I think the people who can't stop gaining usually stuff themselves to the absolute maximum once a week or more. And vice versa.

True?

If she didn't realize that what you told her was confidential, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. In the future always be VERY clear if you tell her anything confidential that it is confidential and you need her to respect that.

If she still can't keep her mouth shut after that she might not be the woman for you.

I have heard of it, but I'm sure in some places it's impossible.

Nice, but how thick are they?

Go to an all-you-can-eat buffet and see if you can eat enough to get kicked out.

How about you ask for seconds, but only after you've already HAD seconds!

While some people live in fear of people commenting on their gain, others relish the idea, e.g. fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/forum/view-thread.php.

My ideas for getting people to say something about your weight:

1. Complain about how tight your clothes are getting.

2. If someone else mentions their diet regimen, be sympathetic. "You poor thing! I could never do that!"

3. While eating something fattening: "God, this is so good! I could eat it all day!"

4. If someone offers you something to eat, say "Lately I NEVER turn down food!"


Feel free to add to these suggestions.

Also feel free to try them out and report on whether they work!

Just curious...did the pledge help at all?

I would just see how many time you can go up and down a flight of stairs in one minute. Pretty simple test.

What you're describing is very common.