Exercise and stretch/ stay active.
You can gain weight and not be sedentary.
I walk each evening or walk horses for about 30 mins.
I'm fat and flabby so deff not toned LOL

It has happened to me a few times over the years.
Never paid much attention to comments from others.
There are times when people said I lost or gained weight and I did neither.

Just increase the amount of food you eat.
A good way to start is have larger portions at meal time and snack in between meals.

Some belly exposed was a thing for me as I was gaining.
Still let it show in the right outfit
Chubby or fat guys with their bellies peeking out is something I find cute and attractive.

Years ago when I was an active gainer the act of getting fat was a turn on for me.
My BF's fat body is always turning me on these days.
There is not one part of his body that isn't hot.

I have a belt extender in my Jeep.
I am too scared to fly but I am sure I would have to ask for one.

Its been years since I could fit in a booth in most places.
I do like to try tho'
Waitresses and waiters that are heavy themselves don't ask booth or table.
This belly does not fit in a booth take my word for it.

I'm a fan Summer just so you know. Oh and I am a donut lover too.

I went from 115 or so to 445 at my highest but it took about 15 years so not that impressive.

I can't fit in most of them anyway.
I have buried the legs of a wider one when it was on grass.
I moved it to the porch and all was fine.
It was a very sturdy chair for being plastic.
Metal lawn chairs are usually a no no for me.

Munchies you are a trip !!.
I call my BF my BHM but he gets embarrassed when I do that.
He calls me wide load sometimes and I am used to it.
Never describe him to others as obese just a big guy.