I did NOT think I'd be into this at all.

Of course, "little" is rather a contradiction considering her size.

But Lisa's recently started calling me "daddy" and braiding her hair into adorable long pigtails. It's a hairstyle that really shows off how fat someone is, it draws attention to how she has no neck anymore, between her triple chin and chubby shoulders.

My big obese princess.
We're celebrating our anniversary, and she bought a cake... but she was too hungry.

"Daddy, can I have the whole cake?"

I gave her permission.
She's earned it, being so huge and hungry. Big girl's gotta eat, and I know she'll put it to good use filling our house with more of herself.

Lisa HATES being under 5 feet tall.

But since I encouraged her to just gain weight freely, she's gotten so much more confident about herself. She can never get taller, but she can get a lot more wider! Now she's literally the most massive person in the room almost all the time, and it makes her feel so good.

She can't really type in English, so I'll answer from the feeder perspective:

1. Been fed IRL
Oh yes, it's my job as her boy to keep her well fed and listen to her food and drink requests, even in the middle of the night. Can't argue with results!

2. Ate herself to sleep
All the time. She'll eat so much she gets exhausted just from supper, then ask for cake and ice cream, then fall asleep on the couch because it's too much work to walk to bed.

3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
No, because she eats so much so fast, sex makes her feel queasy with her full belly. She used to be ashamed, but I told her straight up that her that her appetite was more important than my libido... Or rather that her appetite WAS my libido.

4. Stolen food because I'm just a piggy
She's recently started doing it. Getting up with a heavy feminine grunt, waddling over, and literally taking food off my plate while I'm eating. Eating my portions while standing up right behind me. I'm not mad, I'm actually really proud!

5. Been called a fat name in public
Yeah! A young couple said "Uggh! Fatty!" loud enough for their voices to carry. Her reaction later: "That was rude... but it's true, haha!"

6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
The last time we flew on an airplane. She couldn't buckle her seatbelt around her own belly. A pretty supermodel-like flight attendant noticed, and had to squish and part her fat rolls to get it to fit in between her folds. Then she patted my wife right on her gut and said in a sweet voice "There we go, all better!"
Her assessment: "That was the best flight service ever!"

7. Been fatter than my current weight
Nope!

8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
No, because she loves planning things ahead and comfort above all else. So when she accepted she was going to keep getting bigger, she moved to online specialty stores, shoes with no laces to worry about, and shapeless giant blouses in the "8XL" range. Well, they're not shapeless when she wears them. She fills them out quite nicely!

9. Broken furniture because of my weight
Surprisingly no!

10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
Nope

11. Fantasized about immobility
Yes! In one of her "bratty sub" moments she told me she wanted to get too fat to move and force me to do everything. I responded that I have to at least be able to roll her out of the house so I can make everyone stare.

12. Ate until I threw up
It happens sometimes, unfortunately

13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
She sometimes needs help getting out of bed. She's gotten stuck in the bathtub. She really doesn't care, but just treats at as a daily inconvenience of her size and shrugs it off.

14. Posted nudes of myself online
Nope

15. Been fed online
Nope

16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
Her mom is a very nice person, but very traditional. So she'd always talk about her daughter's weight in front of us both. "Isn't that belly so heavy?" "You're the man, you have to help put my daughter on a diet!"
But she realized Lisa wasn't going to lose the weight, and she was happier than ever and healthy too. I was the first guy she ever brought home to Mom, and we married. So she gave up and just accepted that her daughter is super obese, and okay that way even if she doesn't understand.

17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
C'est moi

18. Started rubbing my belly in public
Subtly

19. Been called a pig
By me

20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
We don't own a scale

21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer
No

Yeah! My bae's voice has changed... mostly because she's always eating now and she talks with her mouth full of food!

Lisa got us lunch. She ate hers. Then she ate all of my lunch, in moments before I could even realize what was going on. Then she went for a third lunch! Then she fell asleep.

I'm so proud of her!

"Is it okay if I eat your lunch? I'm soooo hungry!"

"Hey, big girl's gotta eat!"

My mom-in-law is a great person, but VERY traditional.

So when I started dating Lisa and she brought me to Mama, she was always scolding her daughter about her size.

"Isn't your belly so heavy?"

"As the man, you have to put my daughter on a diet!"

That was 100 pounds ago, and she's just accepted that her daughter is super obese, lovely, happy, and healthy. Even if she doesn't understand why a girl would choose to get that huge.

Lisa's just given up on buttons entirely. Just elastic and giant blouses. No shoelaces either. She's very aware and practical about her weight gain, and has been planning this whole time for all the changes she'll have to make.

It happens to Lisa so many times.

She'll eat so much she gets short of breath just from feeding herself, then just fall asleep on the couch. At that level of gorging, belly rubs are painful, so I'll leave her alone and let her have her "fat girl nap." Then help her waddle to bed once she's digested a little.

My wife knows.

I told her right to her ear that I wanted to make her as fat as practically possible- and she agreed.

The rest of our family is kind and supportive, but don't understand why a woman would do this to herself... and they don't know my role in it all.

The only person who knows everything is my enby sibling, who thinks she's not nearly huge enough. I agree.

For Lisa it's the point where her lifestyle had to change.

It was very subtle and didn't happen all at once. But there's a level of fat where everything is "normal" and average, and a level of fat where your entire life revolves around your obesity, all the things you can't do anymore and all the things that take extra time and consideration. Luckily, she's very happy about her gains, and likes planning ahead.