Missing/disappeared on ff

Though I've made other notes here and there in the past, I'm going to put up a sticky topic in the General forum later specifically focusing on this issue and informing people how they should behave. Do people have any other suggestions on how to handle the lack of empathy/etc exhibited by many who come here, besides punishing them when they are reported? As LilRascl noted, it is part of a larger social problem of sexism and objectification too.
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Robih

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chulaq robih@gmx.net 95.117.8.62 23 Nov 2014 114

Back and was reported by obeserider as talking about the same creepy stuff again. Perma/IP banned.
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Missing/disappeared on ff

chubbyhoney made a great post above. The true answer is that the site isn't one or the other, but a hybrid. Once upon a time it was fetish-focused, but came to greatly incorporate general fat positivity as well.

There are many fetish aspects to the site, yes. It caters to feeders, feedees, mutual gainers/etc, and it doesn't just stop there, it also includes things like humiliation, squashing, pregnancy, immobility, inflation with air/water/etc, and more. As such it inevitably attracts those who come here specifically for sexual reasons and who don't care about the community aspect, which unfortunately tends to come paired with the ignorant attitudes that people have complained about in this topic.

But does that mean it should be tolerated? Nope. Just because they lurch in the door like zombies (with about the same charisma) for their sexual fix doesn't mean people can't vent about them, and it doesn't mean that they can't be shot-gunned like the undead that they mimic once they start harassing people.

The upcoming block feature will help with this, but also if anyone doesn't want someone to contact them any more, they can report them by clicking the red flag on their profile. They don't even need to give a reason other than "I don't want them to talk to me any more". And if someone is found to be breaching the 'restraining order', they will be (and are) punished, simple as that. If someone can't respect another person's boundaries, then we don't want that person on the site.

Some of the offenders have ranted back about their punishment, but if they can't act like a decent human being and respect a person saying "no", that's their problem. Despite them treating people on here like pieces of meat, this is not Burger King, they can't have it their way.
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Contest: sweet and spooky

The Sweet and Spooky artwork contest has now concluded. The artwork will be put to several judges and a winner will be announced in due course. smiley
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Why there arent male escorts ?

FAfromSpain wrote:
My opinio, there are no male escort as he would not success as no BBW or SSBBW would call him due self-esteem , they would not run the risk to be rejected by their weight even the man could ad as a fat admirer and focused just on big women.

smiley




Thread locked.
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Plumpbox

Sent them an ID check now.

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chubbysara cicciona77sp@libero.it 5.90.45.154/5.92.82.247 3 Oct 2014 36

Update: Nothing provided, banned.
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Age checking

chubbyhoney wrote:
From shout:

plussizefreak
im pissed at ff they keep on kicking me off when I am really 22


That one often goes by the name of nicki/nic***argisbatman, and variants, and a number of people have noted she seems underage with how she acts, not to mention this report on her last profile:

Abuse report (6 hours ago), from Juneau1776, about a profile
This user I met in real life and is only 16 years of age. TO prevent others from falling for her lies I would advise someone look into this and possible restrict her access


She's been sent at least two age checks before, but has never provided us with anything. Found an old report from Ruby for her too:

Abuse report (1 day ago), from eve, about a profile
did this one not get banned for being underage? or did they provide proof ever? She has now posted her phone number on her about me too!

Banned again. Because of her rant today I've sent her a -third- age check along with her ban.
Hi plussizefreak,

You were previously asked to provide proof of age, unfortunately, as you have not done so, your account has been permanently suspended. In order to retain / reactivate your membership, please email photographic proof of your age to us at team@fantasyfeeder.com.

This may be a copy of any valid legal document, such as a driver's license or passport - and doesn't need to show all your details at all, just your Date Of Birth with your photo, other personal details may be covered up.

Thank you for your understanding.

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Fake males thread

Making a note of this email from miss thunder in case this guy comes back:

I would like to report a user who is making fake accounts.

He previously spoke to me under the username 'dark rift' the profile was set to location uk but in a message he told me he was from Italy.

Today I was messaged by user 'XxlukexX' also with a UK profile. He sent me his *** username which turned out to be 'darkrift90' I immediately asked him if he was from Italy and he replied yes. I then confronted him about having multiple accounts using photos of different men and he immediately deleted his account.


I found a 'darkrifts1' on here but I think it might be unrelated, hasn't been used in 2 years.
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Contest: sweet and spooky

Ghouliette wrote:
[img]http://ghoul-girl-feedist.tumblr.com/image/103831137148[/img]

Sorry it's so late!


No worries! smiley Thanks for entering.

Zappy wrote:
I'll try and throw something together tonight and send it in.

Haven't entered one of these in ages!
Always good stuff.

smiley


Good, I've extended the deadline by a couple of days for it then. smiley
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Neighborhoodfeeder

Huh, he accepted it rather calmly and responded with:

ya i guess i was mainly trolling someone who said its ok for cops to kill kids, because her dad is a cop and pretty much had racist undertones refering to black people people as if they are less


I'll see if I can get an extra check on what happened around that part of the convo that wasn't logged, sigh.
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