the character development was pretty brilliant, and I totally fell in love with the soundtrack. Also, hot BBW. (Who also happened to be the only sympathetic character in the entire cast.)


Really? I never saw it, always thought it sounded awful.

But maybe I should give it a try. I'll blame you if it sucks though!
13 years

Feedism a dealbreaker?

CakeForBreakfast wrote:
...and eventually that and a bunch of other stuff piled up and I decided, NOPE, DONE.


Good for you!
13 years

Fattening in films

dipdopson wrote:
In & Out. Matt Dillon's character comes back to town and sees that the once buxom Joan Cusack has lost weight. I think the final scene has him feeding her a donut.


I believe it was a french fry.
13 years

New to the 300 lb club?

Several people have reported an appetite bump that occurred when they hit 300.

Anyone else?
13 years

New sensations

Lying in bed with my (now-ex) wife one morning I felt her hip and realized it was chunkier. Wondered if she'd gained weight and reached around to see if she was getting a tummy...

she was!
13 years

I don't want to stop eating

One caveat:

The biggest risk is not so much hitting a specific weight. It's getting so into this that you literally CAN'T stop gaining.

From talking to feedees it seems to me the key factor in becoming unable to stop is: Stuffing to the max too often. That is, stuffing to the point you can't take a deep breath.

If you stuff to the max once a week or more you may not be able to stop gaining.

Of course, you MAY be able to stop gaining even if you stuff like that, and you may be unable to stop even if you don't.

It's just a correlation I've noticed.
13 years

I don't want to stop eating

Those calorie calculators are often way off. Just because you eat a certain amount of calories doesn't mean you can digest that many.

Perhaps you could keep track of your calories and exercise and weight and derive a formula that is relevant for YOU.

Or you could just gain until you decide to stop. Be prepared to overshoot though...it's hard to stop on a dime!

Personally the ideal size for a woman is usually as big as she can get and still get around fairly easily. When the weight becomes crippling it's less than ideal.

I love the Evil Feeder fantasy but irl? No.
13 years

Unintentional or inevitable?

In my opinion 1) you are gaining intentionally; 2) you will eventually weigh more than 200 pounds.

Bon appetit!
13 years