I agree with most all of what was mentioned already. I would like to add that I feel there are certain times where my weight gain senses are heightened even more than normal.... which are pretty strong.

Obviously guys are visual and us FA are not only visual but like the feel also.

This is a suggestion kind of like a band aid fix...... Us FA's who are into weight gain have good fantasy type imaginations so why don't you role play with him and tease him with fat talk about how fat your going to get and possibly even pad and stuff your clothing. Maybe even get a high end fat suit and role play out you getting even bigger than you probably could get in real life. He might get some crazy satisfaction from just hugging you and seeing you that big not to mention our seductive fat talk you would be doing.

This is a great question.....and not easy to answer. I will try my quick version.

Chubby-Layers of fat that make the body look thick and soft.

Fat-multiple upon multiple layers of fat which drastically changes the entire physique.

I kind of liked what was said earlier about not being able to hide it through clothes.

This is a very tough question to ultimately answer in words.....can I have pictures to comment on whether they are chubby or fat?

I like Pear shape the best!

For me .....I started gaining in the last couple of years on and off because of the lack of my wife gaining not enough.

Almost like a weight gain void in my life being that I love weight gain so much and especially on my wife but she has not really been fattening up.

I think if she liked me gaining and she would start gaining....I would be very comfortable in a Mutual Gaining relationship....because I don't seem to mind myself getting big as much as I used to....especially if she was into all my new Lbs.

Over the last couple years I have realized I don't seem to lose much weight even through intense work outs and portion control. All of a sudden things have sort of changed, if my wife started eating more she would gain weight right away and I was the opposite. Now, my wife stocks up on fattening treats and we have both been eating and I am the one gaining all the weight.

I have been going on and off with pigging out and watching the scale climb pretty fast. These days I can probably gain an extra 30Lbs. in two months. Once I start eating these days my appetite increases and the weight piles on. Then I will get feelings to try and get back in shape and it is kind of tough to slow down on eating and lose the weight. I don't think I have got under 230 Lbs. in a long time. After I gain quickly I then start trying to lose weight but it never gets under 230 Lbs. It used to be around 210-215 Lbs. if I worked out hard.

I got pretty big 6 months ago for fun and was over 250 Lbs. My wife never commented even though it was so obvious, I had a huge gut. It was fun for a while then I got kind of embarrassed I saw a picture of myself at the beach in board shorts and I looked huge.

Need less to say weight gain on me is a like and hate thing and it really stems from me just filling the weight gain void in my wife at certain times.

I think it is a struggle between having this weight gain attraction and being muscular/fit and athletic.

I have noticed with my wife and myself for that matter, that when we eat a ton of food for many weeks, months or longer our bellies look full and big and bloated. Almost carrying that full stuffed look all the time even when we have not just eaten.

Several months after the belly has gone down and the food intake has slowed down then the softer fat starts to settle in.....I think it's kind of a process in stretching and growth. The softness can really settle into the love handles on my wife and all over for that matter. I kind of like the over stuffed look a lot on her because I know it is going to follow with some nice soft fat that wont go away very easy.

Not as excited about the softer fat that settles in on my waist or love handles because it seems almost impossible to lose if I wanted to.

Anyone else see it like this?

She knows I would like her heavier.

We have had plenty of talks in the past and she thinks she is already way fatter than she would like.

Thing is she likes eating, especially deserts and snacking....so the weight kind of creeps on. With all the eating and no dieting over the past year I would have expected her to really pack on a lot more pounds than she has.

Me being the FA/weight gain guy would love to see her way bigger....basically what I was saying before, I think she would look so amazing with a lot of extra weight because she carries it so sexy.

I have repressed talking about weigh gain with her but still compliment her figure and her looks. The last time over a year ago I mentioned she should let herself relax a bit and gain some weight because she was complaining about her needing to diet. She quickly had a disgusted look and said gain weight " I am about 35 Lbs. over weight right now."

So maybe I am just out of touch with reality and only dreaming. She was around 155 Lbs. at the time and I wish she would be over 200 Lbs. Not sure if she will ever accept gaining that amount of weight.....but I will keep my fingers crossed and keep dreaming.

When I look at my wife I cant help but think she would be the most beautiful fat women ever! She alrady is beautiful in my eyes but like I said she would be the ultimate FA/weight gaining goddess if she became fat!

She is definitely curvy and overweight being 5' 3" 165ish Lbs. Pear shape with huge breasts, a pronounced fat lower belly with a slight soft sag, round soft upper arms and obviously big Plump butt and round thighs not to mention a model like face with such smooth tan skin.

I believe she would be the absolute sexiest goddess ever if she really allowed herself to let go and pile on the Lbs.
with her figure and the way she gains weight I could see her at 210-230 Lbs...... just absolutely blowing any FA/weight gain enthusiasts's mind.

She has been eating really good and snacking and eating deserts a lot over the past year with no diet yet. She has gained 10+ Lbs. in the past year I would say but nothing like I thought she would eating ice cream and snacking on carbs like she does.

I just wish she would one day just start piling on the Lbs. and not really care and never have a diet in mind once she got fat!

How do I make this dream become reality?

Wow...from the sounds of it I have to find my Wife some chunky friends who love eating.....and set them all up on some dinner dates all the time!

I would imagine you mean "Fat" considered by people on this board and not mainstream.

I would say it varies based on many things.

For example a shorter girl looks fatter with less weight, so it can't be purely a number associated with weight. Likewise based on body type some women can have a big belly with only slightly chubby legs or arms which some would say, "wow, she is fat" because her belly is so big but in reality she is only considered fat because of that body part.

I guess I would categorize fat in two ways where everything on a women's body is quite a bit bigger than normal and it hinders her physical ability somewhat not to mention limits her movement. This is not a for sure because there are plenty of women who are fat that can move really good but I guess I would say if that women was thinner would they be able to move and do things better.