This thread again?

Best to keep it a secret from friends and family. And usually best to find a partner who is already into it, because not many are willing to start.

Flex in England is an extension cord in the US.

Lift in England is an elevator in the US.

Bonnet in England is hood in the US.

If you have a connection with someone, it is easy to find out what they are into without making a big deal about it.

For example, go out for ice cream. Make some joke. Something along the lines, of "I dated one woman who liked ice cream so much, she gained 30 pounds in a year." The wait to see what your date says. "I think that is gross," or "I've gained 30 pounds in a year, and I don't mind."

You don't need to spill your guts out. But as someone pointed out, happening to find someone who jsut happens to be a feedee is very rare.

Arielle by Dean Friedman. This is an old song, and I still get a kick out of it every time. It's very funny and clever

Even if the post is 2 years old, it goes back to the old thing. If someone doesn't want to gain weight, you can't force them. Just because someone likes to see a woman gain, does not mean they want to gain themselves. Just like if someone wants a dom, does not mean they want to be a dom.

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I am sure you will get a lot of offers. It sounds great to see someone go from thin to fat.

I'm not a gainer, but happiness comes from within. If you are gaining, and it makes you happy, you should be able to attract friends. True, the friends may not understand your gaining, and you can't discuss it with them. But if they see you happy and gaining, hopefully they will accept you.