On this weight gain journey the one thing I've noticed is how quickly my face has started to round.
When I weighed 258, I had a round face (thats my Irish genes). But it seems to be taking hold much quicker this time. This is on top of getting softer overall.
Is a fat, round face something to try to acquire? If not, is there a way to avoid it?
1 year
I do shift work and am mostly on the late shift - 6pm-2am. Because of this, my wife is almost always asleep when I get home.
Something happened this week that's never happened before. I got home and got into bed. While I was laying there, she rolled over and her super squishy belly briefly pressed up against my back. It was an amazing feeling. Then it happened again last night!!!! Wow!!!!
I'm not sure why this hasn't happened before. It could be because she's the heaviest she's ever been. It could be that I've gained almost 20lbs recently. Maybe we're just not lying in our normal spots in bed because of our gains. Whatever the reason it feels so good!
1 year
Finickyfeedee:
Today, for the first time in my life, I weighed in at above 140 pounds - 141.1, to be precise! I’m sure my real weight is a little lower since I have eaten a lot today, but my previous highest weight while stuffed to the gills was 139.2, so I’m still considering it a milestone.
Earlier today, I also wore a pair of work pants that I hadn’t worn in a while because they had been quite loose and it was annoying that I had to wear a belt with them. They fit uncomfortably tight around the stomach and pretty much perfect everywhere else now. Very exciting, albeit a bit annoying for work since now I definitely don’t have any pants that fit if the big ones won’t (recently because of hot weather, I had been wearing loose dresses and not pants).
I’m currently in the middle of a heavy cream cycle - about a week into it. 140 was actually my goal, but it wasn’t a limit and I’m going to keep going at least until I run out of cream. I didn’t think to start taking them at the beginning, but 3 days ago, my measurements were:
Thigh: 23.5 inches
Belly: 34 inches
Hip: 39 inches
Bust: 34 inches
Waist: 29 inches
Weight: 137.9 lbs
And I’ll update again either when I finish the cycle or feel like they’ve probably gone up significantly, whichever comes first.
I’m drinking cream in much smaller amounts than a lot of people here (1/2 cup in a shake along with 1 cup of chocolate milk), but I’m also a smaller person than a lot of people here, and I have a sensitive stomach so I’m trying to be careful. This small bit of cream has already been a little tough for my guts to weather, but I’m doing better than usual with it and have been eating plenty on top of it as well. Some nights my belly has been so bloated it felt like a beach ball, but mostly, it’s felt intoxicatingly soft. It’s unbelievable how fast cream works even in small amounts, I always forget and expect to have to wait longer.
Congrats and happy gaining!
1 year
Collegeguy2514:
Today at a great all-you-can-eat place, I had to scoot my chair back when my belly kept hitting the table. This is a new experience for me.
BlubberButt:
I don't fit in booths and my belly takes up so much room I can't push in my chair. when I see a skinny person that can STILL squeeze by me sitting there like the buddha, I know. I am FAT. 🐷
At my heaviest, booths were tight. I remember my wife was surprised the first time it happened. She's had trouble with booths for a long time but not me. She said, "wow, I'm normally the one who has trouble with booths." It was amazing.
I'm aiming to get there again.
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
I'll admit I haven't done much exercise at all since starting this gain. I go on short walks and took my kids swimming twice but thats about it. I haven't touched a weight or other strength training since the beginning of July.
Munchies:
I would get back into it. Depending on how you go about things, you won't lose weight by exercising. If anything, it will allow you to be more comfortable as you gain weight.
NoMoYoYo:
As I've mentioned in other topics, I love how soft this gain has been. I want to gain even more softness. In my belly, in my chest. I want to be squishy and jiggly. Could strength training affect that?
Munchies:
Unless you are putting in the work to make serious muscle gains, it will not. If anything, it will help you in your goal to be squishy.
Your body burns visceral fat (the hard fat surrounding your organs) before it burns subcutaneous fat (the squishy fat under your skin). So if you do light-to moderate strength training and cardio, it will help you to be softer than if you didn't exercise at all. You just have to keep up your calorie intake.
Ahh interesting. Well, I'm sure the calories won't be a problem. I eat a lot lol. I am going to try the month-long weaning you wrote about cause I need to slow down. I have some of my old bigger clothes, but I had to buy a bit more so I'm not wearing the same three or four things.
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
I'll admit I haven't done much exercise at all since starting this gain. I go on short walks and took my kids swimming twice but thats about it. I haven't touched a weight or other strength training since the beginning of July.
Munchies:
I would get back into it. Depending on how you go about things, you won't lose weight by exercising. If anything, it will allow you to be more comfortable as you gain weight.
As I've mentioned in other topics, I love how soft this gain has been. I want to gain even more softness. In my belly, in my chest. I want to be squishy and jiggly. Could strength training affect that?
1 year
Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.
Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.
NoMoYoYo:
Ain't that the truth. When I was eating healthy and lost weight I mostly stayed away from junk food because I know how pleasurable it can be. Along comes summer and a little bit turned into a little bit more which turned into a lot more. It's so addicting.
Munchies:
It's all about finding that balance. Eat the junk food, but don't give up the healthy food. Have you ever spoke to a person on an all junk food diet? They're not doing so hot.
They can't think straight. Their emotions are all over the place. They barely function and often abandon things that used to make them happy. And they often experience health issues at much lower weights. It's really sad to see when they have all these issues and they don't even weight 180 lbs.
NoMoYoYo:
I can understand that. I do eat a fairly balanced diet. Well maybe not totally balanced, but I do eat fruits and vegetables. Yesterday I had one of those bagged salads which was over 650 calories. When I'm in gaining I still have those, but I add a lot of junk. And to be honest I've had minimal issues at the doctors other than the normal needling about my weight...wonder what he would have said at my highest? My highest recorded there was about 15lbs less.
Munchies:
Honestly, if all your doctor can say to you is "You're fat. You should lose weight," you're not doing too bad in life. But I encourage you to do weight training if you aren't already doing it.
I recommend this to everyone, but especially older people. I've worked in the healthcare industry for many years. The biggest thing I hear from older people - especially overweight and obese older people - is that the knees are the first thing to go.
The last thing I want for people is to lose weight because their joints can't take it.
I'll admit I haven't done much exercise at all since starting this gain. I go on short walks and took my kids swimming twice but thats about it. I haven't touched a weight or other strength training since the beginning of July.
But if I am on my way to my 275 goal, I probably should start again.
1 year
Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.
Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.
NoMoYoYo:
Ain't that the truth. When I was eating healthy and lost weight I mostly stayed away from junk food because I know how pleasurable it can be. Along comes summer and a little bit turned into a little bit more which turned into a lot more. It's so addicting.
Munchies:
It's all about finding that balance. Eat the junk food, but don't give up the healthy food. Have you ever spoke to a person on an all junk food diet? They're not doing so hot.
They can't think straight. Their emotions are all over the place. They barely function and often abandon things that used to make them happy. And they often experience health issues at much lower weights. It's really sad to see when they have all these issues and they don't even weight 180 lbs.
I can understand that. I do eat a fairly balanced diet. Well maybe not totally balanced, but I do eat fruits and vegetables. Yesterday I had one of those bagged salads which was over 650 calories. When I'm in gaining I still have those, but I add a lot of junk. And to be honest I've had minimal issues at the doctors other than the normal needling about my weight...wonder what he would have said at my highest? My highest recorded there was about 15lbs less.
1 year
Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more
Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.
In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.
The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.
The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.
The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.
It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.
NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.
Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.
Ain't that the truth. When I was eating healthy and lost weight I mostly stayed away from junk food because I know how pleasurable it can be. Along comes summer and a little bit turned into a little bit more which turned into a lot more. It's so addicting.
1 year
Today I tucked in my shirt. I was out and about just to try it to see how I felt. I was at the mall briefly, had lunch at Wendy's and then did groceries. It was definitely out of my comfort zone, but it was okay. I think it looked good. I will try it again soon. It was for sure easier to do in front of strangers. I'm not ready to do it at work yet.
1 year