Beautiful, sweet, kind and very silly
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A lovely lady who is always a fun presence in the shoutbox.
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I FatgirlByApple wrote:diggers1917 wrote:
(it would be impractical to be monogamous with food in the same way a foot fetishist shouldn't try avoiding non-amputees other than their partner!), but yeah...context and intent are everything here...
I do think you can be monigamous with food because if my boyfriends has a foot fetish I'd be had broken if he took a girl shoe shopping and feeder should not take othere girls to dinner
I suppose so, but like I said, context is important. So I would count 'romantic' meals for two and feeding sessions to be definite feedist cheating, but not a meal out with friends as part of a wider social gathering like a party, pre-cinema food, or everyone grabbing a take away as they stagger back from the pub etc. Eating is so much a part of social lives that to cut out all other food related activity with others would be too restricting. Similarly, with our fictional foot fetishist analogy, I suppose your right that taking them shoe shopping would be cheating, but simply
being around people with feet, and walking from place to place with people, isn't.
There again, maybe it does depending on how obsessive a feeder they are...
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Interesting question. While I don't think that it's on the same level as explicitly sexual cheating (your oral sex example), it's almost certainly on the same spectrum. They're still doing something for gratification with someone other than their partner.
Does the partner know about said 'sessions'*? And what would their likely reaction be if they did (assuming it isn't an open relationship)? The answers to those would probably be quite telling as to whether it's cheating.
*That word implies a level of planning that makes it a bit suspect here. Having a meal with someone else is one thing (it would be impractical to be monogamous with food in the same way a foot fetishist shouldn't try avoiding non-amputees other than their partner!), but yeah...context and intent are everything here...
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bbwildrose wrote:Murphy wrote:
Skinny guys as love interests are too rare. We should see more guys with thin to average builds around and in media.
White guys, too. We caucasians of slimmer-than-average build are so incredibly underrepresented.
Agreed! I'm still in the closet about finding this minority attractive. I tend to just use them sexually but I'm too embarrassed to be seen out in public with them. It's something I'm working on though!
You disgusting fetishist, you!
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Mymmeli wrote:
I don't need to take a bus that often anymore so encounters like that are now rare.
That reminded me of an observation I made as a young teenager on the bus which has stayed with me. Two very lovely very fat young women got onto the bus I was on, and sat down. But I noticed, before she sat down (well, more 'reversed into the space and lowered herself' ) one of them looked over her shoulder at the seat, to judge whether her bum was actually going to fit, it seemed (the bus wasn't at all crowded, so it was a double-seat. They took either side of the aisle). It was so simple, but so so telling.
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The Joker's good, an excellent choice, but I have to throw my lot in with the Scarecrow, at least Chris Nolan's ('They scream, and they cry, just as you're doing now' ) & Arkham Asylum's renderings of him (seriously, a cross between Batman & Silent Hill? I'm sold).
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Bands with repeated words in them: Duran Duran, Talk Talk, The The & Wet Wet Wet.
Who invented the Camberwell Carrot (and why is it so named
)?
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