Oh, I realize I didn't answer the part about being conflicted.
Being conflicted is also about actions. It's when you have two (or more) possible actions and you can't do both of them.
EVERYONE is conflicted ALL THE TIME. You want to call in sick but you also want to go to work and show your boss you're reliable. You want to take the bus to work so you can read the paper but there are also advantages to driving. You want to date that sexy fat girl but also want to date the conventionally-beautiful slim girl so as to impress others.
Being conflicted is nothing to feel guilty about. You just have to make your choice and accept the consequences.
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I've never felt guilty about my preferences. That's just who I am, nothing to feel guilty about.
I have felt guilty about some of my ACTIONS. That's fine. If you harm someone--even yourself--you should feel guilty about it. That's how we learn to control ourselves.
I'd even go so far as to say a pedophile (someone sexually attracted to children) should not feel guilty--unless he become a pederast (someone who has sex with children). Then he should feel guilty as hell.
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I FatgirlByApple wrote:do you think tummy rub or a feeding session is on par with making out or even a blow job???
I think so, but you'd really have to ask the girlfriend.
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rubens_feeder wrote:
Hmm, what fascinates us all so much with immobility?
Really the main thing for me is that once immobility is your feedee's goal she can devote herself to wanton gluttony.
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The trouble with almost immobile is it's really easy to overshoot. That's what happened to the woman who played the mother in "What's Eating Gilbert Grape", Darlene Cates. She was almost immobile but doing fine, then she had an illness that made her bedridden. When she finally got better, she'd gained 150 lbs and could no longer walk.
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The writer is a ***:
Ryan may not mind that he didn’t make it to all 12 meals. Perhaps prior to actually having to attempt the eating feat, he lost his training focus after becoming an on-campus celebrity. He was too busy doing interviews with his college newspaper and, I can only surmise, hooking up with a steady stream of college fatties – who were turned on by the thought of him stuffing so many value meals into his gullet.
But alas, the fame probably didn’t last long. In the end he was left all alone. Just him, a bunch of McDonald’s value meals, and a string of horrifying memories of hooking up with really, really fat chicks.
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NeptuneFA13 wrote:
Mainly 1, 2 and 6, but I'd like to add one:
7. Fat people are more beautiful.
Not just the feeling of being fat, but just the look in general.
Fair enough. Feel free to add:
7. You like the way it looks.
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Please rank the following reasons as they apply to you (and add more if you can think of any):
1. You like fattening food.
2. You like to overeat.
3. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
4. You hate dieting.
5. Your significant other wants you to gain.
6. You find it erotic.
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I consider a "feedee" to be anyone who finds the idea of gaining weight to be erotic. It doesn't matter if they feed themselves, have others feed them, or simply fantasize about gaining and never do it.
Just as a gay person can be gay without ever having had gay sex, someone can be a feedee or feeder without actually doing it.
Not everyone agrees with these definitions, but they seem the broadest and most useful IMHO.
12 years
Feeding is great but love is fantastic. If you've found someone you can love I'd try to make that work.
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