I'm with you on this! When my wife was at her heaviest just feeling her belly bounce in to mine was incredible..... especially watching it.

Even better was when she lost weight but still had a pretty soft fat belly and I produced a noticeable big stuffed gut. When she was on top it was so sexy after we both ate and were stuffed with our bellies getting in the way feeling so full and fat. Something about me having a big belly made this even more sensitive and erotic for me.

My wife is not into gaining weight so introducing food during sex probably wouldn't go over smoothly but she does over indulge before bed time quite a bit so there is plenty of full bloated bellies squishing together especially when I am on one of my gaining streaks which happens a couple of times a year and last several months each time.

It has happened to me several times in the last few years.

Now, all of a sudden I cant get below 230 Lbs. even with a lot of lifting, cardio and crunches.

I am an FA and very into weight gain on women and especially my wife. This pattern started happening a few years ago when My wife who is really curvy and beautiful and by societies standards over weight.....but I told her I would like to see her gain more weight. She has always known of my liking her to gain weight and has been a lot heavier before. She has a real big sweet tooth in which I have never had. I started bringing home plenty of snacks, baked goods and ice cream in hopes for her to gain a lot of weight......when she mentioned "I am going to get fat".. with all the sweets you have been buying.....I told her I would love nothing more than that.

She went on eating and I kept bringing home tons of sweets and snacks. Before to long I noticed she had been gaining some weight but not nearly as much as I thought she would. This went on longer and I noticed..... after I had been snacking along with her how much bigger I got in this time than she did.

I weighed myself at the gym and couldn't believe I had gained 15 Lbs. I kept on buying tons of snacks and ice cream for my wife..... and now for myself. All of a sudden because of the Void of weight gain with my wife....I was getting pretty excited about my new big belly. I decided to try and gain more weight and it became pretty easy. The craziest thing was my appetite really got big I could easily eat 2-3 times as much as I used to and not really get full. Not to mention I started developing a pretty big sweet tooth. After all my big meals I would always follow it with cookies baked goods and ice cream. My belly felt stuffed to the max all the time and it never really went down....I couldn't even come close to sucking it in. I became very excited about the thought of having my wife notice my big new gut....even though in the past she has mentioned that even with herself being over weight her whole life she never would like a guy who was fat or had a big belly.

All of a sudden I was getting more and more turned on by my gaining and even more by how big I could make my gut.....not to mention I had this crazy erotic desire to have my wife mention my weight gain and call me Fat.

My eating was out of control and I could never seem to get full. Even if I wasn't hungry the minute I started to eat then I couldn't stop. I literally surprised myself how much I could eat in one sitting not to mention all day. I would get these weird mixed emotions while eating once in a while.. trying to stop after 2 Big macs, fries and a soda for lunch and not have anything else. Then give in and go to the store and grab 2 King size Snicker bars another soda and a box of cookies. I would eat the 2 Snickers and almost finish the whole box of cookies and start to feel guilty and out of control.

Being a fairly healthy eater in the past after I started eating all these sweets I even started eating fast food for lunch quite a bit and was totally surprised how good it started tasting to me and how much of it I could consume. I would be totally stuffed before bed and still be snacking right up until I brushed my teeth, showered and went to bed. I would wake up in the morning and have the worst hunger pains. The more I ate the more I could consume....It got pretty scary sometimes....even when I wasn't hungry the moment I started I didn't get full so I kept eating.

I think I probably gained 40 Lbs. total before my erotic desire faded a little. Over the last 6 months I am back down to 237 Lbs.

In the last month or so my wife has started eating more all of a sudden and has gained some weight and this time it is her that has been buying all the ice cream cookies and chocolates and over the last week I have been eating more to. My jeans are getting really snug in the waist and my for a while leaner belly has been stuffed and shows a considerable difference.....I may be back on again....feeling pretty excited about stuffing it and dream that my wife would come around and we could stuff each other and mutually fatten each other up! She just called me in for dinner for some huge plates of Lasagna and italian bread.....I might follow t up with a huge bowl of ice cream.

I have heard the technical reasoning behind that but cant seem to remember at the moment.

I have heard from other people on this board that they cant stop playing with and touching there belly when it keeps getting bigger. I know when I gain and get a big belly I tend to touch, pat and play with it....but I tacked it up for being an FA and into weight gain.

What a wonderful thing....does it make you want to get it even way fatter now?

Good to know.....How so many of the same things are sexy to the FFA perspective.

As an FFA have you found that you like men to be bigger and bigger as your fetish has gone on?

I was wondering if females who are into weight gain on there men have different views than men liking the weight on there women. I am sure there are a lot of similarities but it would be cool to hear some of the things women and men like about weight gain ..... the look, feel and everything in between.

to get it started here are a few that I like:

. I love it when My wife gains a good amount of weight and she struggles to cross her now bigger and heavier thighs....not to mention seeing her belly spill onto her lap

. after she has gained a good amount of weight I love watching how her appetite is so much bigger and how she can now eat so much more.....it is especially sexy when she keeps eating even after I think she would be totally full.

. watching her continually snack after she just ate a huge meal and several deserts.

. watching her struggle to get a pair of jeans on that are clearly not fitting after the 20-30 Lbs. she has gained. The best is watching her slightly hop up and down to try and get them up and seeing her big belly jiggling and bouncing not to mention her big fat breasts squishing and jiggling in her bra.

. Seeing and especially hearing her being out of shape because of the extra weight..... I can remember multiple times when she was at her heaviest not to mention her horniest during these times.....while we were making love she was heavily out of breath and she struggled and asked me to slow down several times so she could catch her breath....and after we were done she laid there smiling and still panting and said "Wow...That was great but your new fat wife is a little out of shape". Hearing that drove me to crazy erotic heights for some reason!

. Watching her take a shower and lather soap all over her expanded figure.....gently rolling over her newly formed huge soft belly and then work her way to her big hips and gently lifting one of her legs watching her lower belly squish up into a huge belly roll that stops her leg from going any higher.....then slowly caressing her huge breasts with her soapy hands and watching each exaggeratedly huge breasts slid and bounce out of her slippery soapy hands. Then after she dries off and walks toward me to get her panties and bra on the most intoxicating smell of bath soap lingers off her body all the while I watch every part of her fattened sexy figure bouncing and jiggling rhythmically

During this time I had several business acquaintances .....all of which were women and pretty big themselves ironically mention very nicely that they noticed I had filled out and that I looked good being bigger and huskier in there words.

They noticed my Huge Tight Beer Belly gut that was now measuring 46 + inches around......and was clearly obvious I put on around 35-40 Lbs. My wife eventually commented one evening after being tipsy after dinner at a restaurant we used to frequent when we were dating. We were waiting for the valet to bring our car up when I mentioned everything was the same as it used to be.....referring to the restaurant..... she then agressively pressed into me for a tight hug and big Kiss which has been a struggle for several months because my bigger gut along with her good size smaller belly which tend to push us back from one another when kissing while standing. She then play fully grabbed and shook my enormous fully distended gut while moving her hands up to my chest and then shook my chest and said "I don't remember this being the same as it used to be". I was slightly shocked and she reached in again and placed her hand on my belly again and softly shook it again. I was pretty aroused and wanted her to start a conversation about how much bigger I was and how much I have gained. No more talk for that night. I couldnt help but think about this the next morning when I woke up .....she mentioned she was going to get some Stabucks and breakfast....I spoke up and told her to get a dozen donuts. While she was gone I couldnt help but size myself up while I was getting into the shower I saw my profile in the mirror and I looked as if I was 9 months plus pregnant still being completely full fron the huge dinner and desert the night before.......I couldn't get over how big I looked. My plan was when she got back with the donuts and coffee was to eat as many as I could right in front of her to try and get more fat comments out of her. As she returned I was out of the shower in my Boxers size XL in which my belly stuck out a good 8 inches past the waistband looking huge. I was in Bed with the comforter watching TV....as she slid into bed along with her bagel and a donut for me on a plate along with our coffees. I quickly finished the first big chocolate bar and went back to fill my plate....I came back to bed with three new donuts on my plate hoping she would say something but she said nothing. I was pretty full after these donuts but definitely had room for more. 4 months earlier I would have never been able to to even finish three of them but my appetite was huge nowadays and i could never really get full.... even if I was I was able to keep eating. I got out of bed again and went to get two more big donuts on my plate.....as I returned to the bed I heard her turn on the shower and getting in.....so she wasnt able to witness my next plate full. I decided to stuff the next two down my throat to get my belly really stuffed and huge. As she got out of the shower I walked by her starting up a conversation while I was eating another donut.....My gut was so full and huge she must have been amazed and a little concerned at how big I looked right in front of her not to mention my gluttony of major proportions. I now was trying to have her comment in a concerned way at how fat and out of control I was looking and acting with my over indulgence.

No more comments that day.....but boy it was probably the biggest and stuffed I had ever been and I was not only surprised by how big I was and felt but I felt like just carressing my big belly and admiring for the next hour until I could actually move normally again.

You should go for some extreme gluttony right in front of your girl to see how she might comment or bring up a conversation about it.

I have been in the same position....I have always loved weight gain in general and especially when my wife gains...I would love for her to get really fat.

Trying to keep lots of fattening treats around the house which I know is hard for her to resist several times in the last few years for many many months I found myself putting on more weight than her from the over indulgence.

I decided to really start stuffing myself to see if she noticed all the weight I had gained.....It become rather fun and erotic since She wasn't fattening up as fast as I thought she would and kind of a void in my life with regard to weight gain.

I really started to be able to eat way larger portions and she kept piling my plates full and always bringing me bigger and bigger portions....I started to wonder if the roles were reversed and she was trying to fatten me up.

This went on for several months and my appetite became out of control and I kept eating....I gained a lot of weight and my gut was huge it strained most all of my Tshirts non of my clothes fit the same and it was totally noticeable I became pretty fat. My wife said nothing....she kept feeding me bigger portions all the time...so I decided I was going to keep going until she mentioned how fat I was getting.

I was becoming more and more aroused with anticipation as how she would eventually comment on my large amount of weight gain.

I can see how you almost want her to mention it without even trying to bring the subject up because it will be that much more shocking and exciting.

Im not a woman but from a different perspective.....My wife never likes admitting or even acknowledging when she gains a good amount of weight, even when it is 20 or 30 Lbs. on her shorter very curvy frame. I guess its not admitting but actually she doesn't want to bring it up or talk about it around myself even though she knows I love her bigger and especially when she gains weight.

But on many occasions right in front of her Friends or couples Friends we have she has made exaggerated gestures while eating especially deserts at dinner and even ordering multiple deserts because she just couldn't decide. While finishing them off slowly she would seductively moan and mention jokingly in front of everyone....almost to draw attention that she has put on a lot of weight recently.... "I don't think I am to concerned about getting even fatter" plus my husband doesn't seem to mind how fat I am getting. Even though I would feel slightly embarrassed I am very up front in front of everyone and always mention I think my wife is beautiful and that I think she looks great and is not even close to being fat. Most of our couples friends assume that I like my wife heavier I would imagine...But I am sure they don't know how big and fat I would actually like to see my wife get.....I don't even think my wife knows the extent I would like her to get.

Yep.....I like them fairly fat! But with that said I would consider "i" to be fat!

I even prefer much bigger than J but I can be candid and say "i" is definitely fat even in my FA eyes.

[quote]kayluvsfood wrote:
I am new to gaining. I'm pretty athletic build and I love to see my body change and get curvier. I love to feel what the food is doing to me, not to mention how good it tastes. When my thighs start to touch and I can literally feel 5 lbs heavier in the ass, it makes me want to eat more.[/quot

Anyone else?