A miserable woman is NOT sexy or enjoyable to be with. The best part of being with someone gaining weight is to enjoy their gaining with them.      
      
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octavedoctor wrote:johnxyz wrote:
I would find someone who is into it, if he is not.
she hasn't said whether it's a deal-breaker for her. what if she loves him? i'm all for sexual satisfaction but dropping someone you have strong feelings for because of a fetish probably isn't a good idea.
to be honest, i'm a guy and i can think of no reason he wouldn't be willing to at least 'play along' with your fetish whether he truly likes it or not. i mean, what's the downside? unless you're hardcore into it and it's all you ever want to do, i don't think he'll be bothered about it enough not to do it. just let him know you like it and want him to try.
 Obviously, she will have to make a choice, after weighing the options.  But there are so many people here who think that making someone else a feeder or a feedee is easy. Sometimes it is easy to forget that most people are not into it, and most of them think it is insane.      
 
      
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I would find someone who is into it, if he is not.      
      
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I think this type of thing belongs in the bedroom, not in a public place with both families, and a lot of friends and co-workers there.  I don't know of any other sexual vows that would be said.      
      
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Yes.
One disappeared, one was a total liar, and the third one had a totally different work ethic than me. (ie, she never showed up.)
If you are married, stay married.  If you break it up, you'll be sorry.      
      
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I am a boob man.  I like large cup sizes.  But if a woman doesn't have a large cup size, I still love a large band size.  Floppy is better than Perky.      
      
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I agree.  But it is also very sexy to see a woman in stretch pants or a muumuu.  Someone who has gained so much, it is hard to find anything else that fits.      
      
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