I did this recently with my wife. I've gained a bit this summer and she doesn't like that. She was/is on a diet. I told her that for every lbs she gains, I'll lose one.

Of course losing is harder -- and of course whether I do or not, she gains.

Ever since I told my wife I like her with a bit more meat on her, I've integrated it into our conversations. She'll be complaining to someone that she's gained 10 lbs and I'll say "but she looks better than ever"

She's told 2 of her girlfriends who pack it on that I like it when she is heavier and with them too it just rolls into the conversation.

I state it as a preference, the way other men will say they prefer blondes or whatever. I don't like to present it as a kink fixation.

Yes, definitely. It's a price I gladly pay for her being overweight.

Only once in her life has she *really* lost weight -- and about half of that is already back on ever since she started to eat normal again.

I make the diet meals, buy the low calorie stuff, get her meal replacements -- I support her all the way. But I refuse to play food-cop. So when (not if......) she asks for cake, ice cream, chips, you better believe it's already in the house waiting for her.

End of June she was 215 and got scared. Went on a diet. Went all the way down to 206. Today she's 212.8 lbs.

I've come to find the diet periods kind of exciting because I can see the whole falling apart of the self-discipline again, and can see the weight go up again.

She's been on her version of a diet again, since hitting 210+. Her new ceiling is 210-215: then she gets nervous. But the amounts of food she stows away in the evening after a day of starving ensure she won't lose.

It's a full year now that I'm training her to know I like her fat. There's more and more giving in and accepting this new phase in her life, but these pushback moments happen sometimes too. That's OK: we work hard in between to make sure that when she diets, even if she loses weight, she's still overweight.

She's pretty much at the level of reluctant participant now: sometimes she would magically want to be thin, but she doesn't want to live to be thin. That I like her fat makes it easier for her to give in

The manipulator
You love to “secretly” fatten up your man and watch him being fall slowly into your fat trap, you enjoy seeing him trying so hard to fight temptation but eventually failing and accepting his fat fate. And then, you will enjoy teasing him about it, because you know that he LOVES it, poking him, making him wear tight clothes, and do things that he’s not able to physically do anymore just to get a laugh out of it. This sort of mental games and role-play can be a huge turn on for you . You would probably get along very well with social gainers (from the gainer quiz) Pros: your kind of kink can be a lot of fun when it is consensual and mutual. Cons: can come up a bit creepy at times.

Seriously? I thought it was only/mostly the women getting the jerks.

Very nice work. Well done!

AM: "I only want half a toast"

PM: "Just some raspberries for me"

Evening:
- "Can you make me a meal?"
- "Do we have BBQ chips?"
- "Can you make me 2 sandwiches with cheese?"

300 calories over maintenance calories. Also; determination to diet -- gone.

Ah yes, the FUPA. Nice to hold. Very sexy in its own right



Go for other replacements too, like heavy/whipping cream instead of milk.



I know what you mean. FA quickly becomes Gaining Admirer; the growth itself is fun. Growing them is fun.

You can toy with just letting her know. From your first post I see you have weight conversations kind of matter of factly, so just let her know; "You look really amazing like this; I think I'll boost your calories for a while"