Both, though I prefer cats...partially because they're less likely to keep me up at night by making noise and partially because they're less likely to try and lick my face.

Go for it

It's not harsh, it's the rule. And it protects both the members and the admins. This site deals with adult themes and as such only those who are of a legal age are allowed to join.

There's no sticky because there's a separate page with the rules of discussion and uploading.

But getting to the bottom of this, secret feeding is always wrong. You're doing something to someone without their consent, and that's something that any decent individual should balk at.

And yes, I think it's wrong even if there is no gun pointed at anyone's head.

First off, you lucky dog. Secondly, I agree with what's said above. Do it for yourself, the fact that your girlfriend will be into it should just be the icing on the proverbial cake.

I was the fat-kid too, so stares all across the board.

But also, this morning when I was taking in a buffet for breakfast a family with two young sons came in. And the older of them stopped and stared open-mouthed at me for a few seconds. I had a hard time not laughing.

I just met his gaze and held it until he walked past, something which I learned years ago that works most of the time.

I ate four more plates of food after that, but the family was sat behind me. So I don't know if I got anymore stares.

This will occasionally happen to me. On those days I tend to mill around the kitchen and eat something every few minutes. *and by that I mean like a sandwich, or a bowl of soup, or something else that's meal-level* And it tends to take me all evening to get satisfied...

After a big stuffing when your stomach is starting to hurt and you can hardly breath...the feeling makes you actually WANT to take those next few bites.

You find yourself waxing philosophical about cookies.