Not Fat Yet:
So my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we love to go for ice cream dates. I always thought she might secretly be a feedee as she would ask to go for ice cream all the time but I was too nervous to ask. Over the winter, the ice cream dates have stalled (although summer is coming soon!) Over the last few months she has noticeably lost weight although she bakes cookies and desserts for me all the time and gets upset if I don't finish it all - meanwhile she doesn't touch any of it. I've put on 10-15 lbs which is pretty noticeable as I'm generally athletic. When I commented on her baking and how I'm the only one eating it, she said she likes to bake for others but not for herself . This might not be a feeder tendency, but I'm enjoying the extra pounds myself even though I always saw myself as a feeder! I'm hoping the ice cream dates start up again soon so we can slowly put on the pounds together.

Jshep2158:
She can do anything she wants with her body but I would find such a transformation sad.

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Would it be possible to be a vegan and a BBW who looks like a blonde all American girl?

Fattoo:
I liked these replies.
And would be better for me to restart my fattening process.
Would have liked to know the role exercise should play out sometime ago. I realized at 293lbs that I maxed out my gaining progress. Had I exercised to whatever way is best. I would have been able to continue getting fatter. And in a much more appreciable way.
I had looked into the Sumo diet.
But I guess I just got carried away with eating and relaxing instead. Certainly would require more effort and time to first strategize a proper exercise routine and then to make it a weekly habit. At that rate I am like my own instructor, yet overeating at the same time to get fattened. It just seems so ridiculous to me.
I wonder what it would be like to lose 140lbs and start over again?
It been years of living in the lazy way. Fat an lazy. Out of coordination and hardly any flexibility. Oh man, well it's going to be a long day to continue as I have. And not meet up with a new modus operandi.
The way is not yet clear.....

Munchies:
I think the problem tends to lie where fantasy and reality meet.

You can fantasize about whatever you like, but most of it has to stay in fantasy. There tend to be ... repercussions. You might be fine with some of them in the short term, but the longer you don't do things safely or mindfully, the more you suffer for it.


It's also why you can find a lot of 200 - 300 lbs feedists, but not as many 400+ lbs feedists.

Fattoo:
Thanks for the insight.
Likewise in fantasy vs reality.
I can say when committing going beyond my prior plateau.
I lost count comparing weekly expense for food. And ever since my girlfriend brought over much larger soup bowls. Which we loved. Have increased volume 4x. And yet the habit for second servings still remains. And recently noticing not having enough for leftovers.
Making more gets even more expensive.
More time consuming.
And unrealized changes / habits / preferences that come with weight gains.
The next thing to improve progress always becomes a new menu change, which can be as simple as adding a handful of fig newtons for the lunchbox. To eat before lunch.
And good grief, another added grocery expense.
Plus since Covid, foods are costing 2x more!.

At this time. I have been sick all week with no appetite, thanks to my already sick girlfriend coming over last weekend.
She is still sick as I am. So stayed home. I feel like I'm fat. But actually losing weight. At the same time my waist shrunk 2".
I guess I am setback it is costing so much for food.

But also realizing my girlfriend thinks a nice weekend includes cooking and relaxing.

Being responsible for health is not my endeavor, but neither is anything else.
Staying home to eat rather than going outside to play has been a pleasure with something to gain.

Not committed otherwise.

Munchies:
I'm 100% on the spectrum. Although, most people seem shocked when I tell them that.

Glitter Jelly:
Same here. But that only tells you how little people know about autism.

Munchies:
No, that's not why. It used to be super obvious to tell. However, I got a lot better at functioning. The only time I get clocked nowadays is if I get overstimulated in public.

Besides, if you meet one autistic person, you've met one autistic person.

Glitter Jelly:
That's always what I tell people.

Laser:
Masking and mimicry, I use both heavily. But definitely I have slip-ups, and can be very antisocial, downright despise human interactions due to becoming over stimulated.

Munchies:
If you have very moist bread or live in a warm, damp environment, it will mold. Putting it in the fridge will slow it down, but only so much. The freezer is the best way to go about it, as it's too cold for the spores to take hold.

HappyBigBelly:
Yep, with this being the little ol’ South, it’s always humid out — even when it’s cold temps outside.

The fridge works out well enough. Wouldn’t leave the buns uneaten too many days anyway!

Munchies:
Food can't spoil if you eat it first.

HappyBigBelly:
Hence this site, ha :-)

Munchies:
If you have very moist bread or live in a warm, damp environment, it will mold. Putting it in the fridge will slow it down, but only so much. The freezer is the best way to go about it, as it's too cold for the spores to take hold.

HappyBigBelly:
Yep, with this being the little ol’ South, it’s always humid out — even when it’s cold temps outside.

The fridge works out well enough. Wouldn’t leave the buns uneaten too many days anyway!

Fattoo:
I liked these replies.
And would be better for me to restart my fattening process.
Would have liked to know the role exercise should play out sometime ago. I realized at 293lbs that I maxed out my gaining progress. Had I exercised to whatever way is best. I would have been able to continue getting fatter. And in a much more appreciable way.
I had looked into the Sumo diet.
But I guess I just got carried away with eating and relaxing instead. Certainly would require more effort and time to first strategize a proper exercise routine and then to make it a weekly habit. At that rate I am like my own instructor, yet overeating at the same time to get fattened. It just seems so ridiculous to me.
I wonder what it would be like to lose 140lbs and start over again?
It been years of living in the lazy way. Fat an lazy. Out of coordination and hardly any flexibility. Oh man, well it's going to be a long day to continue as I have. And not meet up with a new modus operandi.
The way is not yet clear.....

Wackaroni:
I constantly feel alienated for having a kink for stuffing and feederism. It is hard not to feel like a freak when most people don't like what you like, and frankly I have lost hope and I don't know how to get by anymore.

Can I overcome my hopelessness in finding love? Out of desperation I find myself becoming less excited to put myself out there, and more willing to isolate myself, escape my thoughts, or hurt myself.

HueOrdner:
That's really interesting! I always thought sumo wrestlers were the coolest. They're fat but fit at the same time.