sounds like you’re enjoying yourself and you are pretty cognizant of how much you’re eating I don’t even pay attention to how many calories I’m eating tbh for me it’s all about how much I think I need vs how much I’m overstuffing when I order, there alot of times where I don’t get enough sometimes it’s like omg I can’t breathe
1 year
To me an evil feeder is one who would force me to eat vegetables! 🤮
1 year
I was thinking this could be a reoccurring thread where you just post your stuffings if and when you want!
BBQ is always fun to stuff
1 year
DollGirl:
This is a very valid point, Morbidly A Beast. At this point I am fairly open about being a feedist (on both sides of it) and often have to educate people about the kink, including fat guys I have met on vanilla dating apps and other kinksters not in this community.
However. I have kept quiet about it with regard to my mother, who has been fat her whole life and grew up in an era when there was no body acceptance. She faced a lot of rejection and ridicule and hurt in her life as a result of being fat. Even from my father. I worry that she would see this kink and my interests as trivializing and insulting.
That’s awesome you’re educating men on the issue you come across, there’s alot of men who are down in the dumps cause they got a belly it doesn’t need to be the case, it’s okay to be fat it’s okay to eat. You’re doing the lords work!
1 year
Wendy’s.
3 baconators
Baconator fries
10 spicy nuggets
And a “large” frosty
3,350 calories
I’m about a 6, enough to “feel it” but can still function normally
1 year
I figured it would be fun to share our gluttonous escapades here.
Just write out what you ate, approx calories, and a scale 1-10 how stuffed you are/were. Higher End the Better!
1 year
Delta9:
Why is it that even with body positivity and size acceptance becoming mainstream that feedism is still seen as bad by most, even regular fat people who don't share the fetish?
My opinion:
1. Encouraging fat gain is seen as encouraging someone to be more unhealthy. Almost like saying, "I only love you because you're an alcoholic". Substance abuse being analogous to food abuse. And most people see alcoholism as very self destructive. And many people see size acceptance as promoting the person's psychological health by ignoring the cost to their physical health.
2. It's almost the opposite of body positivity/acceptance, because it's saying we want someone to change the way their body already is to please us. It would be one thing to say someone is fat and I love them or like their body that way, but saying someone is thin and to please me they need to change their body by becoming fat is obviously not acceptance. I think to people outside this community, it feels very much like using the other person by projecting our desires onto them and expecting it to manifest in a physical way. Taking control of the feedee's own body and body image away from them.
I think the biggest disconnect in all this is not understanding or believing why someone would want to be or change to become fat. But we know that people actively go on weight loss programs all the time. They want to change their bodies. And promoting that is totally fine (in the mainstream). Yet promoting or helping someone go the opposite direction (to get fat) is bad. So it's obvious that being a healthy happy thin person is still not seen as equal to being a healthy happy fat person.
People who have been fat all their lives have feelings associated with it and them seeing people enjoying what causes them so much suffering could come off as trivializing their struggles and hardships. Also yeah, people aren’t ready for people who are fat and happy
1 year
Is there anyway to pay for premium that doesn’t involve PayPal? I’ve yet to have a positive experience using it
1 year
allow yourself indulge, and as you do so your appetite will increase then indulge that appetite which will increase your capacity. Keep in mind that consistency will give longer and stronger results, it’s a marathon not a sprint.
Also keep hydrated and make sure you’re getting enough nutrients, I drink like a gallon of water a day and take a multivitamin
1 year
