Though I've made other notes here and there in the past, I'm going to put up a sticky topic in the General forum later specifically focusing on this issue and informing people how they should behave. Do people have any other suggestions on how to handle the lack of empathy/etc exhibited by many who come here, besides punishing them when they are reported? As LilRascl noted, it is part of a larger social problem of sexism and objectification too.

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chulaq robih@gmx.net 95.117.8.62 23 Nov 2014 114

Back and was reported by obeserider as talking about the same creepy stuff again. Perma/IP banned.

chubbyhoney made a great post above. The true answer is that the site isn't one or the other, but a hybrid. Once upon a time it was fetish-focused, but came to greatly incorporate general fat positivity as well.

There are many fetish aspects to the site, yes. It caters to feeders, feedees, mutual gainers/etc, and it doesn't just stop there, it also includes things like humiliation, squashing, pregnancy, immobility, inflation with air/water/etc, and more. As such it inevitably attracts those who come here specifically for sexual reasons and who don't care about the community aspect, which unfortunately tends to come paired with the ignorant attitudes that people have complained about in this topic.

But does that mean it should be tolerated? Nope. Just because they lurch in the door like zombies (with about the same charisma) for their sexual fix doesn't mean people can't vent about them, and it doesn't mean that they can't be shot-gunned like the undead that they mimic once they start harassing people.

The upcoming block feature will help with this, but also if anyone doesn't want someone to contact them any more, they can report them by clicking the red flag on their profile. They don't even need to give a reason other than "I don't want them to talk to me any more". And if someone is found to be breaching the 'restraining order', they will be (and are) punished, simple as that. If someone can't respect another person's boundaries, then we don't want that person on the site.

Some of the offenders have ranted back about their punishment, but if they can't act like a decent human being and respect a person saying "no", that's their problem. Despite them treating people on here like pieces of meat, this is not Burger King, they can't have it their way.

The Sweet and Spooky artwork contest has now concluded. The artwork will be put to several judges and a winner will be announced in due course.

Thread locked.

Sent them an ID check now.

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chubbysara cicciona77sp@libero.it 5.90.45.154/5.92.82.247 3 Oct 2014 36

Update: Nothing provided, banned.

That one often goes by the name of nicki/nic***argisbatman, and variants, and a number of people have noted she seems underage with how she acts, not to mention this report on her last profile:



She's been sent at least two age checks before, but has never provided us with anything. Found an old report from Ruby for her too:


Banned again. Because of her rant today I've sent her a -third- age check along with her ban.

Making a note of this email from miss thunder in case this guy comes back:



I found a 'darkrifts1' on here but I think it might be unrelated, hasn't been used in 2 years.

No worries! Thanks for entering.



Good, I've extended the deadline by a couple of days for it then.

Huh, he accepted it rather calmly and responded with:



I'll see if I can get an extra check on what happened around that part of the convo that wasn't logged, sigh.