My wife and I are in a mutual gaining relationship. We've been together for over 20+ years. It started off as mainly my fetish. She gained a lot and has been around 300 lbs as of recently. Also recently I am gaining now. With the goal of at least weighing the same as her if not a bit more. Then we can continue gaining together. But, we don't really want to go any more than 350. I too would have been gaining with her all these years. But, because of health issues, I wasn't able to until recently.
Mutual gaining is really great though. Having another person, especially your partner gaining together offers so much. Support, encouragement, trying many things together that a person alone wouldn't be able to do or experience. It also helps with any insecurities. I know many, myself included do have that little bit of us that may worry about what others will say and think. Even if it's just family or friends. Having that person by your side really eases one's mind.
Like any relationship with a kink or a fetish. It may not be an all-the-time thing. For some, it may be. Either way, I will say it's a damn lot of fun.

Best wishes to all.
3 years
User55567:
So I've been actively trying to gain for probably 3 weeks now (4k-6k calories a day) even using heavy cream and weight gain shakes, and I can't seem to get any weight to actually stick on me. I think I've actually gained about 4-5 pounds but it's super discouraging. I'm currently 184.6 as of this morning and am trying to reach 200 but it seems like I'll never get there. Any tips on how to get it to stick and to stay motivated?
I am in pretty much the exact same situation. Granted I did gain a bit from 150ish to almost 190ish as of now. But, now that has seemed to stop no matter how much I eat or drink. Which of course is demoralizing. Sometimes it just takes time to get over a plateau. Slow and steady wins the race. Maybe try to spread out your calories more throughout the day. which may help you add more calories. Mix carbs with the fats like heavy cream. I've read that when both carbs and fats are together in a portion of food it has a higher chance to become body fat. This is why potato chips and french fries are supposed to be some of the foods that cause the most weight gain. Maybe keep a food journal and weight tracking so you can see how many calories you are eating, what foods work best for gaining, etc. Best of luck!
3 years
I'm from CT and just recently moved to Cape Cod. Sounds like a good idea. My wife and I have been trying to find friends and meet people. Making friends with people who also enjoy feedism would make for great times going out to eat.

But, yeah keep us informed!
3 years
LondonFA:
Either Brooke or Kelligrl
Brooke was the first for me also. If we are talking about the same Brooke, but I think we are since you mentioned Kelligirl and she was around back then too. But, Brooke was amazing!
I also remember a Japanese artist that drew huge women. I haven't seen or heard about him in ages. He went by 2 names I think. Or maybe it was a Japanese thing. But, it was Igabito or Igamono. Something like that. Not sure about the spelling. But, I am sure people will recognize his work if they were around back in the day. Dimensions Magazine too had a great site. Read all my first stories there.
3 years
william keay:
Got Tummy ache after a big meal and milkshake?
Me too and you will want to go to the loo because of the pains in your tummy but don't go as this will hinder your weight gain.
Lay on the bed for half an hour and the tummy pains will go and you'll store more fat that way
The vast majority of calories are absorbed in the small intestine. Once it gets to the large intestine it's pretty much just water and things you can't digest. The large intestine reabsorbs the water. Then that's it, you then go to the bathroom.
Trying to actively not go to the bathroom will most likely only result in constipation. As the large intestine will keep drawing out water and make things harder and even painful. So, just eat and let your body do its thing. Our bodies are amazingly capable of absorbing calories and nutrients. Best of luck!
3 years
Done!

Best of luck!
3 years
Chefdepear:
Old thread but out of curiosity I'm thinking of moving to CT or Vermont. Are they pretty good states to live in?
Yes! well... depends. I think VT is a bit more quiet unless you are skiing. CT can be a bit of many things depending on where you live. Close to NYC or Boston. Some bigger cities or quiet small New England towns. It can be pricey. Both places are. Hell all of the northeast is. But, you may get lucky and find something.
3 years
It's kinda a yes with my wife and I. While she knows all about feedism and likes that she is a big woman and also has been liking my gaining. I wouldn't say she is into it all to the same degree as I am. She wouldn't read stories or look at artwork about gaining on her own. But, she does know about it all. The websites, the general idea about it all. Which is does like aspects of it all. Again, just not to the same degree as myself.
3 years
I am trying to get something going. Granted, it would most likely be majority mutual stuff with my wife too. But, I am most likely gonna be doing some content by myself. My wife is into feedism stuff. But not as much as I am. So she won't be front and center. So I am probably gonna do it. But, yeah I haven't seen really any male content. Could be fun!
3 years
primal23:I too have been through and share much of what you say. I have Crohn's disease so that makes gaining very difficult for me too. I have also been on Prednisone so many times. Which yes, it can cause weight gain, but holy hell the other side effects make that medication so horrible! Best of luck in your journey!
wdk680:I feel for you. I had a bout with inflammatory bowel disease due to misuse of Augmentin (destroyed my normal intestinal bacterial flora and I suppose resulted in a bout with C. Dif. but came up negative for that by the time I got it checked out). Lucky for me the prednisone and another drug (can't remember the name) got me straightened out in a couple months. These inflammatory diseases of the intestinal tract really are horrible and under-served. Like why do we see promotions for all these new treatments for skin diseases like psoriasis but not much on IBD. WTF!!
Things have definitely gotten better with treatments and being diagnosed. It took over a year for them to figure out I had Crohn's. All while they were just guessing and throwing all sorts of pills at me trying to figure it all out. IBD is or has a lot in common with other autoimmune diseases. Like psoriasis. Which they have been making all these new drugs called biologics. Like Humira, Remicade, etc. They can work for many of the same diseases. Even though some are only approved for certain ones. So that's why it's so commonly seen nowadays. Those meds are insanely expensive. Like $3,000-$10,000+ a vial. Where a single dose could be 4 or more vials every couple of weeks. So, they want that money they are advertising like crazy. Hope you are doing and feeling better! Take care!
3 years