Jay & the Americans
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13 years
What I don't understand is when people leave here (or anywhere) because they encounter a few people who are not kind to them, or not nice, etc.
It doesn't matter how many people are not compatible with you, it matters how many there are.
And if you run into 100 people who are not your kind, and leave, you may miss the 101st person who could have been your soulmate.
Also, don't limit yourself to one site. If you are a gainer, or whatever, place an ad on Craig's List, or wherever. Most of the people may not understand. A few may criticize you. But you may get that one person who is into weight gain. Don't forget, not everyone knows about FF, and not everyone knows there are people who like to gain. If you are not a gainer, and just a BBW, you can still find someone.
13 years
I preferred taller women (I'm 5' 9"
, but most women want men taller than they are. I recently saw an ad for a woman who was 5' 2" and would not consider a man under 6'
13 years
As long as you are willing to accept all the other side effcts, including being impotent, mood swings, hot flashes, blood clots, etc.
13 years
I can't imagine too many people being into the same things at age 20 that they will be into at age 70. Not to mention that wrinkles, amputations, vericose veins, etc. make the tattoos look bad.
OK, you get a BBW tattoo now. Then in a few years your find your soulmate who happens to be average size. Or you find a BBW who gets a condition that causes her to be thin the rest of her life. You are both "in the mood," you take off your shirt and she is reminded that you like BBWs, and not her body. It spoils the moment.
Right now tattoos are as popular as hula hoops were in the 1950's. People can throw their hula hoops in the attic, but are stuck with their tattoos.
Many companies, even minimum wage retailers will not hire people with tattoos. What seems like a good idea with your buddies now may not be a good idea for the future.
13 years
I hate to tell everyone, but buffets are not the only place where germy things happen. I was in a fast food restaurant, and the manager left the stall without washing his hands. I wrote to their home office in Columbus OH, but did not get a response back. This was years ago, but I am sure it still happens.
14 years
That is about the ratio of men to women on this site.
14 years
Grow Mrs. Goldfarb by Alan Sherman.
Ain't Gonna Bump No More (With No Big Fat Woman) by Joe Tex.
Happy Being Fat by Big Dee Irwin.
14 years
dottodot wrote:
Hi all, so I've always been a BBW but I've only recently come to accept it and love myself for who I am. Stop trying to change myself to the figure that society deems 'acceptable'
The one question I have for all the men out there...if you're comfortable with answering is...why bbw? what is it about larger women that turn you on?
It's just always been drilled into my head that men prefer thinner women and I've only recently discovered sites like this that appreciate a fuller figure and it's blowing my mind.
Being a bbw myself I just ... I don't know, I want to be able to accept that there are guys out there that don't want me to change. But it's hard after spending the better part of my life thinking otherwise.
I'd like to know what attracts you to larger women and why our naked form is so sexy to you.
It is almost impossible for people to say why they have preferences. Why do some men like redheads, and some blondes? Why do some men like short women, and some like tall?
Rather than trying to analyze it, just enjoy it. Find yourself someone who admires you and enjoy it.
14 years
