Feedees: why get fat?

Please rank the following reasons as they apply to you (and add more if you can think of any):

1. You like fattening food.
2. You like to overeat.
3. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
4. You hate dieting.
5. Your significant other wants you to gain.
6. You find it erotic.
11 years

Are you a feedee or gainer?

I consider a "feedee" to be anyone who finds the idea of gaining weight to be erotic. It doesn't matter if they feed themselves, have others feed them, or simply fantasize about gaining and never do it.

Just as a gay person can be gay without ever having had gay sex, someone can be a feedee or feeder without actually doing it.

Not everyone agrees with these definitions, but they seem the broadest and most useful IMHO.
11 years

Conflicting interests

Feeding is great but love is fantastic. If you've found someone you can love I'd try to make that work.
11 years

Asexuality and feederism

The most common reason people gain on purpose is because they (and/or their partner) find it erotic.

So yeah, it doesn't seem like it would fit with being asexual that well!

What do you like about gaining exactly?
11 years

Split stretch marks?

Some people are more susceptible to skin tearing than others, but it is a serious problem. I would stop gaining if I were you.
12 years

Bellyfullness/hunger/appetite?

What I've noticed is that people who stuff themselves to the max once a week or more often can't stop gaining.

Of course they often love it so much they don't care!
12 years

Weightgain.. advice please!!

1. How long have you been trying to gain?

2. Is there anything you can stuff yourself on without getting sick?
12 years

The jiggle never stops!

PlumpPatricia wrote:
I used to run track, I was a sprinter and very lean. I've been very lean and thin all my life until the very end of Highschool.

Gaining over 70 lbs or so, so quickly, has certainly been both a shock and a pleasure. People have noticed. The biggest thing is my stomach, it's so big (not as big as the ones I see here, of course!) That bending over all the way can be troublesome. And bathing suits don't fit as well anymore...


Also I bet you can't sprint quite as well as you used to...
12 years