My wife and I were away last weekend for a friend of hers big formal Birthday celebration.

We were dressed up for two days straight and her friend had a professional photographer shoot her party events for two nights.

I just saw the pictures and was in shock. Mind you I have lost weight over the last several months and thought my wife has as well. After viewing the pictures we looked pretty heavy compared to the rest of the 50+ guests. Most of the women were skinny to slightly chubby and my wife happened to be the prettiest but to my surprise probably one of the heaviest.....in which I feel she is much to skinny yet. I on the other hand was probably the second heaviest guy there.

It was a complete shock to me seeing myself in pictures next to other thinner guys and realizing that people might consider me Fat. This is after I have lost weight in the past several months.....I wonder how I would of looked in these pictures with the extra 20+ Lbs. that was around my gut. My wife even alluded to the fact that I really didn't need another appetizer etc. that I ordered a couple times during the weekend which she has never really done.

We have not been out in a Formal fashion like these events in a long time and it really made me think of if I was as heavy as I was a few months ago someone might have even commented how big I was.

My wife and I looked stuffed into our Formal clothes much more than the majority and I couldn't get over how puffy both of our faces looked.

Crazy thing is when I look at my wife right now..... I want her to put on a good 40-50 Lbs. I think the Formal thing around skinnier people and seeing pics has to go because my wife probably weighs around 160 Lbs currently at 5' 3"..... and I am currently 230+ Lbs. when just a few months ago I was over 250 Lbs. She never really commented on my weight negatively only in a little joking way a couple of times.

After seeing these pics I think she is going to talk to me about us going on a diet..... she was already hinting around that I tend to eat to much. I have to believe it was because she was looking at me next to other men that were weighing around 170-180 Lbs. tops

M wife is unbelievably Beautiful with a gorgeous shaped figure and when she gains weight it only looks so much better and sexy....... although it was quite a shock seeing her next to women quite a bit taller all with huge 4"+ heels on along with herself but she probably out weighed them by 40 Lbs. and it really looks noticeable with those comparisons.

Anyone go through similar experiences like this?

Obviously all body types and things are different. I can give you some insight from my personal experience.

When I first started to gain it went to my belly first and became tight and hard and swollen. I looked like an in shape lean guy that developed a beer gut. Over time with more gaining it got slightly softer and I fattened up in my ass and all over slightly even my face but that took a little bit of time for the weight to settle into those spots. Over the years through a few gains and losses once my body took slightly different shape from Tall/lean to Tall/Big & Husky with physical body maturity I guess my gaining would change.

When I gain now at first my Belly will get big and swollen slightly tight and not only stick out in the front but form pretty wide off of my sides. If I start to eat I can gain pretty fast and it shows very quickly. I can gain 30 Lbs. in two months with only slight changes in my eating and my appetite grows really fast.

The other thing that is different from before is my set point at where my weight will settle. After I gained in the past and if I let up on eating so much and worked out more my weight would decrease with time and I would lose that 30+ Lbs. Nowadays I don't really get below 230 Lbs. even with intense work outs and eating good. So the 20 Lbs. or so never really goes away like it used to.

Not sure exactly! Everyone is different.....I can usually gain that amount of weight in a 1 1/2 - 2 months with working out heavier and my appetite really grows.

I as well as most FA's who are into weight gain like and can appreciate many different type of bellies.

I do like apron bellies!

Breaking it down in detail it has to first do with shape, fatness, density, softness/firmness, skin tone etc.

So there will be varying opinions but certainly apron bellies have a high percentage of attraction from most Fa's here because it has some sag and obviously a lot of fat an weight to it which all of us here really like.

In chronological order:

1. Fat admirer +
2. Weight gain +
3. Heavy eating encourager +
4. Slight Feeder +
5. Mutual Gaining

THEN

6. Secret Heavy Feeder while doing the cooking

7. While Feeding my Wife ended up gaining more than her accidentally

8. Because of a lack of her getting Fat.....Fed my weight gain urge by deciding to see how fat I could get and wanted to see when she would mention my weight gain

9. Began stuffing sessions for her to notice my new 30+ Lbs. "Grew a pretty big Gut" in a relatively short period of time

10. Slimmed back down from appetite reduction....watching her gain again without any help by me.....I just wish she could pack on 30 Lbs. pretty quickly

Based on your Videos I would say your Fat! It look's like your Belly has been Fat for some time and may be your fattest body part....but possibly your thighs as a close second but can't really tell from the vids.

You should continue to get bigger if you want that....from what I can tell by the vids your have a slight apron sag to your belly which look's like a fat heavy belly so if you gain more it will sag even more which is quite sexy. cant really say if your belly is bigger in the ladder videos because of all the different angles but if you like gaining or the thought of others that like you gaining I am sure you should get a lot of people excited around these parts.

I don't know if I have any great concrete advice/answers other than the one's already spoken of.

I hear ya ....as far as having fun trying!

My wife ...... at her heaviest or even during her bigger times (not even close to as high as your girl's weight) along with my bigger belly posed some extra positioning or situating during missionary with our bellies bouncing and pushing each other away. Although I think it was due to my bigger pot belly at the time in this position.

Cowgirl style worked really nice at our size and weights and was very amusing with her big belly boucing, slapping and squishing into mine. It also made her look even bigger and fatter in this position which I love.

It was the combination of the two bellies that tended to cause the few adjustments because before I grew my gut she was at her heaviest and I was fairly ripped and her soft fat belly bounced into me perfectly.....but it wasn't nearly as arousing as when we both had our bigger bellies getting in the way.

While you are eating a lot in front of him and finishing a snack ask in a vulnerable sweet way if he could get you some more (Ice cream, cookies, etc.) continue eating that and subtly breath heavier at times with deep breaths and sighs. After you finish, mention that you are so full but still very hungry at the same time and then get up with a struggle to get to your feet and walk over to get more snacks with your bloated belly. He will love the sight of you eating out of control and he will be anxiously anticipating how much fatter you will get with all the eating.

Another thing that most FA's find pretty damn sexy is the thought of movements changing or a regular task being hindered because of the weight gain. Over emphasize after you have been sitting down how much more difficult it is to sit up and get to your feet by showing a bit of a struggle. Or even just after you have done something that is not that strenuous sit down and sigh and breath heavier.... these are all sexy signs that the one we love is getting fatter and going to keep getting fatter and fatter.

I like both!

In fact when my wife look's like she has gained a bunch of weight and when she weighs herself and it isn't as much as I thought it kind of kills it.

Wow thanks for the ideas, I love them! You really did put alot of thought into them. I'd love to hear any other ideas you might have to show my boyfriend how my gain has effected me.[/quot


I am glad you liked my suggestions, here are a few more things that should be pretty sexy and erotic for your partner and yourself with regard to weight gain and restrictions and struggles with your new growing figure.....which I would like to say looks incredible.

Most of these really work better when you are really full after a big meal to get the full effect of how the weight gain really has made a difference or makes you struggle more now.

1. In a sexy pair of tiny panties and Bra/tank top or camisole that certainly has your lower belly exposed. Sit down and cross your legs while slightly bending over and paint your toes leaving you slightly struggling for breath while very femininely painting showing all your new curves and rolls of fat on your belly and your soft fat thighs squished together. (Your boy should really love watching this). You might even want to throw in a "my belly is so fat now I can barely do this with out losing my breath" while gasping slightly and breathing heavier.

2. Subtle sexy talk regarding things you can't do anymore because of the weight gained while he is able to view you physically while you can't do the task.

2a. For example: Take a nice warm shower with him and have him softly soap your back with him being behind you and as he works his way up to your shoulders say to him "my belly Is getting so fat and big I can't even see my feet while I am standing up looking down anymore". While you say this he will look down over your shoulders to see what you mean and trust me it is such a great vision I have done this many times with my wife.....your belly and thighs will look so much bigger and fatter to him at this angle he will absolutely lose control. It is a totally different angle that us guys don't always get to see. I remember the first time I did this with my wife not knowing, I actually said to myself "Wow my wife is getting so fat" even though she wasn't looking nearly that big at a different angle. Not to mention you commenting about not seeing your feet and then he looks down from that angle for the first time to see all your growing lusciously fattened figure with soap glistening over your belly and thighs. Something about being in the shower with my wife she has always looked so much heavier and fatter to me, not to mention smelling the nice aroma of soap all over her fattened up body.

2b. While sitting on the couch eat some ice cream seductively after a huge meal preferable with your belly peaking out of a tank top and your legs crossed exposing the growth of your thighs. As you finish the bowl/pint or half gallon make some light sighs and some heavier breaths and then lean over with a slow struggle to put the finished bowl of ice cream on the coffee table in front of you still with your legs crossed. Then say in a soft voice "honey, I can't stop eating" along with some soft breaths showing how even this effort has slightly winded you.
Then hold out your hand to him and ask if he could help you up to your feet. He will first notice the effort he has to put into get you off the couch to your feet. When you are up on your feet slowly walk to the kitchen with your hands on reverse turned just above your love handles and pushing down slightly accentuating extra love handle bulges..... to find something else to snack on.....trust me his eyes will follow where you are struggling to go and when he sees you are going back for another snack after you couldn't even get off the couch without his help his penis will be ready to cut diamonds. "Trust me" all of us guys love the out of control eating we witness and can't wait for the new fat Lbs. to arrive on our woman's figure.

2c. Trying to fit into some outgrown clothes and sitting down in them even if you cant even fasten a button even better showing the true constriction that they have now. Make sure while you are trying on outfits to mix in plenty of fatty snacks and then complain " I can't believe these don't fit anymore" and other comments like that while you keep eating.


These are some things that us FA's who are into weight gain love. Anything visual (showing all the new fat) along with some vulnerable sweet fat talk and incorporating some uncontrollable eating makes our temperature rise pretty fast.

Let me know if you want anymore?