Fantasy Feeder

Name a feeling better than this

Hydrogen:
Starting out small at the beginning of the day and slowly stuffing yourself with bigger and bigger meals just to be huge at the end of the day is the best feeling ever. Honestly being full from your favorite food is amazing as well. It’s also fun just to look at the number on the scale go up throughout the day

Nothing real special here, just wanted to share how much I enjoy stuffing

According to my partner, nothing feels quiet as good as an over stuffed belly paired with an adoring feeder and a good orgasm.

7 months

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Regretting the gains

FatFalcon:
So I decided to regain again and went back to Grommr. Two encouragers are helping me. But odd kinksters who one of which thinks I should be a punching bag with boxing gloves. The other one is into squashing which I am fine with but I am not really into it unless I want a relationship and discuss it. I have been blocked by two guys who really just set me off. I’m starting to think it’s a mistake to gain with that crowd.

MickRidem:
So, it's not really the gain that's a problem, but the company?

Grommr is an ...interesting place. A lot of hit or miss, and some who are outright disrespectful. Is this something you can just do for yourself? Or wait until you feel more comfortable with the company you find?

FatFalcon:
Basically an environment that is actually better and not just cringe worthy. I have been in an out of that community and to me it’s been really just feels like it’s worse than it’s ever been.

I'm with Mick on this one here. It sounds like you don't have issues gaining, but you want to gain with someone to enjoy it with.

Perfectly understandable. I think most feedees want this.

The think you gotta keep in mind is that Grommer is owned by the same people who own Feabie. So it's no wonder you're having the issues you're having.

I've never been on there (for obvious reasons) but from what I've heard from those on it, Grommer is something of a hell site. Have you looked into other sites like Fetlife? I've heard decent things.

7 months

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Why are people so angry at fat acceptance movements on the internet?

2seatsalways:
If anything I'm for your body you do you, but Ozempic being abused for weight loss instead of mainly diabetes is really tragic. Sure there is mounjaro and a small list of others but ozempic was the leading medication that helped millions of patients.
Now those patients are struggling to get ozempic because it's becoming more available for weight loss than helping blood sugar levels.

Hot take I know but rather this pill be used for people who need it.

Munchies:
Yeah. Plus it's coming out that a decent size of people who are taking this are experiencing permanent side effects.

But that's not about fat exceptance.

PurpleJade:
Curious as to what side effects you’re saying, of listed on webmd all seem standard and pretty expected of a medication. Anything different you’ve heard in particular? My S/O is trying to be approved. I’m not really for it, but that’s not my decision.

In fairness to you, WebMD provides a comprehensive, but not complete list. This is also something that's still developing, so that might be why it's not on there.

There's new evidence that shows some people (not everyone) will experience digestive paralysis due to Ozempic. There's currently a class action lawsuit about it.

lawsuitlegalnews.com/ozempic-lawsuit/stomach-paralysis

It's a rare side effect, but if you end up with it, it may persist even after stopping the medication.

The bulk of Ozempic users won't experience this. But it's a reminder that if you are wanting to slim down and are not severely diabetic, it's worth it to explore other options first.

7 months

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Is it the contrast or the size that counts?

Malvineous:
I'm addressing this to people who say they love contrast. I'm curious as to whether the contrast is actually what most people here are into, or if it's just a preference for a partner of a particular size. Maybe I'm way off base, but I get the impression that with many people who say they love contrast, it's just a way to reframe their physical attractions around a secondary effect that they like.

I suppose what I'm trying to get at is, if you're fat and prefer thin partners for instance, do you prefer thin partners because there's contrast? Or do you enjoy the contrast that happens because of your attraction to thin partners? Would your preference change if you were also thin, or would you still prefer thin people regardless of there being no contrast?

Milhause:
I think this is slightly chicken vs. egg territory because for a lot of ppl, asking them to articulate why they’re attracted to something is difficult. Sure, I can list reasons why I prefer a larger partner but at the end of the day the reason I’m attracted to that body type is simply… because that’s how I’m wired.

I like contrast but there’s definitely a preference involved. I’m not short, but at 5’8” I’m also not super tall. I’ve dated taller women in the past (contrast) but ultimately the attraction wasn’t as strong as when i dated women closer to my height but more plus size.

I suppose it's more like, is contrast incidental or the focal point. I've spoken to a lot of feedists who think the size contrast is hot, but if they ended up a similar size to their partner, it's no big deal. Meanwhile, I've spoken to feedists where the contrast is the whole point.

I know feedists that will do whatever to takes to keep that contrast as much as possible.

7 months

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What are the most helpful advice you received to help you gain weight?

IGotFat0817:
I'm finally back on track with my weight gain journey to 300 lbs. The biggest advice I've come to acknowledge is: to eat even if you are not hungry at all.

As a person who has a fast metabolism (and it's slowing down finally at the age of 31), This is a HUGE advice for me. My appetite has grown because of it, sometimes it gets a lil scary to be able to cram more food in. My mindset is literally shifting to food. Don't eat to live, Live to eat.

I haven't weighed myself yet, but I FEEL fluffier and heavier. 150 lbs was my highest weight, and I miss that feeling. Now it seems like I will move pass that point in no time.

What is an advice you received or researched which helped you cross the threshold into obesity?

Feeder here. I'm not obese myself, but I've helped many people get fat(ter). I think the most important thing you can do is to have fun with it. If you take it too seriously, you'll suck the joy of it is, and you'll struggle with consistency or make yourself sick trying to get past a slump. You'll find more success if you're having fun.

7 months

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Heavy cream

Pigpigpig:
Gonna second cooking with heavy cream, so many delicious things you can make with it! Fettucine alfredo is a personal favorite, my gf adds some to scrambled eggs and it makes their texture really fluffy. If you drink coffee you can also replace half and half/milk with heavy cream.

Personally, I'd never drink it straight up, but it works for some people. I'd rather enjoy myself on the way to getting huge than force it.

Heavy cream is best used as a calorie supplement. When you look at it that way, it's a fun ingredient to add to pretty much anything. It's rich, creamy, and adds a good bump in calories. It's also the way you're supposed to use it anyway.

If you drink it straight up, you run the risk of it upsetting your stomach. Some people are into that, so more power to you. However, it won't last as long. And since heavy cream is kind of expensive anyway, that can but a strain on your grocery budget.

7 months

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Sub and breeding

Xenonprincess:
Generally breeding is more of a biological urge that most of the population gets (not all but definitely a majority). Read almost any romance novel and the idea of "breeding" is present. Big bellies are very sexy in this community too. Most women are socialized to be (as well as sometimes naturally are more) submissive. Men especially when interacting with women in this sort of context feel entitled to sexual interactions so women who are dominant are less likely to put up with that sort of behavior. I don't think it's more common in the fetish, just more common on forums.

Munchies:
You have confused breeding kinks with the biological urge to reproduce. You have also confused having a breeding kink with power play.

Breeding kinks are all about having sex with a chance to be pregnant. It often coincides with a pregnancy kink, but they are two different things. It's super common to be into breeding and not pregnancy.

It's also super common to enjoy breeding without the power play or for the person being bred to be the dominant one.

Xenonprincess:
I am just talking about my experience with what people mean when they talk about a breeding kink. Usually they are discussing actually wanting kids and getting/wanting to get pregnant without any interest in the 'kink' part. A lot of people tend to call the biological urge a kink. They usually just want to get to the point they can have kids with their partner. I know some who do have the fetish but they talk about it much differently than most people do and I only know 3.

Probably should have specified that.

I'm curious as to who you've been hanging around that likens breeding to reproductive sex. The only people I know like that are those who subscribe to alpha male ideology and those that make fun of them.

Everyone else in the main stream calls the desire to have sex as "being horny" and the desire to make babies as either a "ticking biological clock" or "trying for a baby."

7 months

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Why are people so angry at fat acceptance movements on the internet?

2seatsalways:
If anything I'm for your body you do you, but Ozempic being abused for weight loss instead of mainly diabetes is really tragic. Sure there is mounjaro and a small list of others but ozempic was the leading medication that helped millions of patients.
Now those patients are struggling to get ozempic because it's becoming more available for weight loss than helping blood sugar levels.

Hot take I know but rather this pill be used for people who need it.

Yeah. Plus it's coming out that a decent size of people who are taking this are experiencing permanent side effects.

But that's not about fat exceptance.

7 months

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Why are people so angry at fat acceptance movements on the internet?

Arfacode:
something that i have noticed lately is that people are getting extremely angry at the existence of weight loss injections and people using them.
when the fat people they hate so much start losing weight in a new way they don't like they start trying to find reasons to justify denying its use and keep insulting them. it really exposes the fact that all they wanted was a reason to insult somebody for how they look

Casual Gainer:
Reminds me of a post I saw where someone mocked a fat person for trying to lose weight at a gym.

Although I think this was a YouTube Reddit r/facepalm compilation video, so at least they were getting mocked for it.

Damned if you do, and damned if you don't.

Honestly, I hate the rise of people going to the gym and filming people to humiliate them. Stuff like that makes people not wanna go.

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Is it the contrast or the size that counts?

Malvineous:
I'm addressing this to people who say they love contrast. I'm curious as to whether the contrast is actually what most people here are into, or if it's just a preference for a partner of a particular size. Maybe I'm way off base, but I get the impression that with many people who say they love contrast, it's just a way to reframe their physical attractions around a secondary effect that they like.

I suppose what I'm trying to get at is, if you're fat and prefer thin partners for instance, do you prefer thin partners because there's contrast? Or do you enjoy the contrast that happens because of your attraction to thin partners? Would your preference change if you were also thin, or would you still prefer thin people regardless of there being no contrast?

For me, I enjoy the contrast that happens due to my preference.

I'm thick and muscular. While I am attracted to most body types, my preference is fat men. I'm also a domme. So, for me, I enjoy the contrast because it plays into my love of power play.

Anyone can dominate someone smaller than them. But it takes a special bond to dominate someone much larger.

7 months

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