I think like most have said is genetics.....but with that said changes in weights at certain points can change body types a bit.

For example my wife being fairly short at 5' 3" at 150 Lbs. was a total hour glass......at 175 Lbs. hour glass but merging into a little more pear......just over 200 Lbs. she was more a pear than hour glass with her legs and hips and butt really gaining at that stage. Even though her upper arms, lower belly and breasts were quite big her shoulders stayed the same obviously and her lower half kept growing.

I woul imagine if I was ever fortunate enough to see her gain to 250 Lbs. she would keep growing in the pear direction and much more bottom heavy that would be totally sexy for my liking.

I have been finding I can actually eat more but I almost get lazy chewing.....so during these times it's amazing how I can drink 4-5 glasses of whole milk after eating and it goes down pretty darn easy.

My stomach balloons out so huge and I am sure it stretches it for more food intake in the future.


even a thicker liquid like milk shakes go down pretty easy after I am already stuffed and add a lot of calories and stretch the belly more.

Like several people have said previously:

Mostly things to do with Weight gain and Fat!!!

Also, with the weight gain and Fat.... I really love Femininity!

I guess these don't really qualify as a Fetish but here are some I really like......

> How a women makes gestures with her Hands in a soft feminine way.

> I love when my wife turns her hands backwards on her hips...actually above her hips squishing into her Love handles and pushing her love handles a good four inches of blubber on each side... sigh!

> When a women sits and her Fat lower belly spills on to her lap

> I love small to tight Lingerie on a fattened up woman

> I like beautiful women's hands that when they gain there fingers even puff up.....oh ya they have to be feminine.

The thing that really get's me going along with weight gain...... is the smell of soap on a women's skin....or the smell of a woman all soaped up in a shower drives me pretty crazy!

I guess I really like Fat women who are very pretty and feminine that smell like soap and keep gaining weight.....oh ya....while they are wearing lingerie!

I have been eating like crazy.....big heavy Italian, Mexican etc. lunches & dinners totally fattening along with stuffing Milk shakes and cookies etc. after eating these meals.

It has started for me....time for my next meal and I don't even feel hungry after all the food and calories I consumed stuffing my belly from the previous meal. The minute I start eating surprisingly I can not only finish another fattening meal but can certainly drink a lot after wards. For example if I have sweets and I start to feel full and not even want my jaws to move up and down kind of like they are tired of chewing.....I still can drink probably 40 plus ounces of while milk. It goes down so easy and expands my belly so much. I almost feel like I could drink a whole gallon if I tried.

I guess that's why the big time gainers start funnel feeding their huge bellies. I almost feel like I could do that when I get so bored of chewing.

Anyone else experience this?

You never know......but one thing for certain is that most people are not into weight gain like we are.

With that said she may get comfortable with you gaining and start to gain herself because f the company and feel that she has a partnership against her parents and become a bit liberated with it. But on the other hand you may get fatter and her as well and she might get more embarrassed by it.

I say......go for it and see where things go....I am certainly no expert at this and there are so many combinations of things that can happen and develop.

Maybe you guy's turn into a happy Fat loving mutual gaining couple and you relationship and love making become unbelievable perfect weighing in at a combined weight of 600 Lbs. together and rocking your bed.

I have run into similar things! I am thinking of stuffing & gaining right up until summer starts....but then a percentage of the time I try to hide my big gut and all the gaining already. The dilemma is there will be no hiding it in a pair of 40" board shorts where my gut still extends way out with the waistband cutting into my lower belly at the beach or pool parties.

I am going for the really buff almost body builder look with a huge beach ball gut to lessen some of the embarrassment. I have been back at the gym starting to lift heavy but still piling on the stuffings and loading with fattening calories and sweets to if I can get to 265 Lbs. this time. So when people see me over summer they will be in shock but it won't be that embarrassing when they say Wow,....I will mention...Ya I was lifting heavy and loading a lot of carbs and proteins and I got kind of big. Kind of more accepting than just being less muscular with a fat gut.

Also, I know what you mean my chest or pecs have also been muscular and big while lifting and as I gained and didn't lift they got soft pretty quick. With lifting and pumping them up again they actually look small relative to my big Gut I have put on.

[quote]Xodem wrote:
Pleasantly stimulating and not really a huge social issue if you hide it well enough. I've gained 60lbs and no ones said anything except I look really good because I dress to cover it and or hold it in. Men can do similar things, plus just sucking it in to an extent works. The belly can be really sensitive and nice to have around.[/quot


Actually really enjoy having a belly to show off!

I have put on 20 Lbs. recently from my already 225 Lb. + body...and I have been doing the same thing a bit.

Around my wife and some others I want them to notice to get a comment or reaction from them.....I simply ride my pants lower and relax my belly and it virtually floods out and my belly looks hugely Fat. In other situations where I don't want someone to notice I flex my Ab muscles the best I can now and wear looser clothing to kind of hide the size of my belly. It does help flexing my stomach and sucking it in but it actually is getting pretty hard to look normal and it is almost impossible after I eat.....because my belly inflates like a balloon after eating....my excessively large meals these days.

Several people that I wanted to notice has taken several double takes recently but no comments. Which I get because I have seen plenty of ladies that I know that have packed on the Lbs. And I don't really bring it up to them.....just simply enjoy their gaining.

That's so fricken sexy ....when you witness something like that! I love that kind of out of shape eating vulnerability thing!

Was she cute?

I would believe that female Feeders are rare!

I had never been in the market so to speak being that I like women gaining especially my wife and recently and in another relationship Mutual gaining. Although with my wife while she gains I am the one stuffing myself to get fatter....not that she is even aware I think she maybe thinks it is unintentional.

A long time ago I went out with a pretty but "to skinny for me" girl several times on some dates. We would always go out to dinners. She seemed enthused on our first dinner date to discuss ordering and ordered way more than I thought she could finish....suggested appetizers and a big entree for herself. She even asked me to help her finish her entree because she was full which was a little cuddly for a first dinner date. Our second date after dinner again we were talking about how full we were and she had to pat and feel my belly. I had already had a mutual gaining experience a couple years before this with my ex girlfriend but I was clearly much smaller now maybe just a nice lower belly roll while sitting. She then started right in telling me that she liked my belly and that she likes guy's to have a fatter mid section. I told her that I felt like I was pretty thin currently and she said "we can alway's work on that". She was very intriguing but she was just to skinny for my liking sexually. We didn't see each other again.

I think that was probably the only girl I have ever met that was a Feeder and to what degree I am not sure.

Right....I forgot that one! sitting down putting on socks cuts some air off pretty quickly with the belly getting in the way! It feels like when I stand up I should almost being seeing stars!