Fantasy Feeder

Can someone be too big?

Guggy wrote:
Well yeah.

Personal preference and health concerns being the two things that most often define that limit, I imagine.

Mmhm, this. People here that are gaining are sensible adults and they'll know when to stop if need be/if desired.

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Sir Saphiel

Embaressment of being caught

softgirl wrote:
God I'd be so embarassed! Not only because of the explicit name but because of the content I have on here.. my photos and some of my posts are really not family friendly!

This kind of thing. As stated in the past, it's -not- okay to hide your partner and choice in partner from your family and friends, but it -is- okay to hide your fetish from your family and friends. People into bondage generally don't go waving their whips and leather around for others to see.

As a hybrid fat-positive community/sexual fat & feederism/feedism fetish website, in theory it wouldn't be a problem if only the former aspects of the website were seen, but the latter aspects are also on full display.

Or in other words:

"I like fat people" <- don't hide this
"I like fattening people up/getting fatter" <- you can hide this

9 years

Sir Saphiel

Harassment thread

peppe91 has been ordered to cease contact with panda96. Is allegedly obsessive and won't leave her alone.

peppe91 iddu.san@hotmail.it'>piddu.san@hotmail.it 151.52.48.247 4 Feb 2009 23

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Sir Saphiel

Harassment thread

sjw123 has been ordered to cease contact with BigBoobedJew and to refrain from looking at her profile anymore - he keeps doing this even though she told him to leave her alone. She can see it as she has a Dating package, which distresses her, since he has looked at her profile at least 117 times so far.

sjw123 wolfguitar@live.com 96.227.112.10 22 Aug 2011 22

9 years

Sir Saphiel

Wife had wls.

chubbyhoney wrote:
I'm sure you didn't mean it to, but that post comes over as incredibly shallow. Of course WLS surgery will change the OPs life and that of his wife, but sounds like you're writing the marriage off altogether. As the OP is a FA, you've taken it as a given that as soon as his wife loses weight, there will be zero physical attraction to her any more, as if a woman's weight is the only thing that makes her physically attractive - and once she loses it, there is nothing sexy or desirable about her. As if she has no other attributes whatsoever. If the success of a relationship hinges purely on one person's weight, then it can't be a very healthy relationship.

If you prioritise your own sexual preferences over your wife's health, there is something wrong with your priorities. The OP was looking for helpful advice, not knee-jerk write-off of his marriage. You make it sound like his wife is trying to spite him by losing weight, like she should put his preference before her own autonomy over and preferences regarding her own body.

If something like your dining companion eating less than you in a restaurant even features on a list of things that are more important than the crapload of stuff which makes a great, worthwhile, loving relationship, then you shouldn't be in a relationship. People who feel like that should hire themselves a BBW escort and save some poor woman's feelings.

This is a good post. I'll also add that if any problems start to develop in the bedroom with sexual arousal, Viagra can help there to fulfil both partners sexual needs.

9 years

Sir Saphiel

Harassment thread

davethomas1 has been ordered to cease contact with A taste of Cinnamon like she asked, after he apparently made a number of comments on her photos saying that her face looks like she's holding a shit, and that she should never smile because it's like she's holding her poops. I'd guess she deleted the comments so I couldn't record or see them for any concrete proof, but I still warned him nonetheless.

davethomas1 avethomas669969@gmail.com'>davethomas669969@gmail.com 172.56.2.132 2 Mar 2013 115

ardember has also been ordered to cease contact with little belly after an argument with little belly in shouts over skinny women/'stuck-up' women (she got annoyed when some men started moaning about them) where he then sent a bizarre PM to her stating that she was raging, wondering what the 'weird thing' was that she had with skinny girls, that she 'went crazy' in the shoutbox and that he found it amusing. Has been told not to repeat that behaviour again.

ardember gaeltales@gmail.com 81.152.7.148/86.135.234.246 18 Mar 2014 23

Update: ardember wrote back and either lied to me about what happened or somehow severely misread little belly as hating skinny girls (huh?), then deleted his account. Guy spoke like a robot.

9 years

Sir Saphiel

Any love for tall, slim guys

Locking this, there's already another suitable topic for it that has been bumped up now:

fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/forum/view-thread.php

9 years

Sir Saphiel

Age checking

Nicki came back:

fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/profiles/view.php
rainbowbbw nic***99@hotmail.com 69.115.156.236 25 Dec 2014 22

Banned and sent the same message as before about providing proof of age.

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Sir Saphiel

Merry christmas/happy holidays

Merry Christmas all.

9 years

Sir Saphiel

Definite underagers banned

fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/profiles/view.php
lookingforfemalefeedee amon.v.haarlem@gmail.com'>damon.v.haarlem@gmail.com 213.46.84.213 24 Dec 2014 24

lookingforfemalefeedee 3 hours ago
Hey people, I'm Dutch and I'm 15 years old and I want a feeder-feedee relationship, is anyone interested?

JumpingJack 3 hours ago
Yeah, actually say you are 16 or 18 not 24 that's pushing it a bit. You were actually born around the time I started my site.
Frankzilla 3 hours ago
Lolololol that's sketchy
RockTheBass 3 hours ago
As a general tip for using the internet lookingforfemalefeedee, try not to say you're 15 on a site with an 18+ membership...

*sighs* None of them reported it either. Banned.

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Sir Saphiel