Being an FA is one thing. It's like being a BBW. It's no big deal. But to come out in public as a feeder, or even someone who is a gaining admirer, it's not easy. About the same as coming out as a feedee or someone who wants to gain.

There are other ways to spot fakes too. Someone who does not know how clothing sizes work, or weill tell you anything except what size they wear. People who have cliamed to have gained a lot of weight, but only have before pictures, etc. A lot of times, if you have a detailed conversation with them, they will slip up. One woman claimed to be 300 pounds but said she bought her clothes in the 5-7-9 Shop, one woman who claimed to be so fat at 200 pounds, she needed to have her doors widened, etc.

Tell us more please. Anyone know her name?

I think most people are missing the point here. There are two points here. 1) dating a woman who is thin, and 2) dating a woman who hates being fat, and will probably hate fat people in general, and probably will not understand a man who likes large women. In addition, dieters and workout people are incredibly boring. All they talk about is losing weight, what they ate, what they didn't eat, etc. All of the work they put into workouts is just wasted motion. They could use the same motions to do volunteer work, work around the house, etc.

So, I could date a thin woman, but I could NEVER date a woman is into working out.

True, someone can start easy, and see how it feels.

But I don't understand someone wanting to know how much to gain. It's like going to a bar and asking how much to drink. If you do something for pleasure, you should have some idea how much pleases you. Some feedees just want a few curves. Others want to be immobile.

Why do you want to gain? If you have a reason to gain, the amount should be obvious to you.

Chances are she will gain it back anyway.

You live in a 6 story house? Sounds pretty cool.