We try to strike a balance between protecting the privacy of our members and welcoming in new people. This is a deliberate policy to which we have given much thought, it's not this way because we don't care about our members. It's not a new policy either, we've not changed what can and can't be seen by none members for several years. Bellybuilders is a porn site for fat gay men with lots of explicit material, so they have a duty to protect the general public from this.

We do respect our members privacy, and all features that might easily be used to identify someone, such as pics, videos and profiles are profected. However we are not a closed site either, we are not ashamed of what we do or what we're about and we want to welcome those that have not yet found us to join, and for this we need a search engine presence.

We also want to help others that may not actually be into weightgain at least develop some understanding of what we're about, to try and offset some of the sensationalist press coverage we sometimes get. Such people may not have the inclination to join, but they can develop an understanding by reading the forums and stories.

I think we should declare and promote a 'World fattening day' here on Fantasy Feeder.

Any opinions as to which day would be best (not too soon cos we need time to organise)?

Also what activities do you think we could have on such an event?