Fatphobic and made a joke of yet still felt strong and confident

I had to take my shirt off in order for a doctor to get my blood pressure because the shirt was messing with the results, I got it off and she laughed at me and looked at my chest and she looked down at hers and she said i was “giving her a run for her money” meaning my moobs were bigger than her pretty large breasts on her skinny body. She asked some questions about my diet and how much exercise I get and if I had experienced any sudden changes in my body and when I said I had gained 100 pounds since august she audibility gasped and went on spiel about diet and exercise wanting to be fit etc then she asked if I was interested in seeing a dietician and I point blank said no so she went on this Lil thing about how I’m still young and that I am so handsome but my weight was jeprodizing it. I never felt so validated in my fatness and liberated for defending myself and offended at the same time. She tried to get me in for a sleep test but I was like nah. I really wanna shop around for fat accepting doctors if that’s a thing
1 year

Trying to eat as unhealthy as possible

If that’s what makes you happy and you enjoy eating it and you can consistently eat it without being sick then by all means enjoy and happy gains, but as a person who’s gained ALOT of weight that doesn’t sound very pleasant and isn’t necessary.
1 year

Establishing limits / boundaries

Somefeederguy1176:
Hey,

Been lurking on site for a while now but I'm not sure where to post this question so I'll put it in the general forum here. How many feedee's actually want immobillity.

When I was previosly on this site, I got a lot of messages from feedees with profiles that established that immobility was an end goal. I don't think I want that from a partner... Would you say that this accounts for the majority of members on this site?

I ask because despite what my profiles say, I do hope to participate in this kink when money is no longer as tight. Any and all feedback is helpful

-Somefeedeeguy


If a situation occurred in which a feedee could no longer complete everyday tasks and they were in a feedist relationship it would be on the feeder 100% to help the feedee.
1 year

Flavor variety and getting super-stuffed

I know that feeling all to well! We used to have old country buffets and Golden Corral and others now it’s all chinese food which has loads of sodium and msg which makes you feel extra meh after eating lots of. I like Chinese food don’t get me wrong, it’s just better in like a normal sized portion ironically.
1 year

What "awakened" this fetish for you?

I had been gradually putting on weight for years and attempting to diet and being successful for a while, hovering around the mid 200s only to gain more back until like last year when I had clocked in at my heaviest; upon looking at resources online to try and lose I found body positivity and fat acceptance which gave way to feedist blogs and stuff now here I am today over 400 lbs pushing 450 - iam hooked!

I cannot say prior to last year I had very many fattening thoughts on myself or others, but now I’ve kinda been exploring it a bit. I’ve learned all bodies are beautiful especially the fat ones. I enjoy fantasy stories etc
1 year

Sleep apnea and other sleep related illnesses.

Yeah from what it sounds like people who need it really get good sleep after using it, and swear by them.. it’s just a weird thing that I present no symptoms of sleep apnea and they want me to take a sleep test just because I’m obese #Fatphobia I understand if like you have a problem and are sleepy but like I drive for work alot and I never get sleepy…
1 year

Sleep apnea and other sleep related illnesses.

How many of you or your significant other have sleep apnea or excessively snore?

Apparently fat people are more likely to be in vehicle crashes due to poor sleep/drowsiness behind the wheel - which imo is dumb af because no one would ever call me “sleepy” - nor would they ever say I’d fall asleep behind the wheel even if I was up for 24+ hours
1 year

Do girls want to see dick pics in bio

If it’s unsolicited, It’s not okay, it’s basically indecent exposure!

Also, women do not get off to a picture in the same way a man does.

So think twice before you do it. She’s not thinking about your pee pee the same way you think about her features, or not at all.
1 year

What's the average rate of gain for people?

Personally I don’t find anyone else’s gain a metric for anything really, everyone has there own genetics and their own metabolism - you just gotta do you and enjoy the journey.

I’ve done 20, 30 pound months and I wasn’t eating *that much only like slightly more than normal, like I wasn’t uncomfortably stuffed granted what’s considered stuffed has changed massively…

But yeah I don’t think 10000 calories a day is very sustainable for most people even biggins, you know if you meet vanilla fat people they kinda eat like mice which is baffling to me. You gotta train your body to eat like that everyday otherwise it’s just a waste, imo.
1 year

Ever want to get back in shape?

Not really, I am much happier now following my appetite and being a fatty.
1 year