Hahaha, I didn't even know this was a thing but I do it all the time. Lots of whimpering and whining and belly rubbing after eating too much. Next time I will set up a camera?
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The thought of being stuffed is VERY arousing to me, along with having my belly rubbed during and after.
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my local interactions have been disappointing as well. I would love to click with somebody, particularly nearby.. I'm openminded and want to explore with somebody
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cheesecake or Alfredo pasta
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kid cudi - cudi zone
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LadyEjkua wrote:
But in the end it's the arrangements a couple makes about what's cheating and what is not that count.
Absolutely agree!
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I think in the strictly monogamous relationships most people choose to be in this would probably fall in a grey area that leans a bit towards 'cheating', for pretty much all the reasons Foxglove already stated. I think if anyone wants to go behind their partners back and use the "but it's not physical!" excuse and ignore the sexual and/or romantic implications that may be involved, well... Maybe you need to reexamine whether your needs are being met in your current relationship? Or maybe you're less of a monogamist then you thought?
On a personal level, I feel like I could deal with somebody I was dating having a feeder/ee relationship outside of our own. I know I'm not looking to put on another 100 pounds, and if this is what they want then who I am to deny them? I see it this way: I care about this person and want them to be happy, so why chain them to me when I know that they are repressing their own needs? I would feel quite selfish in doing so. Again, this is just *me* though, I know most people don't share in my ideals.
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Since we're talking about the work environment I think it's important not to be too forward. Some people find being hit on at work uncomfortable and inappropriate. I would start by just being friendly and polite, maybe try to get to know them a little better on a friend/acquaintance level and gauge their reaction. If she's interested she will likely give you some indication.
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Roy wrote:
I've noticed that a lot of people on my *** contacts list are always afk. I don't see the point in this.If you're not on and available to chat then why not just sign off? Or at least leave a status message that you aren't available.
I'll msg someone on *** and not get a response. And then I'll wonder if its because they don't want to chat or if its just because they are afk. Btw, it's not something that keeps me up at night, but it does cross my mind at that moment. Often times they'll pm me later (sometimes days later).
Then there are the people that msg you on *** to chat and about four minutes into the conversation they just go quiet. And it's not something I've said, they always do it.
I'll admit, I'm guilty of doing both of these things regularly. Could I use some work in these areas? Definitely. It can take me days to respond on messenger, but usually because I simple forget to. I do this with text messages as well - sometimes I'll read something and return to my business with the intent to respond and just forget. It happens.
Like others have said, it can get old trying to hold up stale conversation. Especially if you weren't even the one to initiate it. If you're approaching me and expecting me to carry on a conversation for both of us then don't even bother! And honestly, sometimes it seems easier to just not respond instead of being honest and saying that you don't feel like talking. That kind of honesty can bring out the ugly in people who are sensitive to rejection, regardless of how kind you are trying to be. I would rather not respond then to be bashed or ranted at because I am not interested. Not saying everyone does this, but I've had it happen to me enough times that I know it's sometimes easier just to ignore.
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