I would imagine you mean "Fat" considered by people on this board and not mainstream.

I would say it varies based on many things.

For example a shorter girl looks fatter with less weight, so it can't be purely a number associated with weight. Likewise based on body type some women can have a big belly with only slightly chubby legs or arms which some would say, "wow, she is fat" because her belly is so big but in reality she is only considered fat because of that body part.

I guess I would categorize fat in two ways where everything on a women's body is quite a bit bigger than normal and it hinders her physical ability somewhat not to mention limits her movement. This is not a for sure because there are plenty of women who are fat that can move really good but I guess I would say if that women was thinner would they be able to move and do things better.

Putting a percentage basis on this I would say....There are certain times on a monthly basis where my sexual attraction/drive is around 95% linked to fatness and weight gain with my wife or in general. I can't get enough weight gain or fat in my life during these times.

Other times it goes down to maybe around 80%. With that said Fat and weight gain are always the majority base desire in some way for sexual arousal.

I look at a skinny attractive woman and I will imagine how much better she would look if she gained weight! I even start imagining where she would start to get fat first etc. Sometimes I will even imagine her getting really fat and I can almost picture her in my mind exactly her with maybe 50 Lbs. more.

I will see my wife changing into some clothes after just taking a shower and will admire some weight she has gained recently and her struggle to get into a pair of jeans that used to fit fine and when she finally gets them buttoned she has a several inches of tan soft fat belly spilling out not to mention her love handles hanging over the sides of the low cut waist band. This puts me into a complete crazy arousal and all I want to do is go up to her and ravish her.

So, obviously the complete ultimate for any of us FA's who are into weight gain would be to have our wives into this as much as we are!!!

My wife and I were away last weekend for a friend of hers big formal Birthday celebration.

We were dressed up for two days straight and her friend had a professional photographer shoot her party events for two nights.

I just saw the pictures and was in shock. Mind you I have lost weight over the last several months and thought my wife has as well. After viewing the pictures we looked pretty heavy compared to the rest of the 50+ guests. Most of the women were skinny to slightly chubby and my wife happened to be the prettiest but to my surprise probably one of the heaviest.....in which I feel she is much to skinny yet. I on the other hand was probably the second heaviest guy there.

It was a complete shock to me seeing myself in pictures next to other thinner guys and realizing that people might consider me Fat. This is after I have lost weight in the past several months.....I wonder how I would of looked in these pictures with the extra 20+ Lbs. that was around my gut. My wife even alluded to the fact that I really didn't need another appetizer etc. that I ordered a couple times during the weekend which she has never really done.

We have not been out in a Formal fashion like these events in a long time and it really made me think of if I was as heavy as I was a few months ago someone might have even commented how big I was.

My wife and I looked stuffed into our Formal clothes much more than the majority and I couldn't get over how puffy both of our faces looked.

Crazy thing is when I look at my wife right now..... I want her to put on a good 40-50 Lbs. I think the Formal thing around skinnier people and seeing pics has to go because my wife probably weighs around 160 Lbs currently at 5' 3"..... and I am currently 230+ Lbs. when just a few months ago I was over 250 Lbs. She never really commented on my weight negatively only in a little joking way a couple of times.

After seeing these pics I think she is going to talk to me about us going on a diet..... she was already hinting around that I tend to eat to much. I have to believe it was because she was looking at me next to other men that were weighing around 170-180 Lbs. tops

M wife is unbelievably Beautiful with a gorgeous shaped figure and when she gains weight it only looks so much better and sexy....... although it was quite a shock seeing her next to women quite a bit taller all with huge 4"+ heels on along with herself but she probably out weighed them by 40 Lbs. and it really looks noticeable with those comparisons.

Anyone go through similar experiences like this?

Obviously all body types and things are different. I can give you some insight from my personal experience.

When I first started to gain it went to my belly first and became tight and hard and swollen. I looked like an in shape lean guy that developed a beer gut. Over time with more gaining it got slightly softer and I fattened up in my ass and all over slightly even my face but that took a little bit of time for the weight to settle into those spots. Over the years through a few gains and losses once my body took slightly different shape from Tall/lean to Tall/Big & Husky with physical body maturity I guess my gaining would change.

When I gain now at first my Belly will get big and swollen slightly tight and not only stick out in the front but form pretty wide off of my sides. If I start to eat I can gain pretty fast and it shows very quickly. I can gain 30 Lbs. in two months with only slight changes in my eating and my appetite grows really fast.

The other thing that is different from before is my set point at where my weight will settle. After I gained in the past and if I let up on eating so much and worked out more my weight would decrease with time and I would lose that 30+ Lbs. Nowadays I don't really get below 230 Lbs. even with intense work outs and eating good. So the 20 Lbs. or so never really goes away like it used to.

Not sure exactly! Everyone is different.....I can usually gain that amount of weight in a 1 1/2 - 2 months with working out heavier and my appetite really grows.

I as well as most FA's who are into weight gain like and can appreciate many different type of bellies.

I do like apron bellies!

Breaking it down in detail it has to first do with shape, fatness, density, softness/firmness, skin tone etc.

So there will be varying opinions but certainly apron bellies have a high percentage of attraction from most Fa's here because it has some sag and obviously a lot of fat an weight to it which all of us here really like.

In chronological order:

1. Fat admirer +
2. Weight gain +
3. Heavy eating encourager +
4. Slight Feeder +
5. Mutual Gaining

THEN

6. Secret Heavy Feeder while doing the cooking

7. While Feeding my Wife ended up gaining more than her accidentally

8. Because of a lack of her getting Fat.....Fed my weight gain urge by deciding to see how fat I could get and wanted to see when she would mention my weight gain

9. Began stuffing sessions for her to notice my new 30+ Lbs. "Grew a pretty big Gut" in a relatively short period of time

10. Slimmed back down from appetite reduction....watching her gain again without any help by me.....I just wish she could pack on 30 Lbs. pretty quickly

Based on your Videos I would say your Fat! It look's like your Belly has been Fat for some time and may be your fattest body part....but possibly your thighs as a close second but can't really tell from the vids.

You should continue to get bigger if you want that....from what I can tell by the vids your have a slight apron sag to your belly which look's like a fat heavy belly so if you gain more it will sag even more which is quite sexy. cant really say if your belly is bigger in the ladder videos because of all the different angles but if you like gaining or the thought of others that like you gaining I am sure you should get a lot of people excited around these parts.

I don't know if I have any great concrete advice/answers other than the one's already spoken of.

I hear ya ....as far as having fun trying!

My wife ...... at her heaviest or even during her bigger times (not even close to as high as your girl's weight) along with my bigger belly posed some extra positioning or situating during missionary with our bellies bouncing and pushing each other away. Although I think it was due to my bigger pot belly at the time in this position.

Cowgirl style worked really nice at our size and weights and was very amusing with her big belly boucing, slapping and squishing into mine. It also made her look even bigger and fatter in this position which I love.

It was the combination of the two bellies that tended to cause the few adjustments because before I grew my gut she was at her heaviest and I was fairly ripped and her soft fat belly bounced into me perfectly.....but it wasn't nearly as arousing as when we both had our bigger bellies getting in the way.

While you are eating a lot in front of him and finishing a snack ask in a vulnerable sweet way if he could get you some more (Ice cream, cookies, etc.) continue eating that and subtly breath heavier at times with deep breaths and sighs. After you finish, mention that you are so full but still very hungry at the same time and then get up with a struggle to get to your feet and walk over to get more snacks with your bloated belly. He will love the sight of you eating out of control and he will be anxiously anticipating how much fatter you will get with all the eating.

Another thing that most FA's find pretty damn sexy is the thought of movements changing or a regular task being hindered because of the weight gain. Over emphasize after you have been sitting down how much more difficult it is to sit up and get to your feet by showing a bit of a struggle. Or even just after you have done something that is not that strenuous sit down and sigh and breath heavier.... these are all sexy signs that the one we love is getting fatter and going to keep getting fatter and fatter.